I don't particularly like the "nice guy". Sure I like guys
that are nice, but I don't like that stereotypical nice guy because he tends
to come off as a little bit passive where I prefer someone who is more
assertive; who is confident and who they are and who kind of knows how they feel
and what they think and even if I don't agree with them like that confidence is
sexy. The ability to make decisions is sexy. I don't want to be with
someone who's like "whatever you want to do I don't care I'm indecisive."
I want someone to kind of like take the reins and be assertive in that sense.
Here at the Tiger Temple, gonna be going up 1,237 steps up to
see the temple. Here we go.
Do you ever have that conversation with your buddy? Y guys are just hanging out,
you're feeling kind of lazy and then you say to him what you feel like doing
today? Your friend goes I don't know what do you feel like doing today? Then you
respond and you say I don't know what do you feel like doing today?
And then your friend goes I don't know what should we do? And it goes back and
forth and back and forth. I know why you're indecisive. I know why you're
passive. It's not that you can't make up your mind; it's not even that you
you don't have your own opinions your own thoughts; of course you do. The issue
as always per usual is fear.
We gave a donation here at the Tiger Temple and they gave us bracelets for
good luck.
Just came down from the mountain and literally the second we came down it
started to rain so we seriously lucked out. Now we are caught in the rain down
here at the temple and waiting to go back home where we will go on finally
the big slumber party bar crawl. When we were walking up the mountain, there was a
bunch of monkeys around and I was a little bit nervous because there was one
that was completely eyeing this camera right here. They're kicking us out. It's
done, no more water, no more food. SOS. It's raining, we're far from home. Oh boy.
Now what do we do? They think I'm crazy. I am a little crazy. Isn't that funny?
Fear. Fear to be yourself because that's exactly what you're scared of. You're
scared of being yourself and exposing who you really are because then if you
get rejected, well what happens? Then it almost feels like the truth comes out.
The truth that you are actually not good enough and that you aren't worthy and I
understand that fear. Tt's very scary to have to put yourself out there because
that rejection that rejection from who you actually are
stings harder than almost anything in the world. But you know what's even
scarier than that and what scares me a lot? It's guys having to always hide
themselves. I would say if I was looking at this on a choice basis, it's better to
put yourself out there and get that rejection than to cower in the corner
and try to be someone you're not or put on this facade of being nice and
agreeable all the time only to push down who you really are because at the end of
the day if the girl ends up liking that guy who's not you, trust me when I say
that is gonna feel so much worse. Dang, we're getting really deep here and we're
only just talking about this topic of the nice guy but we have to go deep
because that's what this is really all about and this is the big reason
why women don't like the nice guy. Because it's false, it's fake
and it's boring and that's the big problem with it. They would rather have
you be real and weird and just put yourself out there and show your
personality and have a personality which you do. Everyone does. We all do. Don't be
scared to show it because that's what women want to see and that's actually
what shows confidence. It's being able to just express yourself in any way that
you want and try to let go of those filters and those weights that are just
bringing you down and pushing you away from the true version of yourself.
Alright back from our little trip here and now hanging out at Cafe Liquor which is
the upload station if you've been watching the past few vlogs then you know
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before I upload this video I know that there might be some of you who feel like
you need more answers here. You need to understand how to get rid of this nice
guy syndrome that you might have. Well I actually recently did a whole other
video on this that gives you some practical steps on what to do and I'm
gonna leave a link in the description below at the exact second the exact
second in the video that it tells you how to defeat this nice guy and how to
be able to kind of share a more authentic real version of you
so you don't have to be labeled as the guy who is just agreeable and
just caters to every single move of the woman and not being able to fully be you and
express you. Go check that out link in the description below. Of course as
always I'll see you in the comments. I hope this video inspired you to get rid of
that nice guy syndrome and I'll see you in the next video. Peace.