this video I'm gonna share with you three reasons that the law of attraction
isn't enough and understand how you can really get through that barrier so that
you experience what you want easier than ever I'm gonna show you ways of getting
deeper into understanding the way reality works so that you can optimize
your own life in the process welcome back to another video my name is Erin
and I help people expand their consciousness now in this video I'm
gonna be sharing with you the three things you can do and three reasons the
law of attraction isn't enough now these are gonna be the things that people
normally experience blocks with but I'm gonna show you ways of getting deeper
because the thing is is it goes just beyond that of the law of attraction of
course the law of attraction is nonetheless something that we see in our
universe it's one of what is called the quote rule sets of the universe however
the thing is is when we get deeper than that we see that it's actually much more
simpler now you would think it'd be more complicated because like what isn't just
you think about it and that's what comes in your life isn't that about as simple
as it gets well the thing is is there are a couple
different characteristics that come into play and there's a couple different
areas we move in the direction of unconsciously without even knowing it so
you may have someone for example that is thinking about a certain type of car and
maybe they go out and they see this certain type of car but it's not like
necessarily they've internalized it and they've allowed themselves to believe
they deserve it so you see there's a little bit of a difference between what
we think about to what we believe we deserve so I'm gonna make think about a
Ferrari or a nice car but if they're not aligning and resonating with that
reality then they're just thinking about it now of course when you think about it
you may bring more characteristics in that life more opportunities that if you
act upon and if you do certain things you begin to resonate more with it but
many times people will think of things and unless they internalize it in some
ways I share with you then it remains just exactly that a thought in the mind
now I do believe that in a way thoughts are things so when we think thoughts we
think that they are invisible that they just don't exist I think on a plane on a
certain way of looking at it they do actually exist
it's just that they haven't formulized yet they haven't crystallized into
reality because there hasn't been a momentum there's maybe a couple
different reasons for this but in the same way that there's certain
frequencies we can't see with our eyes like we can only see between infrared
and ultraviolet we can only hear a certain decibel range
I believe there's other vibrations out there and it would be in a way kind of
limiting to think that we can see hear and experience everything there is to
experience when we know that we can only feel and see we can't see x-rays for
example we can't hear the sound of a dog whistle yet a dog can yet that doesn't
mean the sound doesn't exist you see so what this does is this has allows us to
know that there's more to experience than we have already through our senses
so the key to this and the first reason that the law of attraction isn't enough
is because it more so is about how our beliefs create our reality so what we
believe to be true is always reflected back to us we could say that when we go
out into the world what we experience is a reflection of that it's like a mirror
so if we smile in the life in life in general then we will get a reflection of
that fact we will see reasons to smile we get a reflection of what we put out
now it's about understanding the beliefs that we have because some people may
actually go out and say I believe the law of attraction doesn't work now what
they do is that belief in of itself will tone out proof and evidence where the
law of attraction does work it's called confirmation bias and they will only see
evidence that the law of attraction doesn't work now that's because beyond
just the law of attraction our beliefs create our reality and our beliefs will
always formulate and crystallize into such a way that that is what we
experience so the key to this whole process is understanding that our
beliefs are what influence our life so let me ask you a question
if there was for example a certain type of car you wanted let's say that you
wanted to have a Tesla that's what I want I want a Tesla so if you wanted a
Tesla what you could do is you say I want a Tesla you could even think of a
Tesla and you may go the gym I go to there's a whole bunch of Tesla's there
so I'm always driving by them and I'm like nice and when I see them I can look
at that and say okay I'm attracting more I've seen it but do I believe that I am
worthy to have a Tesla do you believe you are worthy to have whatever kind of
car you like whatever kind of relationship you want to be in do you
view yourself as worthy because if you just think about it but you don't think
and internalize and believe that you're worthy of it then you won't actually
experience it so the key to this is becoming aware of what you believe now
what you believe to be true is something that is normally formulated at an early
stage in life a lot of it unconsciously as well we may
have these beliefs about money that say money is bad money is something that if
you have you're a bad person there could be money is hard to get so there's these
negative associations with money which means money is not going to come into
our life very easily because we have all these rules about it we have all these
mindsets about it so the key to this is to actually become aware of the beliefs
about money and then to let them go the key is to become aware of our beliefs of
our relationships do you believe you're worthy to be in a certain type of
relationship sometimes this is patterned in at a young age maybe we see the way
one of our parents treat someone else and we assume oh that's the way we
relationships work so then we assume that that's how we deserve to be treated
but we can become aware and we could say what do I believe about relationships
you see it's not always just the subject itself that we focus on but it's how we
relate to the subject that we focus on if we relate to relationships and we
