I asked you guys to ask me some questions you did and here are.
the answers. What do you and your husband argue about the most hmm
oh I know I know exactly what we argue about the most the temperature of the house hands down
I just went downstairs to ask him this question and he says yeah we argue about the temperature
of the house I'm always warm so I'm always cranking up the AC or turning the heat down
and he's always like this house is freezing cold which is kind of strange because usually people
are like oh the girl is always cold and the guy's always hot yeah no it's not like that with us I
always say to him if you're cold you can throw on another sweater there's only so many layers that
I can take off and I used to think this was more of a Michael problem like why are you always cold
but then I found out recently that the running joke in my family is oh if we're going to handle
Michael's house bring layers because their house is freezing cold so yeah it's definitely a meat
problem I don't know I just run warm what can I say were you and your husband in agreement from
the beginning not to have kids obviously I never wanted kids and I made that clear Michael said
he could go either way with kids he wasn't like super excited to be a dad but he wasn't against
being a dad so he always said like hey if you like really want to have kids I'm okay with it but if
you don't want kids I'm okay with that too see I don't have any regrets and he definitely says he
has no regrets not having been a dad have you always known that you you did not want kids I
have since I was very young yeah I would say I've known since I was 14. how do you mentally deal
with people saying you will change your mind one day I feel so frustrated by this I just say time
will tell people were telling me when I was 14 that I was going to change my mind and here we
are decades later and I still don't have kids so you know what time will tell what's your favorite
oh my goodness I'm so glad I don't have children moment while you were on a trip I think it's when
I fly when I travel and I see parents with kids and it looks so hard to entertain kids to try to
keep them quiet keep them from crying especially if you're on a plane but every time I travel I'm
just like I'm so glad I don't have kids what does your husband do for a living he is an I.T manager
he actually works for a company in the U.S but he works here in Canada he's really good at his
job I'm very nosy how did you and Michael meet what is Your Love Story I went to University with
Michael's best friend Michael came to University to visit his friend and that's originally how I
met him we didn't start dating until several years later and did we think anything of each
other when we first met each other no there was nothing like sparks flying or anything that came
years later the ice cream truck is pulling up what do you get an ice cream sandwich what are
your three main reasons for never having kids I really just have one reason I never wanted
to be a mom that's basically why I didn't have them how do you get your teeth so white
aside from Child through life what are other issues you are passionate about I like health
and fitness I like trying to eat healthy and exercise my body and get stronger I
was a cardio bunny for a long time but the last couple of years I've been getting into
weightlifting more and that's been a super big challenge for me and a bit of a learning curve
I'm enjoying it because I'm learning how to and do something completely different do you get a
more positive or negative reaction from others about being Child free if I'm online I feel like
the reactions are more positive in person I feel like the reactions are more negative a
good response when a parent or in-law says to you I think you are definitely going to regret
not having kids one day honestly to this one I would just say I don't live my life and make
decisions for a future regret I may or may not have I have no idea if I'm going to regret not
having kids when I'm 70 or 80 years old but I certainly don't want them at all right now so
why would I have them what has helped you cope with the social pressure of being Child free
I would say being confident in your choice it doesn't matter what everyone else is doing if
this is the right thing for you be confident in it this is not about child-free life but Layla is
very cute she says thank you how come we as child Free People decide who to leave our inheritance
for after working all our lives to pay off our mortgages and build up our net worth consider
spouseless persons and those without close living or responsible family members thank you so I mean
you can really leave it to anybody that you want there's nothing in a rule book that says
you have to give your inheritance to this person a traditional stance on this is to leave it to
family members but I don't think you have to it's your money you worked for it you earned it you
can leave it to whoever you want or whatever organization you feel comfortable leaving it
to it leave it to friends leave it to co-workers organizations or Charities leave it to whoever you
want do you have any big future plans yeah just to finish up all these projects we've got going on
I just wanted to say a quick welcome to all the new subscribers this community is growing
I'm so excited to have you here thank you for being part of the child free community