Respect is one of the fastest ways to get a woman attracted, a woman will never sleep with someone
that she doesn't respect. And she absolutely will not be in any sort of relationship with a man that
she doesn't respect. Here's how you're going to get her to respect you and get her obsessed over
you. This is going to take a little bit of time. But once you build this up, it's going to be very
fruitful for your dating life. First, you have to have a lifestyle that's somewhat fun. And I don't
mean that you have to be on private jets every weekend. But yeah, travel should be part of your
life, you should be doing fun things, going to fun events, hanging out with friends. You shouldn't
have a lifestyle. That's super boring. And by the way, that's subjective. I mean, it doesn't matter
what it is, but you should be doing things, you should be an active individual. A lot of women
who see a guy who has that active lifestyle will respect because she's going to think, this guy is
doing something with his life. He's not just some boring random dude. But also, she's going to want
to be part of that lifestyle. She's going to be more interested in the guy who has things
going on for him. He likes things, he's active in things that he does like, whether it's sports,
or if it's going out to certain restaurants, or being a foodie, or like I said earlier,
travel. Whatever it is, you have some sort of substantial lifestyle, that she can be like, hey,
if I'm with this guy, this is going to be a good time, we're not going to get bored. Number two,
you are well socialized. What does that mean? That means that when you're talking to her,
and you're talking to others, and she sees you socializing with other people, you're good at it.
You're pretty charismatic. You're comfortable around people. You're not a shy dude. You're
a guy who has friends, who has some sort of social network. And I do not mean online. Yes,
I guess it does help if you have a large following online, but that is not going to be as important
as when she's with you in the flesh in person and she sees how you communicate with other people.
Or are you sort of awkward around her and other people? Is it sort of strange when you're trying
to connect with people and she sees that like, he doesn't seem like a guy who goes out often or who
interacts with people often. One of the cues that a woman looks for is a man who is well socialized.
David Buss talks about this, in his book, The Evolution of Desire, because a man in theory,
who is well socialized and well connected is going to help be able to support her and the family for
the future. Number three, similar to this, but it really is in its own category is the fact
that you're comfortable around women. So, beyond being comfortable socializing, you're comfortable
around women, you're comfortable around her, she doesn't want to see you being shy around her,
or have some inability to flirt with her or move interactions forward physically. She doesn't want
to see any sort of sexual awkwardness when you guys are together. You know,
it sounds kind of funny to say this. And it sounds very counterintuitive, but women actually like a
guy who has been with other women, who has had experiences with other women. You know,
generally speaking, a woman doesn't really crave wanting to be with a guy who's a virgin,
she wants to know that this guy is desired by other women, and therefore comfortable around
other women, and being able to socialize and do whatever he needs to do around women. Next, you
have a job that supports you well, that does not mean you need to be making six figures. Of course,
it really just depends on where you live, you know, if you live in San Francisco, and you're
not making six figures, you're probably broke. But if you live in rural Texas somewhere and
you're making $60,000 per year, you might have a beautiful, amazing big house and be able to have a
great lifestyle. So it really all depends on where you live, but you should have some sort of job
that is supporting a lifestyle. That doesn't mean you're living in filth, you're living in trash,
or living at home, and you have enough money to do things to go out. You're not living paycheck to
paycheck. You have money that is discretionary, that you can use to be able to do things.
You're gonna have to have that anyways, because you're gonna have to take women on dates,
you're gonna have to go out with them, you're gonna want to go on trips, you're gonna want to
do things. You're gonna want to be active, so you have to have some sort of job that makes a decent
salary relative to the city that you're in. If a woman knows that you can take care of yourself,
enough to have a decent lifestyle then that's great. That's the bare minimum. You do not have
to be super wealthy. Obviously that helps. But you need to be able to take care of yourself. Speaking
of taking care of yourself. Let's talk about that. Taking care of yourself also is the way that you
present yourself when you're talking to a woman, when you're on a date, when you do an approach.
The way that you take care of yourself is the way that you groom yourself, the way that you
take care of your skin, the way that you dress, your hygiene, the way that you that you smell,
your scent. Your physical appearance is going to tell her how you take care of yourself and how
much you actually care. If you focus on grooming, hygiene, and style, and skincare, all these things
mixed together, is going to be a guy who can really make a baller first impression. And I
want that for you. So make sure that you're taking care of some of those things and that you're not
leaving that to the side, that's obviously important. And a lot of guys get this wrong,
they don't pay enough attention to it, and they can do little tweaks that actually make it that
much better just by changing the size of your shirt, for example, or maybe getting contacts or
getting LASIK or specific glasses that you might have that you can exchange for another pair of
glasses that's going to make you more attractive. All these different ways to optimize your look.
We actually help with that in the Tripp Advice Accelerator Coaching Program. If you want to learn
about that, there's a quick video you can watch at www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com. Go there right now,
check it out, and you can book a free call with us to discuss how we can help you in your dating
life. Another way to get a woman obsessed with you is to make sure that when you're talking to her,
you're not discussing anything negative. You're not talking about the disaster and state of the
world and the country. You're not complaining about your job and your friends. You're not
talking about your past childhood traumas. You're not complaining about generally anything.
Yeah, I know. It sounds like well is that even real life? Can someone do that forever? Well,
hopefully you can. Hopefully you can keep those negative thoughts to yourself,
internalize them and work and deal with them on your own time. But when you're with a woman,
when you're dating a woman, when you're in a relationship with a woman, that's not what it
should be about. Why, because she wants to know that you have the mental strength and capacity
to be able to support the relationship, be there for her, protect her and provide for
her. And a guy who is going to be complaining, being negative all the time, and looking at
the world like it's a sad state of affairs is not going to be the guy who's representing the
person who can take care of themselves, and who can go about life in a way where he's effective
and he's taking care of things. So keep the negative stuff aside and focus on the positive.
Plus, it's gonna be better for you in the long run anyways. And you want to make sure that you're not
telling her some specific things that make her unattracted to you. On the screen here is five
secrets to never tell her. Watch that video now, if you want a free call with my team,
possibly me then go book a call at www.trippadvice coaching.com.