just about a week or two ago Trisha Paytas made a video about me which a lot
of people asked me to respond to and while in this video I'm not gonna be
really doing a direct response to that video I do want to address a really big
issue which is Trisha Paytas consistently playing the victim what is
up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
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so yeah I was sitting back I was watching the premiere of the new spill
video where they were talking about the situation between avocado it's part one
but anyways only get down in the description go check it out like spill
is the best tea channel out there alright my just so much research and
information and sometimes I'm like what new thing are you gonna add to this
conversation right and so is this flawless no anyways as I watched it I
started to recognize a pattern of behavior and this pattern of behavior is
calling people a stalker and trying to push that narrative whenever she doesn't
like somebody alright and I saw this I saw this happening in the spill video
she bought it instances of Trisha Paytas doing this to Nina
unrated to Daniel Carroll to Nishikado avocado and I bet you didn't know this
she even labeled me as a stalker oh my god it's it's kind of just like to the
point of almost like borderline harassment just like constantly coming
for us it's like if it's on Erasmus very stalkerish behavior it's scary it's like
it's scary no what we're seeing aside from this
pattern of behavior of calling people she doesn't like a stalker is she has
consistently playing the victim and here's one of the issues that Trisha
Paytas has as well as many other public figures
YouTube creators as a whole is they want everything both ways and here's what I
mean by that they want to be able to be in the public spotlight get all of the
fame the admiration the money that comes along with it but they don't want to be
talked about in any kind of negative light and you can't have that you can't
have it both ways all right and something that I've been thinking about
quite a bit lately and it goes back to some of the controversy I had a couple
months ago is where is this line where is this line where people mind who you
talk about and if it hurts their feelings or not like Trisha Paytas
although we could say she is a youtuber she is being talked about in mainstream
media all right so just the other day I saw that enews tweeted out about her all
right not only that but Trisha Paytas just tweeted out before I made this
video that she has a big announcement coming that's going to be announced on e
all right so she is kind of in the mainstream but she also happens to be a
youtuber so she sees videos like by now are we not allowed to talk about her
because some things we say might hurt her feelings I don't really think that's
right I really don't think that's fair like what if no journalist could talk
about anybody in a negative way if it were to hurt their feelings
you see what I mean like that's not how this works if something is being put out
there in the public we have their way to discuss it to analyze it say whatever
the heck we want about it all right it is purely based on our opinions as well
as the evidence that is presented through recorded videos one of the other
things that really really bothers bothers me about the whole playing the
victim idea is the trolling right like Trisha Paytas will be labeled as a troll
she will say she is at well she said she makes trolling videos and this comes up
quite a bit I've had people leave me comments on like this and like oh no
she's just trolling she's just trolling and my here's the
thing that is like the perfect disguise that is the perfect thing to do right
and like all like this this video right here like if
you haven't watch together Trisha Paytas smashing your face into a pizza quite
interesting
but anyways this is like the perfect alibi because whatever she does
something like this she doesn't have to take any accountability any
responsibility for that because she easily sweep it on the rug and just say
hey I was just trolling bro that's all it was
you see what I mean and like that is what she's doing to protect herself from
criticism so speaking of criticisms one of the
main criticisms I got was people said that I diagnosed Trisha Paytas with
borderline personality disorder first off I can't diagnose anybody but second
off when discussing this I used a clip of hosts saying she has
borderline personality disorder now after all of this the most controversial
part was when Trisha came out and basically said that the rerun soul lied
about her having borderline personality disorder and I'm a I'm just gonna roll a
clip from Chris's channel now he was in the description like Trisha has by
borderline personality disorder I don't it's messed up it's gross it's honestly
so disgusting I do want to say this Trisha
there was absolutely something that you were wrong about in your video which is
that I never ever ever speculate about a person's diagnosis yo yo yo
if you're in a good mood you're gonna love it isn't that the fun part though
about dating someone with like borderline personality like you don't
know what mood they're gonna be in are they gonna be happier they're gonna be
mad you're always in a good mood i'ma say not to be honest in this specific
