Too many men act like their penis is the real MVP in the
bedroom. So when their penis walks off the court, aka
ejaculates too soon, they shut down the entire game. But my
Deutz there is not only a penis in the bedroom, there is a man
in the bedroom, and he has options on how he can respond to
premature ejaculation options that are masculine that are
mature options that would actually turn your partner on.
But if you keep apologizing or roll over or fall asleep or
straight, act like it didn't happen. So just Haley cab and
peace find another sport to play. I'm a woman and I can tell
you from firsthand experience that when a man does not know
how to deal with early ejaculation, it can be extremely
frustrating for us and we can end up resenting you because
Dang it, we're still here, we won't have a good time. In this
video, you will learn from a woman's perspective what women
want you to do if you ejaculation too. Soon, we're
going to also talk about what common things men do that can
turn a woman off around premature ejaculation and how to
be the best lover she has ever had. Even in those moments where
your star player has left the field here's a secret, she will
think you are a mind blowing super lover in bed even if you
have ejected too soon and you have a limp penis. Hi, I'm
Caitlin V, sex and relationship coach, intimacy expert and
expert on all things male sexuality related reptile
dysfunction, premature ejaculation. In fact, over 5000
men have gone through my premature ejaculation
masterclass with a 98% success rate. And I have some things to
say on this subject. All right, so if a woman doesn't want you
to retreat into a deep, deep dark depression about
ejaculating too soon, what does she want you to do? I'm about to
tell you the five things. Number one, she wants you to stay
positive, she doesn't want to go with you to the penis funeral.
And she definitely does not want you to roll over and eyes her
out. She wants you to stay the sexy, positive, upbeat man that
attracted her in the first place. The number one things
that guys do wrong when they ejaculate too soon is they
assume that she's going to have the same reaction that you do.
So you're upset, you're disappointed you feel like a
failure, you feel like you're never going to be the lover that
she needs you to be. She is sitting there going, Oh, that's
kind of interesting. I wonder what's going to happen next
responding in that way, conditions her that something is
wrong, and that she also should be down anxious, depressed, sad
or upset. But responding in a positive upbeat way just shows
her how you want her to respond, and she will follow your lead on
to number two. She wants you to avoid making assumptions about
what she's thinking. Because the truth is, you don't actually
know what she's thinking you are not a mind reader. So if you
just turn to her and say, You must think I'm a huge joke, this
will feel to her like you're throwing a pity party, and she
will want to run in the opposite direction. What does she want
you to do? Number three, she wants you to regroup about
what's next. So you came. It's cool. Coming as part of sex for
a lot of us. We like it. So time to decide what comes next. Now
is the time to ask and get curious. What does she want?
Does she want more oral sex? Does she want to have another
orgasm? Does she want to get out a toy? Tell her the truth. The
honest truth is about whether you're going to be ready for
round two, you know your body? Are you going to be able to do a
round two this evening or you probably out for the night. Just
being honest with her is actually what makes the biggest
difference. And it will allow her to be honest with you
because you know what she might want you to just snuggle up, she
might want you to go down on her. She might want you to have
a steamy hot makeout session. Maybe in that order. Okay, you
won't know until you ask. Which leads me to my next point number
four. She wants you to take responsibility for her pleasure.
She is here in bed with you here to experience a pleasure of sex
not just penetration, but six, which includes all kinds of
things. And so it's not fair to just shut her down. Am
I right? I mean, truly men, it doesn't matter if you've already
ejaculated or not and I know that might be really hard to
hear especially from the premature ejaculation Queen of
the internet. But it does not matter if you've just deleted or
not. The status of your penis at that moment is irrelevant. It is
time to expand our horizons and go from P IV that stands for
penis in vagina only sex to the actual smorgasbord of sexual
pleasure. Here's some ideas finger go down on her until she
goes wild. Break out vibrators breakout dildos do the kinky
thing that you've been meaning to do but you haven't gotten
around to yet tired to the bed and teaser with a feather until
she comes make sweet energetic love to her use her head Energy
COC, I've made a whole video about how you can use that when
you don't have a physical COC available, see if you can make
her squirt by my course. So that you know exactly what to do in
this moment. Imagine you ejaculate too soon, but then you
turn around and you make your skirt for the first time. I
mean, that sounds like a good deal for everybody. In a
nutshell, even if you have already come, it is now her
turn, be there for her give her the pleasure she deserves.
Instead of turning inward and getting down on yourself, turn
outward and go down at her. Also consider this, the more time
that you spend pleasuring her, the more likely it is that you
will end up being able to have another erection and a second
orgasm. And now for the fifth thing that she wants you to do,
she wants you to assure her that premature ejaculation is not
going to be an ongoing thing. If you object really too early a
couple times here and there, it's not really a big deal, it
happens. But if you consistently cannot last as long as you want
in bed, or you can't joy, the sex that you're having, because
you're afraid of busting, which is leading you to feel so much
anxiety that you can't actually perform anyways, because you're
so anxious about not being able to perform that is a problem.
And all of that is going to prevent you from being an
incredible lover. If you let this get out of hand, and it
becomes an ongoing thing. And then she gets frustrated about
your sex life and you get frustrated about your sex life
and she starts looking for pleasure elsewhere. Well, my
dudes, that is a real problem. And fortunately, I have already
solved this for you. I have a masterclass called come when you
want. If you haven't checked it out yet, it is about damn time
comes with a 90 day money back guarantee. Honestly, you can buy
it today use it over the next 90 days, most guys are able to gain
ejaculatory control just a few weeks. And then you can ask me
for a refund, and I'll give you your money back. I'll never ask
if it worked for you or not, because I know that it will work
for you if you do it. So that one's on me. And in case you're
wondering, the thing that makes me come when you want system
unique is that I actually created it by coaching men who
were dealing with premature ejaculation, not by going to sex
therapy school and reading about the protocol for treating
premature ejaculation because by the way, if I had done that, I
wouldn't be doing this very differently. And instead of
looking up and seeing what other experts had to say on the
subject, I actually just started working with men who were
dealing with it. And we figured it out together over the years.
So my system is actually created over the last seven years with
the help of men just like you who worked with me to overcome
their premature ejaculation. And once I had that system so
dialed. So aligned, I put it into a video course to make it
easy for the people who weren't able to work with me as my one
on one clients to access it. And as of today, more than 5000
could be six. By the time you're watching this video, men have
gone through that course and they've ended their premature
ejaculation without the use of numbing creams without the use
of pharmaceutical thing medications that are not
actually meant to end premature ejaculation that screw with your
serotonin levels like here's my hot take, you don't actually
need any of that crap. You do not buy another bottle of
numbing spray for your dick. Again, your dick is meant to
feel things that is the point. Early ejaculation is frustrating
both for you and the woman next to you, I get it but if you know
how to handle it, and you know ultimately how to overcome it.
And then you can ask for a freaking refund, I don't even
care, I'll send you your money back. She will not care at all
about your premature ejaculation as long as you are able to
manage it and give her the pleasure that she needs instead.
If you do that, and you watch the rest of the videos on this
channel, because I have plenty of sex techniques, videos that
you can use to leave her Ultra satisfied because with or
without premature ejaculation she would not trade sex with you
for the world if you're able to pleasure her and give her the
intense incredible orgasms that she actually desires. And that
my friends is the whole point now, isn't it? This is Caitlin
V.
Simon.