hey what's up it's me Jessica J and I was just wondering if you've ever sat
and thought to yourself how do I get girls to chase me well if some glad you
asked cuz today I'm gonna go over the one thing that actually gets us women
psychologically turned towards you and chasing you down like you want to call
the police on us and to make sure you never miss out on another opportunity to
be hunted by us women don't forget to hit the subscribe button right here
right now okay so one guy that I follow religiously is a man that you might know
as Tony Robbins and one thing he always says is where energy flows no energy
flows where attention goes so how does that help you with women well here's the
thing a lot of guys especially on this channel come on and try to find ways to
attract women talk about things women want or like or are interested in and be
the guy that women would be a track to do what's the common denominator in all
this it's focusing heavily on women and here's the thing the guys who are like
out there thirstily trying to be who we want them to be are the guys feeding us
energy and making us think they're like okay I guess I gotta put more energy
into myself because like I said energy flows where attention goes and if all
your attention is fixated on her and getting her guess what I'm gonna sit
there and think even more about myself it's the reason why if you see somebody
in the middle of the street just like pointing and looking up people will
usually follow suit but if instead you focus your attention and your energy on
yourself like what do I want for myself what women are worth my time what do I
even think is worth my time when it comes to other people women will
gravitate towards that and feed you that energy that same energy that you put
into yourself so there's a study recently done I couldn't even tell you
what it was and I feel awful not quoting it but I read about this study where
when two people interact what they're doing is their brains start to form one
entity no matter where you are in the relationship if you're just
talking and meeting for the first time or if you're already living together and
hating one another your brains are starting to function as if you are one
being so if you think about it in that respect when you are out there focusing
on women focusing on women focusing on her or her so what happens when you go
out there and you're interacting with this woman and you're focusing all this
energy into her what her brain says is okay we've got so much energy coming
into us so we have to go in accept mode so for everything you give give give
she's gonna do it okay I'll take it I'll take it I'll take it and you'll see this
happen a lot with the guys who are fucking assholes and drunks who are all
about themselves women are like I'll give you more I'll give you more like
give you more whereas when you have these nice guys we're giving her gifts
and compliments and always there for her and always giving her attention and
texting her she goes into except mode it's our bodies and our brains way of
balancing out the amount of energy being given and the amount of energy being
taken in so I was at a beach bar this weekend with my girlfriends and we're
all scantily clad in our bikinis and naturally there's a bunch of guys coming
up and talking to us hey what's up how are you where you from
how do you guys know each other how's she going so far you know basically a
bunch of shit that I don't feel like answering while I'm like on the dance
floor I mind you none of these guys are unattractive
I probably you know would have been okay to talk to any of them had I ain't givin
a shit about talking to men at that point but when I'm at the bar club with
my girlfriend I don't want to have to give energy towards something that is
just yeah I want my energy high-end and I want it you know amplified I want good
times so as my girlfriends are sitting here
playing the polite oh there's this older gentleman I would say like 70s 80s
probably and he's a rather rotund man think um Tony Soprano or Peter Griffin
and he's walking by and as he's walking by these guys are arms up and him and I
make eye contact yeah and he continues walking and I see he's got this crowd
other older rotund men with him and they are just killing and I was like
how are you hanging out with those guys so in my inebriated state IV line for
the men over yonder not even knowing who they are I just go over and I'm dancing
with them have a good time my girlfriend see me they're like let's see later guys
and they beeline over to me as well and before you know we're having a grand old
time with these grand ol granddad's while the other guys are left in the
dust wondering what the hell they did wrong really it wasn't like they did
anything wrong so much as these granddad's were so full of energy within
themselves and they were just giving it to themselves and you know spreading it
out into the air to the point where it was contagious enough that I felt
compelled to go over them glad to go over there without even being invited
and so do my girlfriend's so this psychological trick that will magnetize
women to you is if you focus your excitement and enthusiasm and energy
into yourself that's the stuff that gets us women attracted to you in a
psychological energy state it works as a magnet to be like ooh gonna be right
over there so stop focusing on all the women stop
focusing on what it's gonna take to attract us or what kinds of things we
like to talk about cuz that shit doesn't matter all you gotta do is be excited
about you and we will feel the exact same way
and come hunting you down and if you know you need a little more assistance
in creating that excitement and enthusiasm about yourself don't forget
to join one of my membership levels where I can better assist you more
personally and more intimately when it comes to getting and keeping the women
you want thanks for watching as always and I'll see you guys next time