situation I don't actually believe that the reward soul is exactly speculating
because as you've seen he has provided actual clips and evidence to suggest
that Trisha Paytas might possibly have borderline personality disorder now when
I release that I had quite a few penis players come
even though many other creators have made videos showing the multiple times
where she admitted to being diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and
in recent video she has also said she's never been diagnosed with anything so we
have to ask ourselves which one is it and here's the thing when it comes to
trolling it's one of its one of two ways right URIs are trolling and it doesn't
matter because this was an act this was a show none of it is real so people can
say whatever they want to about it because it was a fake fictional made-up
video but then on the other hand if it is real right then you're not trolling
so which one is it because you can't get upset if it's about a fake video that
you did so I hope you see what I mean where she's using this this trolling
facade to cover up anything she wants whenever she wants and it bums me out so
those of you who haven't been paying attention I keep getting comments like I
thought you weren't gonna talk about Trisha Paytas anymore I thought you
weren't gonna talk about trucha papist anymore so let me address that real
quick when the controversy with me first kicked off alright a lot of it centered
around Trisha Paytas and my stupid DM that I sent to the drama channels about
Trisha Paytas they kicked off Trisha Paytas was upset I made an apology video
to Trisha Paytas alright but recently I asked you the viewers what your thoughts
were about it and 90% of you said listen she's a public figure you're doing
commentary you can talk about it but here's the thing like yes I initially
felt bad but the more information that is coming out like when I first started
making videos about Trisha Paytas I knew absolutely nothing about this woman
alright I was covering a lot of different mental health topics people
kept recommending me talk about Trisha Trisha Paytas videos especially or toxic
ass relationship with Jason Nash that is all I knew about her alright but
now as I'm getting to know her more especially with this Nikki kado
Mikado situation blowing up and so many videos coming out you know backing up
what Nicki cotta was saying and how she's done this to many many many other
people like if I would have known that originally I would have pretty much said
what PT pi said in his video where she's not really a good person so I'll end
with this in no way do I hate Trisha Paytas I always try to say this I love
everybody but I don't like everybody alright and in my opinion in my opinion
Trisha Paytas needs a lot of work and she might even need a break
Trisha Paytas has been talking a lot about therapy lately and it's something
I've been staying away from but I could do a whole video about that but like
I've worked in addiction treatment I've worked with many therapists I've worked
with many people who are going to therapy because I'm not a therapist and
you can always tell people who are twisting what their therapist says it's
something that you kind of start getting a knack for you can hear they're talking
about therapy and you ask yourself like are they telling their therapist the
whole truth does a therapist know everything that's going on what did your
therapist really say because don't get me wrong there are some terrible
therapists out there but I'll ask you this do you have anybody in your life
who started seeing a therapist and whatever that person would talk to you
they would tell you that their therapist said that you're the problem most
therapists will not do that unless is some kind of like brutally abusive
relationship and they want you to set up boundaries and they want you to get out
of it right like when I was working at the addiction treatment center I would
tell my clients constantly constantly to beat that accountability into their
heads I'm like don't you ever ever go back home until your family that what we
talked to you here was was that your family needs to change for you to stay
sober because that's not how it works all right we all need to take personal
responsibility and accountability for our actions and our mental health and
the work that we're putting into it but this pattern of behavior with Trisha
Paytas shows that she does not like to take personal responsibility or
accountability for anything so whenever I see new videos coming up reminding me
that she is refusing to apologize to Nick for what she did like I could do a
whole video about how she skirts around all of the main points to try to make it
seem like she just felt unsafe right there are so many contradictions but
anyways check out the Spill video spill like has a whole segment like talking
about the different contradictions that Trisha Paytas said and did and
everything like that in the scenario but at the end of the day for anybody's
defending Trisha Paytas don't worry Trisha Paytas is a big girl she's not a
victim she could take care of herself and like she said countless times she
has a massive support group around her to help her through these difficult
times all right but I wish through the best
I hope therapy works out for and that's all I got for this video so if you like
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