think all relationships to me mean no freedom then we start to give it a
negative connotation which means we want to track that into our life if we give
it a negative connotation that oh this person's probably going to take
advantage of me kind of the preset position of us going into
experience then we start to create the momentum for that be aware of the
beliefs that you have now here's a way you find beliefs here's the easiest
process for changing your beliefs simply ask yourself the question what would I
believe to be true to be having X Y or Z what would I believe to be what would I
have to believe is true to be feeling lonely right now what would I have to
believe is true in order for me to think that hunt money is hard to get what
would I have to believe is true for me to know that I don't interact with other
people very well as you become aware of all these beliefs you can then see wow
there's this one reference experience that I go back to in my mind when I was
younger or maybe 10 years ago or five years ago and this one reference
experience started to build that belief but then what you do is you look at that
belief and you look at that reference experience which is a memory and you say
that was just one experience that doesn't have to be Who I am that doesn't
have to be something that drains itself out the rest of my life in the moment
you become aware of it is the moment you can decide to let it go beliefs only
have power when we are unaware of them when we become aware of them we see how
illogical they are because you may see just a couple experiences but what you
can do is you can take that belief and you could find evidence of the opposite
of it for example you say I believe I'm not confident there are times in your
past when you were confident there were times in your past when you weren't
confident it's if you don't feel confident it's cuz you're focusing on
the times that you weren't you have own momentum or you have some very powerful
memories in the past that develop that belief so then what you could do is
become aware of it you're aware of it so you've already started to gain back to
the power then find evidence of the opposite like yeah well there's plenty
of times I actually was confident and as you become aware of those you start to
develop a momentum in a different direction and justice if we decide to
let go of the old belief it's a decision to let go
now as you let that go it starts to change everything in your life I truly
believe that when we get to the core of what we believe to be true a lot of
beliefs but I believe when we get to the core of what we believe to be true that
when everything in our life will change because that is what we experience in
reality it's a belief of what we believe it's a reflection of what we believe to
be beliefs anyways I'm gonna move on to the next one then so secondly the second
reason the law of attraction is not enough or the reason you may be
experiencing blocks is understanding pleasure and pain see we may think that
we want something say we think we want a relationship but we may associate pain
with the relationship subconsciously we may have these mixed niro associations
and your association is a thing in our mind a way of thinking about something
that causes a certain feeling within us so for example you may see and want to
be in a relationship but at the same time associate pain with not having
freedom pain and pleasure is very similar to beliefs in certain ways but
also different in certain ways now the RIA the way that you can use
pain and pleasure is by understanding you already use it you don't have to try
to use this but it's about being aware of how you are using this because here's
the thing here's the truth about every single person on this planet no matter
what every single person on this planet is driven by pain and pleasure we will
always no matter what move in the direction of what we believe or what we
perceive will bring us pleasure and we will always move away from that which we
believe are perceived to bring us pain works the same for everyone that is what
it's called the motivational mechanism the difference is what people associate
pleasure and pain with so for example someone may say I want to be in shape my
goal is to be in shape I want to lose 30 pounds I want to be at this perfect body
weight image but that's what they're thinking for the law of attraction but
they associate pain with going on a diet they associate pain with going to the
gym they associate pain with being strict on what they eat
and because they associate pain with it they have these mixed neural
associations on one hand they desire and they want to be at the perfect body
weight on another hand they're not driven by the motivation of doing that
because they're motivated away from that they associate pleasure
maybe with eating unhealthy foods they associate pleasure with maybe watching
television versus going to the gym on maybe not even knowing this but here is
how you get what you want in your life and this will totally change your life
if you start to apply it find out what you want to experience in your life
whatever that is become very clear as to what you want to experience in your life
your vision that's something you can move towards and then associate massive
pleasure with doing things that get you in that direction associate massive pain
with things that hold you back so this may require you to become aware as to
what that could be for you for example for me what I did is I associate massive
pleasure with taking action in making YouTube videos I associate pleasure with
editing with doing website stuff with creating the kind of business that I
have with creating a lifestyle I have with growing my brand with posting on
social media I associate massive pleasure with that because I know that
that helps get my message out to more people but it wasn't always like that
I used to associate pain with making videos about two years ago before I went
daily on YouTube I did a video once a week and I would enjoy it but I it was I
felt like a lot of work I switched around these pain and pleasure way of
looking at it and I say you know what I'm gonna start to associate massive
pleasure with making videos even though it's gonna take away some of my time so
at the time I was working 40 hours a week at Barneys New York plus I was
