What are people saying about you? What are some of the things that you've heard that
hurt your feelings or naysayers, how do you deal with all of that? You need to go
do something besides real estate. It's too risky. The negativity is gonna come.
Yeah, you mentioned you have critics. Not only the people obviously that write comments in your
on the posts and things but I mean what are people saying about you? What are some of the things that
you've heard that hurt your feelings or naysayers, how do you deal with all of that? It's funny.
I don't get a lot of naysayers myself because I no longer read my comments, I no longer read any of
those things. If I'm having a conversation with someone for example and they start to kind of
go to left, I will end that conversation. I really protect myself from a lot of that negativity
because it's not necessary. You don't need it. I used to think that oh a little bit of criticism is
good for you. Oh, a little bit of blah blah is good for you and to a certain
extent yes, however feedback is one thing but just negative criticism, you can't do that, your
eyes are too big, look at you, that's ridiculous, that's baseless. Yes, it's baseless, it's
worthless and that's one person's opinion and so there's no value honestly in even
reading it. Yeah, yeah. If it's constructive, that's one thing, if it's hurtful or meant to
shame or trolling, why would you? Yeah, yeah. What are some of the things that people...
I mean I don't have the trollers, I just mean what are some negative things that
you hear about what you do or who you are or things like that? So one of the earliest people
that I got a lot of negativity from was my mom. Oh well sure yeah. So when I finished college and
and you know I'm going back to Atlanta and I'm kind of flipping houses and
and doing that thing. She's just like you need to go to law school, you need to
go you know that's kind of why I end up with a master's degree. It was just like you need to go
do something besides real estate. It's too risky, it's too risky that's just what I kept
doing her job. Yes, basically as she sees it and that was you know that's why you lost
everything the first time you're gonna go do that again? And so a lot of my negativity was from those
that were really close to me because they knew my past and they're just like okay, you were doing
real estate, you failed at it, why are you doing it again? What are you doing? What are you doing, why
would you do that and so that was what I had to contend with negativity from my family members and
closing a lot of that out and that's why I said you do have to shut some of that down. I really did
have to stop taking my mom's calls as much while I was building, I had to stop talking to cousins
and sisters and different people because I'm working on something. And so the negativity is
going to come. Did they understand that? Eventually, I mean did they get another thing...
People think they're giving you their concerns, they think they're just telling you be careful
you know they really think they're helping. I don't think that most people tell you negative things
with mal intent. I think they really have good intentions, they really are trying to look out
you know watch out for over there but they don't realize it's just negativity and them saying that
does not help. But today they understand why you gave them a cold shoulder. I mean
some you know some people you're never gonna get back and some you don't want back.
Yeah so obviously me and my mom, I told you I bought her poor. So, she's very good.
She gets what I was doing and why I was doing it but some people they they never really saw
and now even that is successful, it just was like yeah, yeah you were lucky. Yeah
well take a look at me now is what you've I guess you've never had that. Revenge,
here's the thing. You start off with the idea that you want revenge but the person that actually
can get revenge no longer has those thoughts. Yeah, isn't that weird? Yeah you start off wanting that,
I'm getting back at you but by the time you get there, you're not thinking about those
people, you're above that and that's how that works and that's winning. Yep, yeah. Wow, what an amazing
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