Hey, ladies. Welcome to Galtelligence. It's Kay, Beardy, and Larry here. For this video,
we'll take on a pretty serious topic. Today, we'll show you 5 subtle signs you've given
up on love. That’s right, Beardy. Psych2Go’s video
on signs you’ve given up on love unintentionally inspired us to share some of our
insights about love, dating, and relationships, And why people suddenly become cold about love.
Make sure that you stay until the end of the video because we’ll tell you the best thing
That can help save you from broken hearts and relationships.
Now, let’s take a look at the 5 signs you’ve given up on love.
5. Expecting The Worst The ways your brain falls in love
are mysterious, but the signs that you’re falling out of love are subtle yet clear.
When you go out on dates or when you meet new people, what do you usually expect?
Do you think of a positive result coming out of your date? Are you
already looking forward to your next meeting? Or are you already dreading the possible
bad things that might happen on the date? If you’re always expecting the worst when
it comes to dates or just meeting new people, This might be a clear sign that you’re giving
up on love. Thinking negatively is a sign. Someone who actively looks for a relationship
expects the best out of anything, even when only texting.
On the contrary, when you expect the worst out of any conversation or you think that
“Oh, it’s not gonna work out anyway” before even giving your relationship a chance,
Then you’re definitely giving up on dating. On a lighter note, if you want to know some pieces
of love advice to figure out your relationship, this video might give you some ideas.
4. Staying Away Another subtle sign that you’re giving up
on your quest to find true love is staying away from anything that reminds you of it.
Perhaps, you used to enjoy watching chick-flicks, and seeing couples in public does not bother you.
But now, all you want to do is run away and hide from all of that. The further you are, the better.
Keeping distance from things that remind you of love may hint at your
stand on finding love or even love as a whole. You might not notice it at first. But as you go
along, your friends might point out that you’ve started dodging anything love and
relationship-related. Think about it. What
comes into your mind when you see couples showing their affection towards each other?
If a close friend begins talking about his or her love life or asks you about relationship advice
or dating advice, would you rather talk about anything else?
Would you rather watch a romance film or watch some lighthearted comedy?
Your answer to these questions will tell you whether you’re staying away from love or not.
3. Feeling Numb At the beginning of a relationship, you might have
asked the question, “Does he like me, for real?” So you scour the internet for different blogs
about “How to tell if a guy likes you” You care a lot about what this guy thinks
about you, and you’d do anything to keep the relationship going.
Do you still feel the same right now? Do you still have that same excitement?
Or do you feel nothing at all? Before, you’re always on the lookout
for the signs he’s not interested in you. But now, you notice that you do care
less or you absolutely feel nothing. Feeling numb is a subtle sign that you’ve
given up on love. And it happens to everyone. You have to know that this numbness does
not happen immediately and for no reason. In an article published in verywellmind’s website,
Dr. Mayra Mendez, a licensed psychotherapist, said that emotional numbness may be a result
of your response to pain. So to remove yourself from
the possibility of getting hurt, you start to detach from and lose interest in love.
Before you feel any guilt about losing interest in love, know that it’s not your
fault. But if you still want to fight for your relationship and want to know the signs he likes
you still, our video might be able to help out. Let's hit pause for a bit, ladies. Before
we talk about the rest of the signs you've given up on love,
make sure that you stick until the end of the video because we'll tell you the
One solution that can save you from giving up on love.
Now, on to the rest of the list. 2. Questioning Love
Whether you're new to love or you've been with a guy for many, many years, there's still a
Chance that you'd notice the signs you've given up on love.
And the best way for you to tell if you've given up on love is by
looking back and comparing how you felt about love then versus now.
At one point at the start of your relationship, you might have asked the question
"Why is dating so difficult?" and your immediate response
is to look for dating tips. But now, whenever you ask "Why is dating so confusing?"
or "Why is dating so hard?" you don't seek advice on dating anymore.
Instead, what you do is to shut yourself in and ask if love is
worth it. Is love worth your time or effort? If this situation is familiar to you, chances are
that you are starting to question love. And that is another clear sign
that you’re giving up on it. Keeping Walls Up
We want to stress that giving up on love is nothing to feel guilty about. With this in mind,
The last sign that you've given up on love might actually be the most obvious one,
and it's connected to all of the previous signs we talked about. If you've been shutting yourself
in or shutting people out, you've completely and
unintentionally given up on love. When your friends invite you
out, do you immediately say yes? Or do you find an excuse to stay in and just keep to yourself?
Do you prefer your own company and not other people’s?
Are you actively meeting new people online or in-person?
It does not really matter if you're doing it to find new friendships or to start a
romantic relationship with someone, but carefully think about it. Shutting everyone out
is one of the signs you have a fear of intimacy. Closing yourself from other
people can open a door to a self-destructive path. Don’t worry, though. There’s a lot of things you
can do to set your path straight again. The fear of intimacy usually has a root.
But until you unearth that root, and you take action, you'll continue to fall out of love.
If you want to identify the root of your fear of intimacy, our video here can shed some light.
We’ve finally reached the end of the video. And now,
let’s talk about the one thing that might save you from further heartbreak.
Love is no easy feat, and sometimes we rely too much on our relationships that
we don't even look at ourselves, and unfortunately, this might be the downfall
of your relationship. If you've noticed the signs that you're giving up on love
and you still want work your relationship, the best thing to do is focus on yourself.
You might think that it's ironic that you have to take time alone
when your goal is to save your relationship, but taking a breather,
improving the way you look at yourself, and giving yourself some me-time
can do wonders for your love life. The moment you appreciate yourself more
and see the reason you fell onto the path of giving up, you can better find the motivation
to get back up and fight for your relationship. So, work on yourself starting today.
Everyone has a different experience of love. Do you know other signs
that you’re giving up on love? Drop them in the comments below.
Love is such a mysterious thing, but the more you understand it, you’ll see that love is beautiful.
Do you want to know more about love? Check out our video on how our brain falls in love.