let's talk about kruzel as i've loved this story uh... this is so it was
written on salon dot com and um... writer by the name of the marty becker
man talks about his experience is planning a wedding
so these mail right and it will recede in the country right now is more more
males are actually getting involved in the planning process of a wedding so of
course you've heard about the stereotypical bridezilla of the woman
who did starts micro-managing the wedding and goes crazy you know boxing
people around in focusing on every tiny little detail that big day while now
since more and more couples are starting to live together men whether they like
it or not are forced to also take part in the planning process marty becker
many is one of those guys and he shares his personal story during this block
so i've read up today because act
it really plays into of thought that i've had about weddings for a long time
weddings always sound like an absolute disaster okay he talks about how he's
had breakdowns
he uh... is having a horrible relationship with his fiance at the
moment because you start fighting with your fiance over every little detail the
wedding the family start feeling uh... apparently the seating arrangements of
the most difficult aspect of the wedding because of the families can't get over
their trial monday fight with one another during the wedding so you have
to figure out where seen everyone
uh...
and i speak that weddings make more sense when you love don't have that and
you look somewhere else
you know i i had for yourself is that i sent him my wedding
my wife wanted uh... while on a roses for the centerpiece of my life i hate
rangers as you know and
move hydrangea yet he absolutely in this country jess
this is ridiculous donors and this one bit me and my letter out of touch alone
and now because i don't get it
why do these guys care
what what it would in a share
benefits hydrangeas roses it is states and local is one night who cares let the
wake of a party the main the wedding is really name for the light is ready for
the for the parents for the most as is standing you know it's their big day to
see them their standard argument in you know have their own life
so you do the waiting for them who care with regard to be concerned about the
photographer and the senior who cares i don't get it one bit
prove those out there
stop caring so much you're crazy i don't think they're crazy at first of all i'd
hate the idea that away should only be what that bride wants or should only be
with the parents want
and he lets keep it real in most cases it is for the parents right and it's
always that families that make it an unbearable experience because every
freakin family member wants to be greedy and have what they want to have a
wedding rather than focusing on what the bride and groom one from the wedding it
drives me nuts
uh... but anyway ab how fast you wanna care they should be able to take part in
the process of planning the wedding
i still get by planning a wedding is still with difficult it seems like he
would be difficult right it says ceremony and it's a reception you plan a
party but for some reason like we have this system setup that makes it as
difficult as possible it costs a nominal add you know prices are inflated for
weddings it which drives me crazy as well
uh... you know the centerpieces the flowers the phone the cake but why is it
a captain e fifty thousand dollars on it's not fifty thousand dollars being
you know what i mean a couple thousand dollars when in reality only cost like
two hundred dollars to make that case
isn't saying
so you get a colonies like disagreements in these fights nations it sounds like a
horrible thing and people lose sight of what a wedding is supposed to be about
yeah but at the same time is not that bad
and he hear that
had once but most of my fine
it's totally fine and then when i i don't know that ninety six
has a long time ago it was that i was twenty years there's still an end
it so
genocide that's melaka
sixty-pound letter that that jenkins on teaching with a picture if you'd like to
know giving the camera that come hither stare my god look so young in this
little boy in my frozen for the way towards about it
uh... u_n_ like well and i thought i was totally love to the rules of the gloves
his home like good intentions
but you know what justifies items one often the receptions in advance of
michael jackson so that was all good