hello ladies and gentlemen today we're going to be talking about some very
important subjects such as gas lighting and enabling with the Ace Family so stay tuned what is up
everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but
focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about
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belt and all of my lovely patrons out there I just uploaded a brand new video
um I did something today to kind of clean up some of the mess from my past a
lot of you know I'm still sitting I'm six-and-a-half years sober yeah still 6
or so anyways I just did something huge today that I've been working on for six
and a half years so anybody who's over on patreon go over there check out that
new video all right but yeah I've had a lot of requests to
talk about the ACE family drama a lot of people asked me to talk about the
lollipop incident I didn't really see a reason to like what do you guys want me
to add to the conversation it was messed up it was stupid
well here's well who's what I'll throw in a little neuroscience you know that
prefrontal cortex I keep talking to you about it's responsible for logical
decision making and impulse control alright like think about the steps that
you had to go through to film that entire thing and think it was a good
idea to upload on the Internet right like somebody who's mindful and
strengthening their prefrontal cortex through things like meditation or simple
mindfulness of being more aware of the present moment never would have uploaded
that so Austin go meditate or something get your act together alright anyways I
do want to talk about this because I was just eating lunch and Tristan's not
gonna agree with this but I'm gonna make three videos today I think I'm gonna do
a video about the psychology of cinemasins
if you watch cinemasins let me know down in the comments below because I have a
really cool video planned I think if you guys are interested in it anyways I was
just watching tea spill as I'm eating lunch I'm like oh this ace family is
messed up alright I don't know much about
um the wife and I'm sorry I don't know her name I'm not a face family fan but
Austin he done messing up and we have some prime examples of gas lighting as
well as enabling alright so I was completely unaware of this hundred
thousand dollar basketball shootout giveaway all right cool thing so anyways
for those of you who don't know basically Austin McBroom announced a hundred
thousand dollar giveaway for the ACE family members right they call their you
know I call you guys the rewired soldiers he calls you know their
subscribers that these family members right so he announces this hundred
thousand dollar giveaway tells people to enter not about a dog right and he says
it's for ace family members and all these people are trying to enter they
want to get in there they want to you know be part of this give away $100,000
alright ton of people get benefit from this but when the list was actually
released it's a ton a ton of super rich youtubers and celebrities now here's the
thing here's the thing when they started getting backlash Aussie tweets out like
basically just gaslighting everybody like whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa we do
things for you all the time we just wanted to do something for you know our
our creators you know and celeb friends right
and it's like no that's not how this works gaslighting is a form of
manipulation in which you try to make the other person question their sanity
right and what are the tactics that they use is that they're going to try to make
you feel guilty so what he was doing there is that he's trying to to bring up
the fact that they've done so much for you so you need to back up on us about
this which if he if he would have come at this situation saying like tag a
favorite celebrities and youtubers or whatever we're doing a giveaway for them
and all of that money is going towards charity but that's not how he framed it
he framed it as anybody can enter this giveaway right and he would he would
think it would be nice if people donated some of the money to charity
alright so this is really messed up and how does this relate to you you might
have somebody in your life who does this this is very common in abusive
relationships if you've ever experienced this let me know down in the comments
below a common scenario for is being in an abusive relationship
whether it's verbal emotional physical whatever it is but what they try to do
is say like oh how is it possible that I don't love you look at all the things I
buy you look at all these great things I do for you right
because here's one of the things and this is why I try to teach you guys
about you know being mindful and re-evaluating your value systems right
because if you are putting all of your value and stuff it is far easier to be
manipulated because when they're saying these things to you when they're telling
you look at all these things I bought for you look at all these things I did
for you if your values are placed on these objects you know what I mean then
it's easier to be manipulated but if your value system is based on the
relationships you have the emotional support that you have you know all of
these things then it's easier to catch that that manipulation tactic and be
like whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa all right so what he did there is a prime example
of it and I hope you learn from it all right but then it gets even worse when
they ended up doing this contest with all these celebs and youtubers and
things like that I've seen ends up getting a professional
basketball player who is also a friend to come in and this dude ends up winning
the hundred thousand dollars so people got completely bamboozled complete like
everybody everybody got screwed in this situation right so the other situation
that he's talked that TSP brought up was this app this app they're talking about
and they're 20 you know sell it to fans now there's part that I agree and
disagree with like here's the thing like people come at me people come at me
sideways look oh oh you're trying to like so your book you're trying to
difficut you're like I had somebody like say like oh oh you got a son to feed
like yeah people need to make money you know so like I don't I'm not gonna
necessarily like no harp on I'm too bad by like you know using like a sales
tactic of like hey come get exclusive content hell I just talked about it in
the beginning of this video that's one of the benefits of being a patron okay
but like they didn't even have content pre-recorded for the launch of the app
so the issue is is that people are paying for this app and
have any Catherine Paiz or Austin McBroom Content now what I will say this and this is not victim-blaming
but now let's transition into enabling you need to cancel your subscription
like if you're somebody watching this if you're some how an ace family number
cancel your subscription all right like it's that 8h old saying like screw be
once no no fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me
right and when we're talking about you know fooling me once that's the first
month of the payment with no content way after day you got a backup out of there
and you guys like I know I give some tough love but you gotta understand this
is also like not visit lessons that I had to learn but if I keep hanging out
