welcome to Landria Onkka on YouTube here to help you break through fears and live
an awesome life I'm happy to shoot a lot of videos today because I have a friend
flying in tomorrow and I'm so excited we're going to sit and we're going to
create some things that are going to make changes on this planet and we're
going to use science to do it so I need to stockpile some really good videos for
you and inspire you all week so that every morning I can click one and have
it go public so that you can keep on track because I know it's not easy I
know it's not easy you know we have constantly have to pay attention we have
got to pay attention all the time so um I see every once while I see a video out
there about loneliness I I think maybe there were times I've been lonely I
didn't know it's tough it's tough for me I I make friends easily and very I'm a
much more outgoing personality so I seek that it's not always easy for everybody
you don't always want that but and those people aren't necessarily lonely but
there are a lot of people that are even very outgoing that are lonely most of
them are lonely because they don't have the love of their life next to them and
they feel like a big part of them is missing and I can fully understand that
but loneliness is not something that can be cured by that so loneliness is that
you're feeling incomplete you feel bad you're feeling bad if
you're feeling really really sad and empty and I know I know I felt lonely
before I I know what that is like and I can't really connect to it because it's
been so long so long since I've felt that I'm so happy by myself and even if
I'm not with a interest or married or even with one of
my best friends I'm still very happy there's so much available to us to not
just keep busy but to better ourselves and so that time that you have what if
you focused on like raising your frequency becoming a much more
spiritually connected and person to who you are what if you started doing some
things that would contribute to this world in a positive way and what if you
started to meditate on getting yourself to the place where you realized you are
not alone you are always with endless limitless energies are with us at all
times because we are the one we are everything
now that's oh yeah that sounds really good yeah yeah yeah but I'm feeling
lonely right okay so let's just talk about what's really going on first of
all you're connecting to that lower frequency of being incomplete so of
course you know that you're always creating if you are thinking that you're
incomplete and that you're sad and lonely without that other person or
what's something else in your life that you need then what you need to work on
is not finding that person it's becoming a complete person because nobody wants
to be with somebody who's insecure and if they do they've got their own stuff
going on that's vibrating on a low frequency you know they need to control
somebody else that's not a good relationship they will ultimately fail
on some level yes could be your learning experience but if that's not what you
want then you need to focus on one thing and that is you aren't so loved you are
so loved beyond your comprehension that the word love doesn't come close to
describing it I've experienced this continue to experience it there is a
power of light of frequency that we are a part of that we are here experiencing
and our choice to you know go on this crazy journey that we chose that is a
part of us that we are finding our way back to to connect to that frequency as
part of that energy that you are and it loves you unconditionally there is no
judgement you can make no mistakes you can make no mistakes I don't mean that
as an excuse to go be bad because you're you're supposed to be raising your
frequency you you want to go in that peaceful place but I'm telling you right
now drop the self-criticism the sadness the loneliness the unworthiness the
depression the constant battle everyday with negative thoughts if you're feeling
lonely right now you need to know that this room right now that you're in
wherever you are inside outside is loaded with your support system that's
always with you you are one so it's not you're someplace and God is not with you
that love and that light is always with you you can call it at any time you can
ask for a sign if you need to know it's there ask for a sign not beg
and yeah sometimes you have to drop to your knees and just go I give up I
surrender because I know that I'm not really in charge anymore as a
controlling ego I'm in charge of my choice of how I feel and what I wanted
to do with my life and I co-create with the one and I am the one and there's
nothing separate from me it's always with me it loves me at all times but I
still have into visual choice so if you choose to be
lonely and you choose to believe that you are by yourself and that you're
incomplete on your own it's not a good place to be that's not and I'll bring
this up again that's not faith real faith is knowing that this is such a
short journey and at the end of the day when you start to go across you're gonna
go oh man I was there oh so blocked off from this love that I
felt lonely I felt like I needed another person to make me happy I was not
feeling complete without that person I thought that would solve my problem he
will not solve your problem you may be happy and joyful for a while but if you
still have that inner loneliness there's something inside of you that feels
incomplete as your separate energy not one not something that that other energy
can cure for you so you're always going to feel like there's neither there's
gonna be have to be something else outside of you that's gonna make that go
away and it won't when you go to the peaceful place and you know you're on
alone I'm not saying you're not gonna have moments where you feel a little sad
or you know you would like things yes that's the human experience but when you
go into the dark lonely place and you think that this other thing the
situation's going to cure it the best thing you can do is to be with yourself
and know that you are never alone when we feel lonely most of that is we're so
blocked off from the one the power of what we are we're blocking that off
we're not connecting to it so we're not feeling that love we're not feeling that
joy we're not feeling that wow I'm here okay what am I gonna do today and
looking around and going okay this is a beautiful place yeah crazy crazy planet
but this is a beautiful place and it's gonna be beautiful for me and then you
go to the Botanical Gardens or go for a walk or go for a run or you know go with
your new water go sit and watch the water go in your backyard and watch the
birds just sit with that peace for a while
even if it brings tears to your eyes you know if you need to be guided God put
you know there's guided meditations put earphones in and have it override all
this negative stuff that you're thinking if you can't get a handle on it but your
room is full of all of your spirit sources waiting they're gone we're here
to help put us to work put them to work ask every day please help me to raise my
vibration my frequency please help me please help me to become that happy
