When are you supposed to kiss her on a first date? When is the exact best time? That's what we're
going to talk about. The reason why I wanted to make this video and teach you this is because
a lot of guys have this question, and they seem to get it wrong. And if you get this wrong, you
could end up potentially in the friendzone, or the creep zone. To avoid the friend or the creep zone,
follow the instructions on this video, so you know exactly what to do when it comes down to
kissing her on a first date. If you want to know how to kiss a girl on a first date,
or really kiss a girl anytime, the way to initiate a kiss, I want you to check out a free video that
I have. It's called Tripp's Tension Technique; it's my little technique to build tension
and go for the kiss. There's something that I do, and I show you in a demonstration on this video
exactly what to do, how to build that tension and how to, boom, go for the kis. It is 100% free – go
down in the description, check that out, get on my email list. I will send that to you.
And by the way, I send out emails every single week, multiple times per week giving more content,
which is going to help you with more tips, tricks and techniques to be more attractive, and to meet
women, and get over your shyness. Check that out. It's completely free. Now let's talk
about when you're going to actually go for the kiss. My number one rule here, my baseline rule
when it comes to initiating the kiss, you want to be doing it on the first date 100%. I know
that might sound obvious because the title is when do you do it on the first date. But just
know that you have to do it on a first date. The only exceptions I would say is if you're really
not feeling the connection. And I don't mean you're just sitting there thinking like I don't
know if she likes me or not. It's not about her, we're focused on you, this is very important here.
We're not focused on how she feels, we'll never know exactly how she feels. Because
sometimes you might be guessing and you might be completely wrong. Her body language, her attitude,
all that stuff... I mean, listen, I've been on so many dates before where I was convinced by the end
of this, there's no way she's interested, the date went terrible, she never asked me the questions,
she didn't seem interested in the date, all this stuff. And then what happens? She wants to see
me again. Take the guessing out, forget all of that and focus on you. Back to my point here.
You are the one that's important here. Are you feeling a connection towards her? Are
you interested in her? Are you feeling like you're interested in getting closer to her,
getting more physical with her? If you are, then the answer should be yes, you should be doing it
on a first date. If you're unsure about how you feel, don't go for the kiss because then you're
gonna be acting weird about it, it's gonna be hard for you to actually do it. Mentally, you're not
going to be all there. But if you dig this girl, if you like her, if it was a great first date,
don't worry about how she feels, still go for the kiss. When are you going to do it? You're going
to do it towards the end of the first date. Now there are some people giving advice out there you
do it in the middle of the first date. If there is a moment, you can do it great. If there's not
just do it at the end. There's always a perfect moment at the end because you're saying goodbye.
But don't force it too much. And it feels so much less forced at the end of the date.
Again, if there's a moment where you guys are sitting next to each other,
and maybe you're at the bar, maybe you're at a booth and it just feels right and there's
a moment to go for the kiss, I'm not going to stop you. But if there's not that moment, just
make that moment at the end of the date and you can do that by just not saying anything,
and just looking in her eyes, and then just going for the kiss. How do you do that? Get Tripp's
Tension Technique. That's down in the description, click that link. But more to this idea. Understand
that I know a lot of guys are really scared. This is honestly one of my biggest sticking points.
I know a lot of guys are scared to go for the kiss. That's a big hurdle like going from we're
not physical to now we're being physical. And that rejection is just eats you alive sometimes,
I get it. It's sort of a skill in itself to get to the point where you are comfortable going for
the first kiss. So let me just say, if you try it enough, if you do it enough, it's going to
be easy for you, and you're going to be able to do it. But also you got to know this part;
going for the kiss will 99% of the time not affect the way that she feels about you and
her attraction level for you. What I mean is that the act of going for the kiss is not going to turn
her off. A lot of guys get so nervous like, "If I go for the kiss it might be too soon."
If she likes you, it's not going to be too soon. And even if she does think it's too soon,
she's not going to be that upset that you went for it. Okay, she's still going to want to see
you again. The risk lies in not going for the kiss. If you don't go for the kiss...
A: you're putting more pressure on yourself. And with all that pressure, it's going to make
it even harder to go for the kiss for the next time. And this is going to be a very unenjoyable
experience because you're going through so much anxiety. Or B: if you don't go for it,
then you're not breaking that physical barrier and you could be put in the friendzone and we
don't want that. The only way to break out of the friendzone is to make sure that you're going for
something physical. Now if she rejects your kiss and that does happen from time to time,
it's not, again I repeat, it's not because you went for the kiss. She's not gonna be turned
off that you went to kiss her. She is just not interested in you and she wasn't interested in you
from halfway through the date and on. When you go for the kiss and she rejects it, it's not about
the kiss. It's just that it never was going to happen. Honestly, if you went for the kiss, and
she rejects it, there was probably never a chance of a second date. Now, there are exceptions.
There are some times when you go for a kiss and she says, "I'm not ready yet" and she still
agrees to a second date. That can happen, well great, then let that happen. Have that moment,
have her tell you that, have her know where she's at. That way, you'll know exactly what's going on.
And it wasn't going for the kiss that hurt it. She might just say, "Hey, I'm not ready yet."
And you say "okay, that's cool. No worries. If you're not ready yet, that's fine." You'll say
that and then you'll ask her out on a second date and then you'll go for it again. And she's still
not ready... well, I kind of question that. Like trying to figure out what kind of pace she's at,
but if you're comfortable with that pace, you are. You got to figure out what pace is comfortable for
you. That's another very important key element here. It's really about do your paces matchup.
It's never about going at the pace that she wants, it's about the pace that both of you want.
If you're on the fifth or sixth date, for example, and you guys haven't had sex yet, and that bugs
you, that's something that you want to do, and she's not ready yet. You don't have to be with
her anymore. If it's like the third or fourth date and she still doesn't want to kiss you but you do,
well, you guys are a different pace levels. It's about finding someone that you can be on the
right pace with, and of course, that's going to be according to the kind of woman you're with. Now,
I know that a lot of guys might put a woman on a pedestal. And they might just wait and wait and
hold off or go at the pace that she wants because they like her so much. But
really, that's just putting yourself in a bad position, you're not getting what you want.
This is not about forcing her, everything should always be under the idea of getting consent. But
make sure that you're going at the pace that you want and you find someone that matches that pace.
I digress, back to the kiss. The kiss is something that I want you to go forward towards the end of
the first date to make sure that you are avoiding the friendzone and that you are just gauging what
level she's at. So you can obviously move and escalate forward and be able to get to the point
that you want to with the physical relationship. Just know that going for the kiss will only help
you become more attractive, because that kiss is going to build more of that attraction. But
if she doesn't want it, it's just because she's not ready yet or she never liked you in the first
place. But if she's not ready yet, she will see you again. And if you want to know how to do this,
get Tripp's Tension Technique. It's amazing. Down below in the description, you have to check
this out. A complete and exact description and visualization and demonstration of the technique.
Check that out. Hope that helps. Subscribe for more and I'll see you on the next video.