to be talking about 'how to be a
deliberate creator.' So I'm going to give
you five steps for deliberately creating
your life in partnership with the
universe, so that you can make the most
of working with the universe to get the
results that you want. So the first step
is - you want to be creating things that
are deeply meaningful to you and you'd
think that sounds like an obvious thing
but here's the point... There's lots of
things you want to create in your life and
you want to be emotionally connected to
the things that you're creating
sometimes people say well I want more
time, I'm creating more time or I want more
money, that's what I'm creating, I'm creating
more money, I'm creating the abundance
that I want. Or I want a new job. It's
really really common things that people
say that they want. But those are not the
things you want. Those are the stepping
stones to get the thing you want okay. So
the reason it's really important and
I'll step you through those particular
examples, is because those things usually
don't really connect at a deep
meaningful level to you. They don't
usually generate the type of emotional
resonance that you want and need. For
example the reason you want more time is so
that you can be free to do things that
are important and meaningful to you. The
reason you want more money is because of
what you think money is going to buy you
which will be some kind of experience,
which generates some kind of feeling.
If you want a new job it's not really the
job you want it's to feel more purposeful
or it's to have whatever kind
of experience, or to meet whatever kind of
people, or do whatever kind of tasks that
light you up. And so you want to go a
step further than the functional thing
you want and really find the thing it is at
the end, the end result that is
meaningful and emotionally resonant.
The reason you want to do that is because
when you are emotionally invested
and you're really connected to what you want
and it's meaningful, here's what happens:
Your vibration goes through the
roof. You resonate and vibrate on a
daily basis with such power and
positivity, and excitement and
inspiration for that thing, because you're
connected to it at that deep level and that
is what the universe listens to.
The universe ain't listening to what you say you
want it's listening to the vibe that you're
putting out, which is usually the most
easiest way to know what vibe your're putting out
is by how you feel.
Ok so you want to be in that high vibe
feeling state then just get deeply
connected emotionally to the thing you want
and it's got to be something that's
meaningful to you.
Ok the second step for being a
deliberate creator is to - when you go
about creating the thing that you want
you gotta do it for the passion and the
joy of it. You just got to do it for
you.
You want to be realizing in your
creative process whether your doing it for
any other negative reasons, any other
subconscious drivers that might be going
on. For example - needing to prove yourself,
to yourself or other people. Needing to
meet expectations. Wanting to get
recognition or validation from other
people, the world around you. Any of those
things are going to bring a dampener to
your vibe basically ok. Another really
common reason that people go about
creating something that they really want
and they don't realize it's not a very
high vibe motivator is that they're
doing something in order to fill a void
within. So they're missing something,
they feel incomplete, they feel like if
they can get this thing then they'll feel
complete. The problem with that is, if
that's driving you is that there's this is part of you
that knows if you don't get that result
then it's a big threat to you, and it's a big
problem, because you're gonna feel the
continued void, or the continued not
enoughness within yourself or in your life.
And so it's kind of like this,
pressure on you to create, and you don't
need that hand breaking your deliberate
creation process, it's not helping your
vibe when you've got that kind of stuff
going on. So what you want to do is just
understand if you've got any of that
stuff going on in your subconscious mind,
start to clear it away and address it,
become the master of your mind. And go
about creating just for the fun of it!
Just for the joy of it and staying in
that high vibe state.
Okay the third step for being a
deliberate creator and particularly
partnering with the universe to create
the results you want, is that you want to
focus on what you want and you want to
know that the universe's
job is 'how' it's going to happen.
Your job is 'what' - universe's job is 'how'.
Here's what people do, they focus on what
they want and then they get all caught
up like a little kitten with it's claws out
in a ball the wool, trying to figure out
how to create the outcome. Now from
your narrow viewpoint, your little mind,
in this giant universe, you can't see
all the ways that this could come about.
How are you meant to know the most
expedient magical ways that you could go
about creating this outcome. And the
answer is: you can't. You can only see the
initial steps forward so the first few
things you need to do and the bigger
picture, the vision. But you don't
necessarily need to know how to get from
here where you are, all the way to where
you want to be.
You only need to know that first step,
those first few steps and then you need
to trust that the universe has got your
back.
It knows all the paths available to you
and how to reach you, and how to send you
guidance, and how to help you with
synchronicities, and divine timing and
divine order and all those things. So you
need to focus on what, and let the
universe do its job of focusing on how, ok
and then trust that that is true. Trust
in that process. When you put your focus
on what you want, the universe starts to
respond. If you're in that high vibe
state and you're holding your vision, the
universe knows to bring to you guidance,
to bring to you the answers, to help you
step forward. And the fourth step for
being a deliberate creator and
partnering with The Universe is once you
have gone through those first three
steps, you now need to take what I call
the obvious next action. Wherever you stand
with what you want, you're emotionally
connected to it,
it's high vibe state, you're focusing on the what. There
is at least one step that you know you
need to take. Doesn't matter who you are
and what your goal is, there is always
one obvious next step. One practical
thing that you could do right now, even
if it's only tiny, just to take some action
and step forward. The reason it's
important to do that is because, you
have to participate in your life, you
have to be in action. The Universe doesn't
just serve it up on a platter. The Universe
meets you halfway.
Which means you have to start getting in
action. Now again, you don't have to
all the actions you just take the action
that you know how to take and then
The Universe will help you by starting to
unfold and make clear the next steps.
It's really amazing, it's been true for
me on my journey and for everyone else I know
that once you start taking one or two
actions it actually does become
clear quite quickly what to do next. But
if you just stand still, nothing ever
becomes clear. You've got stagnant energy,
you've got lack of clarity. So I want you to
think about, what is the one next obvious
step that you need to take, for whatever
it is that you want to create and then
you've got to get in action and today is
the day. It's never a better time to start
then now. And then the final step for being
a deliberate creator is this - once you've
taken your obvious next action, you need
to pay attention for how The Universe is
guiding you.
If The Universe is going to serve you up
signs and guidance, and show you how, and
show you the way, give you right time, right
people, right opportunities, synchronicities.
They're going to be subtle.
Usually they don't come and knock you on
the head. They'll be typically things in
your daily life, but if you've got
blinkers on, you're lost in your mind just
having all of your thoughts and not
paying attention. Or you're in
frustration or impatience or whatever it is.
You will miss the guidance. So you want to,
pay attention, be present, be calm,
be mindful, notice what The Universe is
guiding you with, and then, follow the signs.
Not just notice them, act on them. When
you start to see the way forward, you
take again, the next obvious action, and
then the universe responds and you take
another obvious action, and then The Universe
responds and that is called co-creation.
So those are my five steps for being a
deliberate creator, working with The
Universe to get the results and the life