- Is there signs of another girl in your relationship?
Has your husband or boyfriend
gotten a text from his ex
and it's driving you crazy
and you don't know what to do about it?
Well then, if that's the case,
then keep watching.
This video is just for you.
Hi, ladies.
My name is Ieva Bereisaite
and I am one of Greta's High Value Women Coaches.
Today, I'm gonna be talking about four reasons
why you should not worry about the other woman.
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So, reason number one is the ex-girlfriend reason.
If you are in a relationship with your guy
or maybe you're even married or engaged
and an ex-girlfriend of his texts him
and he tells you about it,
then you basically have nothing to worry about.
Maybe, even his ex-girlfriend might text you.
If that's the case, you still have nothing to worry about.
Remember, that ex-girlfriends
are ex-girlfriends for a reason.
Remind yourself, if you are feeling insecure about it,
that he is with you now.
Not his ex-girlfriend, he's with you.
She is in the past.
If you are acting high value,
you have nothing to worry about.
And acting high value in this particular situation
really, really does mean
that you do not get jealous about it.
Genuinely, a high value woman is never jealous.
But when it comes down to this,
make sure that you are 100% not jealous of his ex
reaching out to him.
If an ex reaches out to him,
it means that she is pursuing him.
She is initiating.
She is basically chasing him
and that is low value behavior.
If you are emotionally in control,
you do not show jealousy,
you do not ask about the ex,
and if he actually tells you that she texted him,
you have nothing to worry about.
He will be blown away
by the fact that you are not jealous of her.
And for a woman not to be jealous about something like this,
it is very rare.
And if he tells you about it,
it's a very, very good sign.
It would be much worse if he would be hiding it.
But since he's actually telling you or mentions it randomly,
it means that he is fully your guy
and fully on your side.
It also would be super uninteresting for him
when he is with a high value woman
and his ex would start calling
or texting him, right?
Even if he would text back,
it would not even last
because he would get bored.
He would see that you are not jealous
and he would start getting worried
if you really do love him.
And he would start questioning
why you're not getting jealous.
And all of the attention would go towards you.
This is why you have nothing to worry about.
Reason number two is asking yourself,
are you being jealous?
And jealousy is something
that I really want to talk about in this reason
in more detail.
If you are jealous of another woman,
whatever woman that might be,
if you are jealous of her and you show it,
it means you see her as competition.
And if you are jealous of the other woman
that is talking to your guy at work
or the ex that might text him and you're jealous,
it means that you are scared to lose him.
It also shows a lot of lack of trust
towards your guy
and a lot of insecurity.
This is why it's important not to be jealous
or show your jealousy to your guy
because then he sees just how important he is to you
and just how much you care and love him.
A guy gets his ego boosted big time
when he sees that you are acting jealously.
An ego boost is not something
that you want to give to a guy.
Really not something you wanna give, right?
And you would give him a huge ego boost
if you started acting jealous
because he then knows just how much you love him.
And he would have you at the palm of his hand.
And even bad attention or a negative reaction
is still a reaction.
A high value woman
does not see other women as competition.
And she is not scared
that they might take away her man.
This is fundamental
and it's very, very important.
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Reason number three is, is he talking about her?
If your guy mentions a girl at work
or tells you that some girl texted him,
or maybe his ex, as I mentioned,
there's nothing that you should worry about.
Simply because your guy is not hiding it from you.
If you lose emotional control
when he shows you a text
or when he mentions another woman,
he will see just how emotionally dependent
you are of him
or towards him.
And that he really does have you in the palm of his hand.
The best thing that you can do
when a guy shows a text or talks about a work colleague
is to react completely normally
or even seem a little bit bored by it.
Whatever you do, don't make a scene.
If he would be texting girls behind your back
or flirting with them,
that is something completely different.
If he actually tells you about it,
it shows his love towards you
more than anything else.
Because if he would really be interested,
he wouldn't be showing you the texts.
He wouldn't mention it.
Make sure to remind yourself of this
if you are in this type of situation.
And actually, the less you react to the other woman,
the more in love he will fall for you.
There can always be another woman.
And by that, I don't mean another lover
or anything like that.
I just mean, if your guy works in a company
and he has female work colleagues,
and they might...
Well in Germany, this is very common.
This is why I'm just gonna mention it.
They might go out for lunch together
with maybe some other work colleagues
or just the two of them,
like at 12 o'clock or at 1:00 pm
or something like that,
just like for work lunch with his work colleague.
And this is very, very, very,
it happens very often here and a lot of people do it.
And if you find out,
then whatever you do,
don't get jealous because it's really no big deal.
And don't make a big deal out of it.
Or if he gets a text
from a work colleague after work
and he tells you
or you just see it,
don't overreact, okay?
See, where is it goes and how he reacts,
what does he do.
And you will very quickly see
what his intentions are,
especially if he's going to just mention it to you
or if he might mention the work colleague
in some scenario.
That already shows that he is really not interested
in taking it further with her.
Because if he was, he would really hide it from you.
Reason number four is no trust, no relationship.
And by this I mean, it is very important
that you trust your guy
and that he can trust you as well.
If he breaks your trust, you leave.
It is very important that you trust your guy
and that your guy trusts you.
It's never about reading through his messages,
checking his profile,
listening to his phone calls,
or being worried
if he's taking longer to get back home.
These are very, very big no-nos.
And when a woman complains about something like this,
it shows that she is not trusting towards her guy.
If you give your guy trust and he misuses it,
then we have to be strong enough to leave.
Be high value and follow Greta's advice as much as you can
and really implement it in all areas of your life.
When you do that, you're gonna be a high value woman.
And not someone who gets jealous
because she knows why men try to make women jealous.
You can read behind the things that he does.
You see the intention behind it
when you learn the teachings
or how to be a high value woman.
High value woman know how to have emotional control,
don't get jealous, respect themselves and others,
and are very good at setting boundaries
and sticking to them.
High value women do not chase men
and they do not fight for their attention.
They give trust to their partners.
They don't stalk them.
High value women don't do any of that stuff
because they know if there is no trust,
there is no relationship.
When a guy is with a high value woman,
he loves her a lot.
And he would not sabotage the relationship
to be with another woman.
Because he knows that if he did that
and she would find out,
she would leave him and it's not worth the risk.
And for low value woman, a lot of the time,
men do cheat because they believe
that she will throw a tantrum
but take him back after a while.
You don't risk losing the woman of your life
for something quick.
He knows that a high value woman
would be strong enough to leave.
So, it's very important to be clear to yourself
to know that, okay, there is no trust,
there is no relationship,
because trust is the fundamental core
of a relationship.
And if that is mistreated,
it is very difficult to bring that back
to the way that it was.
This is why I always say it's very important
to have a life outside of your man,
to have your hobbies,
to work,
enjoy doing your work,
and just live your life.
And he is like the cherry on top.
He's the extra.
And that's the way it should be, I think,
because then you're not dependent on him.
And when you're not depending like that on him,
to that degree, you are strong within yourself
and you have a lot of self-respect.
And if anything does happen,
you are naturally strong enough to leave
because you know the there's no relationship
when there is no trust.
But a man, a high value man
would not risk a relationship
with a high value woman just for a quick fling.
That's not how it works.
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