healthy person to Reconnective what I am help me raise my frequency they will
they will but not if you don't ask because you have choice all the time
right but if you are lonely yes if you've lost somebody you know death or a
loved one that you broke up there will be sadness that don't be afraid to
experience that loss that feeling of being human of not having that
personality there with you of feeling that love because love does create a
chemical reaction that's a fact so when you're not getting that feeling
you're not getting those emotions you know there's some physical things that
are happening with you they can be very seemed devastating at the time but this
too shall pass and guess what have you ever broke up
with somebody and you're in this just very sad place funny how there's always
somebody else that comes along right just be patient be patient if that's
what you want be patient but be happy on your own and know that you are not alone
you're so loved you are so powerful you are so unlimited you are walking around
with the power of the universe you are not alone you are connected to the most
absolute beautiful breathtaking power love
feelings that you can connect to if you put your focus on it and say I know I'm
feeling this I know I'm feeling lonely I know that I would love love to come into
my life but I'm going to connect to the ultimate love that I am that is beyond
human love beyond human love there are no conditions to that other love none
that's why I said you can't make mistakes mister no judgment so start
being kind to yourself and start connecting to that love find that peace
and even in the middle of some of those sad feelings you're gonna go wow I feel
like there's something else there there's something else and I feel like
it's here with me it's in this room it's here with me it's embracing me and
imagine those beautiful light beings embracing you and saying we are we're
here with you you are loved you're gonna be okay you're always okay you're gonna
be fine are you done experiencing pain I should
say suffering life will come with some pain we don't have to suffer you don't
have to suffer loneliness is not something you have to experience ever
again when you connect to that higher power so make your decision meditate and
focus on that higher power not trying to manifest the love of your life because
if that falls through you're gonna go right back to being probably even in a
deeper darker place you know people the diet
most of them diets don't work right you just have to live a healthy life every
day diets something that's different from how you usually eat there should be
no diets there should be just eating healthy every day there should just be
us loving ourselves and being complete every day and then the love of your life
comes in and the abundance comes in in the health and all the other things they
just come in because that's who you are it's not a temporary condition or you
trying to make things happen oh my gosh I've had people get ahold me you know
what's the formula what's what do you do to get these things I'm like exactly
opposite of what you're talking about there's no thing I do to get it it's Who
I am when things are working I am completely an open absolutely open
channel and if other stuff comes in I just watch it I don't do anything I'm
not reacting against it he's saying okay who must have been a trigger of some
kind maybe it's a collective consciousness but I'm not gonna react to
it I'm I'm a whole perfect beautiful strong powerful loving harmonious happy
being and so are you the only difference between maybe how you might be feeling
right now if you are in pain if you're suffering and me is the veils between
that powerful beautiful love that you could connect to and through meditation
you can start to remove those fails and start to open up and let that light in
let that light in there's nothing about light did you know that your body's full
of it everything that fires off actually
creates light inside your body you're a light beam I can't wait till we're you
know talking about this I shouldn't say can't wait I can wait to
be on the other side it's gonna be awesome though it's gonna be fun when
we're on the other side I let's put it that way it's gonna be fun when we're on
the other side all talking and going oh my gosh do you remember when you were
struggling with this and this listen and remember that you you were trying to
find that power in you and you're walking around with it and now you know
all this and it's like shoot I need to go back and try that again I don't I
don't want to do that I was like what when I'm going I
am staying over there Never Say Never right I'm staying over
there and I'm working from the other side this is a big job even when you're
in a peaceful place even when you go to that awakened state we're still human
beings I have a personality I still experience emotions that correctly
experiences emotions did you know that a car totally cries he experiences sadness
so does the Buddha it doesn't control them anymore
so yes it's still an experience as a human being to have to go through these
emotions of loneliness sadness all these others loss all these things and this is
our quest this is our job to get this right not worried about everybody else
and they should be doing this and oh I we need to make the world right now make
you right that's one person and we all have just one job how easy is that it's
not so daunting anymore is it if you can work on you every day and focus you can
really get yourself to a super high level pretty quick if you are focused on
that 24/7 watch what happens 30 days and for me it happens much
quicker it's in days I start to see the results when I shift that focus on
something that I really want to open up so you have to focus on it 24/7 not let
the other stuff affect you watch it like a cloud recognize it's happening not
fight the feeling no you have the feeling if you're lonely okay I'm
feeling lonely what is that you know it's funny the more you focus on what it
is the feeling without reacting to it if you just sort of disconnect from it it's
like okay I'm not gonna go I don't feel that way I don't feel we're gonna okay
loneliness what is that sort of isn't it a weird feeling loneliness you sit there
you guy I'm a person sitting in a room
and it starts to dissipate it sort of she's not fighting where you like okay
I'm not really lonely at all what am I gonna do I guess I'll go out and garden
getting this get some sunshine on your head get out of the darkroom turn their
dog on TV off or if you're gonna watch anything watch Gaea Discovery Channel
history awesome stuff I wash Josh gates and his expedition unknown awesome
awesome show a he explores history and archaeology and he's funny and fun
uplifting and the stuff the information I get is so exciting and you can do the
same thing are you ready are you ready no more loneliness no you are not alone
you are loved you have choice every moment you have a choice what are you
going to do with it anything you want sending you light love joy abundance
health wealth prosperity opportunities and the strength and the power to act on
them with excitement and to know that you are unlimited namaste