making daily videos on YouTube but I switched it around I started to
associate pleasure with doing my passion I used this also with the gym for
example I used to be about 10 15 pounds heavier nothing wrong with it but I
wanted to be a lot leaner because I knew I'd have more energy and now I do and
what i did is i associated pleasure with going on a diet i associated pleasure
with eating nutrient-rich foods i associated
pleasure with pushing myself at the gym because of the serotonin the dopamine
rush that you get when you push yourself I associate pain with Romanian stagnant
I associated pain with eating junk food with eating like you see like two or
three acai bowls a day sometimes and he's also a evils had a lot of granola
which is sugar and I knew that that wasn't good for me but I associated
pleasure with it so what I did is I switched it around and I associated more
pleasure with eating more nutrient-rich stuff and that changed everything
and within a couple of three months I've lost a whole bunch of excess fat and I
have more energy than ever before so if you find that you're not getting results
with the law of attraction be aware of what you are guided towards with your
pain and pleasure mechanism and if you want to achieve your goals easier than
ever simply associate more pleasure with
attaining them more pleasure with actions of getting closer to them and
associate massive pain with the opposite if you do this this will change your
whole entire life and this is what has allowed me to live the kind of lifestyle
I do now is because I associate pleasure with things that help what I do grow and
I'll say this from experience to success does not come from like one or two
different things that have events that just change everything if you develop a
successful day that trickles out and that gains momentum so every day there's
certain things I do that leverage what I do I make youtube videos I edit I do
website stuff I do marketing stuff I do all of these things every single day
because I'm spreading my message and that's what leverages to overtime
compounding everything so be aware of what that is for you master your day
associate pleasure everyday with doing what you love that will eventually
become your full-time that's what I did and that's what absolutely transformed
my life third reason that the law of attraction isn't enough is simply
because people are thinking about it and they aren't being it there's a
difference between just thinking and being and the difference is profound
because when you start to embody the resonance of the reality you want
everything in your life will begin to change and resonating with the reality
you want is more so about understanding the three aspects that make up your
personality your personality creates your personal reality this is a quote
from dr. Joe Dispenza and I find it to be true your personality is a
combination of what you think which is part of it what you feel and what you do
so some people are just thinking about it but they're not doing the other two
now sometimes they're thinking about it will lead to the other two because then
you'll feel inspired to take action you'll feel the emotions start to build
up as well but the key to this is understanding the other two aspects now
this may mean that you must start to take a little bit of action because when
you start to move the yet you want to think of moving the energy the thoughts
will move the energy but the action and the emotion move the energy to a whole
new level because the thoughts are something like we're talking about
before kind of like in the etheric plane we can't actually see it with our eyes
but when we take action we start to crystallize it into reality we start to
really put in a whole new level of it now what you can do for this quick
little exercise for you is imagine the best version of you the best self image
you have you doing exactly what you love imagine that version of you exactly what
you'd be doing feeling and acting and how you'd be acting imagine that version
of you and simply decide that every day you're going to do things as that
version of you you're going to feel what that version of you feels you're going
to think how that version of you thinks because then as you embody those
characteristics in your reality now eventually that will become reality for
you so it's about being aware of how you see yourself it's about being aware of
those different aspects and then how that begins to change in your life so I
imagine the best version of me I shared this many times I imagine the best
version of me traveling the world speaking in front of large groups of
people doing seminars being in front helping people understand different
things noticing how grateful people are going and meeting
people that watched my YouTube channel and how that's so cool it's so different
than just doing it through comments online and I imagine all of these things
and I imagine the version of me my body language how I act kind of tonality I
have how I treat people how compassionate I am and I simply embodied
those characteristics now I may even play it out in my head a couple times
but that allows me to resonate now with that reality rather than in the future
now is all that exists what you can do is begin to be that which you experience
instead of just think that so this is another way that you can profoundly
change your life and move beyond just the thinking aspect to go beyond the law
of attraction we must first off become aware of the beliefs that we have get to
the root of what we believe to be true become aware of that belief and then to
simply decide to let it go and then to secondly start to associate massive
pleasure with attaining what we want in life with moving and progressing in the
direction you want with taking action in whatever way that is doing what we're
passionate about as we associate massive pleasure with that and the massive pain
with the opposite we start to direct the force of our life in a powerful way and
then remember it's not just the thinking it's the feeling and it's the beam it's
about being the best version of yourself choosing that's who you are now and as
you do that you'll find that everything and your life changes now if you want to
learn how to change your self image what I have is a guided meditation that will
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