with the same crappy people and the same crappy things keep happening or if I
have a friend who kids backstabbing me and I keep hanging out with them
eventually like at what point in my life okay maybe maybe I need to make better
choices my son actually just went through a similar situation he has this
it's not so great friend on Xbox who is just like like verbally abused my son
and just said like you know mean things and pull it and stuff like that and
don't get me wrong I barge in my son's room all the time like hey be nice right
but anyways he keeps playing with this kid they keep getting into it I'm like
dude just block him just put play with him there are millions of people playing
for tonight stop playing with him way but like my
son keeps we adding him and playing with him and then the kid does it again and I
straight up telling my ten-year-old son I said you know like I don't have any
sympathy I've told you this and you keep doing it right like at what point do we
take responsibility okay anyways sorry for that little tough love segment right
there but we need to quit enabling the ace
family so here's the thing we just talked about three things that you know
they've been doing over the past month or so okay from the lollipop incident to
this basketball thing to their app right there that video right behind me that
video right behind me has millions of views I think it's at 3.5 million I'm
not sure that thing has a pre add as well as multiple mid-roll ads I
think it might have four mid-roll ads okay and I'm on my desktop so the one I
just I tried to get that screenshot right there
and when I click through and did an on skippable ad which pays content creators
even more right so we are enabling their behavior alright and for anybody out
there and there's not really a solution there's I don't think maybe eight family
members are actually going to watch this video but you know I'm not in that way
that mentality of like you know mob mentality and these masked boycotts and
things like that but like you really do got to think about it for example Gus
Johnson Gus Johnson hilarious creator twisting actually got me into his
content but he made a video yesterday about Chris Brown I'm actually gonna
link it down below and he was just he was just pissed and
confused because with all the stuff going on with our Kelly and the
documentary and everything like that like basically Gus was sitting there
like why why are people still supporting Chris Brown and Gus did all this
research and laid it out how Chris Brown is just keep doing his same thing over
and over and over and over and over again right and we're the ones enabling
him people are enabling him and we lift these people to a point where they're
somehow above the law and in recent videos I've got a lot of backlash from
stands of other creators and stuff and that's cool but I do hope what am I like
my main goal my main goal is to help all of you but yeah I guess you know part of
it is to call out poor behavior on this platform because you gotta understand
somebody like Chris Brown started off messing up at a smaller level his first
major incident was with Rihanna but you keep getting away with it you keep
getting away with it you keep getting away with it right and then like
something that Gus brought up was that other celebrities that he idolizes are
endorsing Chris Brown too so why do people have the motivation to change if
they're being enabled constantly you know what I mean like Gus went through
IMDB for Chris Brown and just TV appearances
movie appearances you know um music all these things right so I I didn't want to
bring up the Gus Brown the Gus Johnson thing just Brown what are they related
because the Gus Johnson thing but it just popped in my head so in no way am I
saying what Austin is doing or the ace family is doing is anywhere near the the
physical assaults are countless physical assaults the Chris Brown is doing but I
just want to let you know this is how people get to that level cost in
enabling it starts out small so when you look at the Logan pulse when you look at
the Jake Paul's when you look at Rice gum when you look at the ace family when
you look at these people you've got to see we are enabling their
behavior and here's the thing I always say like doing YouTube cleanse right
like purge your YouTube list so for example I know a lot of you are
subscribed to creators just because you like watching the trainwreck right well
you are you are encouraging that trainwreck you see what I'm saying
did any of you see that episode of black mirror where it was like what was it
called like 1 million credits or something like that I'll have a
screenshot you know we're like there it was like that singing competition or
whatever but they were being encouraged like because based on this point system
this value system like black mirror does a good job of making us look at our
society and where it can end up but people aren't changing you know what I
mean so again like if you don't support
somebody and you don't support their actions please stop please stop watching
unsubscribe that's the only message that they're gonna hear you know what I mean
me personally there have been shows that I stopped watching
there have been musicians that I stopped listening to and all these things and
Mike and it's because I don't feel right supporting them and that's something
that helps me go to sleep at night and I told you guys you know if you look at
you know Freud and talking about the subconscious and things like that there
is a part of our brain that knows that knows what we're doing is wrong you see
what I mean by by knowing that that starts to build up your own anxiety
something that negative self-talk that you might have might because you are
supporting people who your morals do not aligned with does that make sense so
I just want you guys to think about this stuff when it comes to creators but also
the people in your life like I'm a recovering drug addict and alcoholic
people enabling me was killing me and I didn't get better I did not get better
until everybody shut me out the last thing that my mom ever did for me was
say the only thing I would do for you is to pay rent for your silver living and
I'm lucky a lot of people don't get that but my mom wasn't giving me money she
wasn't giving me a place to say friends family members all cut me off so the
only way she was gonna help me was by doing something that was gonna help me
get help right and sometimes you got a force a person's hand so in the context
of YouTube creators unsubscribe quit watching their videos and giving them
millions and millions and millions of views like you guys man adsense ain't
that great but when you do it millions of times
with a bunch of pre mid rolls they made a bunch of money off of screwing
everybody over all right but anyways I want you to let me know down in the
comments below have people gasp gasp let you in the past and try to manipulate
you with things all right or let's ask this - or can you relate to my story
have people enabled your bad behavior alright let's have a conversation down
in the comments below okay but anyways that's all I got for this video let me
know again down in the comments below if you'd be interested in the video title
the psychology of cinemasins you guys have a really good idea my head anyways
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