- Is it my fault that the relationship is not working
or is it his fault as well?
Can I even fix a broken relationship?
And is that only my job?
Hi, ladies. My name is Ieva.
I am one of Greta's High Value Women Coaches.
In this video, I'm gonna share five ways
on how you can fix a broken relationship.
Before we jump into this video,
make sure you take the self-awareness test
to actually find out if you're a woman
of high value or of low value.
And you can find that test
down below in the description section.
Greta has launched her ebook called "Devoted Relationships".
If you wanna learn how to have
a high-value relationship and what it takes,
then make sure you check out the ebook.
You can find it down below in the description section.
I really do recommend.
Okay, so without further ado,
let's jump into the first way
on how you can fix a broken relationship.
My number one tip
is that it's not your job to fix your broken relationship.
A lot of women may think
that it's their job to make a relationship work.
And that's simply not the case.
It takes two to make changes in a relationship
simply because two people are involved.
A lot of women may think that they are a failure
if they are having a bad relationship
or if they have had bad relationships in the past.
Of course, there might be things
that the woman is doing wrong in a relationship
and that is why the relationship is not working,
but in order to fix a partnership, a relationship,
it can simply not be one-sided.
It simply does not work that way.
A relationship is a partnership, okay?
And in a partnership,
we need both people to do their fair share
in order to make it work.
However, with this being said,
there are certain things that a woman can do
that will attract positive behavior from the guy.
And let me explain this
in the second point that I want to make.
The second thing I want to talk about is be high-value
and see what changes in your relationship.
The best piece of advice that I can give you in general
and in this video
is to start working on yourself.
Start becoming more and more high-value
and see if the relationship
is going to start transforming for the better.
As a woman, you have a huge say
in what direction your relationship is going to go.
If you act high-value,
you will simply bring out the best in him.
If you are low-value or act low-value,
you will bring out the worst personality traits that he has.
I believe only when you become really high-value
and stick to it and live it,
can you then really decide if that relationship is for you
or if that guy is the right guy for you.
And if you decide
that even when you're acting really high-value,
you're really making the best out of your life
and developing as a woman yourself
and you are simply still not happy in the relationship
and it seems like it's not working,
you are doing your fair share,
you are improving in yourself and so on,
but he just has these traits and does these things
that are simply not acceptable for you,
it is then easier to walk away
simply because you have given it all you can give.
You cannot ever change a man, right?
Like, literally change him.
That's not your job.
That's not something that you should aspire to do.
It's not about that.
You can only change yourself and only analyze
and look at what you are doing wrong and change that
and see how that will benefit the whole relationship
and if he will change as well
and if he will in a way step it up
but also contribute positively in the relationship.
And if he doesn't, then you guys are simply not compatible,
because you are developing
and he is not developing with you
and that long term doesn't really work out.
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Number three is sometimes it's better to simply leave.
If you really do become high-value
and become the best version of yourself
and follow the teachings that Greta essentially teaches
and he still does not make you feel loved
and the relationship is still rocky
and you're not happy in it,
then it simply means that he is not for you.
The good news is,
is that when you walk away
and then more in the relationship,
you will actually open yourself up for better men,
men that know your worth
and men that are worthy of your love
and who you are as a person.
My tip number four is to get coaching
or either educate yourself.
You will never know if you never try.
In order to become a high-value woman,
you need to learn what Greta teaches.
This is important because then you can figure out
what you are potentially
as a woman doing wrong in your relationship.
You can either get one-on-one coaching
or you can literally binge-watch
all of Greta's YouTube videos
if you're not ready for one-on-one coaching.
Try to analyze your own actions
and what you are doing wrong.
Learn from that and start implementing
that in your relationship
and really start acting differently
or doing things differently than you normally would,
like doing them in a high-value way
over a longer period of time
and see how the relationship will change.
This, in my opinion,
is the best and the most effective thing to focus on
if your relationship does feel broken.
See how you can change within yourself for the better.
My tip number five is to have emotional control.
Emotional control, as like a law,
will always get you out of sticky situations.
Whether that is at work,
with your friends, family, or in your relationship.
If you see that there is friction
or that you potentially are going to have
a bad argument with your guy,
have emotional control.
Also check out this YouTube video right here.
It's all about how to have emotional control
and everything you need to know.
In order for a man to love you, he needs to respect you.
There is simply no love without respect.
He will love you more and simply take you more seriously
and respect you if you have your emotions under control.
And that's the bottom line, ladies.
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If you want to learn how to be high-value from A to Z,
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It's called the High Value Women Course.
It's made up of five big modules and two big bonuses
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Greta teaches women how to be high-value
from A to Z in that course.
It's packed with everything you need to know.
Go ahead and check it out.
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We would love to help you out.
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Thank you so much for watching.
I wish you a beautiful week
and I cannot wait to see you next time. Bye.