Hi Tripp, keep me anonymous. First and foremost, thank you for your service.
Sounds like I'm in the army. He says I just turned 24 this month. I only had one girlfriend so far,
who is an ex now, still a virgin. But because of your advice, I started putting myself out
there, meeting people and ultimately increasing the volume of girls I meet.
Matter of fact, I have 3 dates lined up with 3 different girls. But I have one major hurdle. I
still live with my dad and he's really strict and controlling. Nights out are nearly impossible,
but I find a way to make it work. Here's the first question, how do I approach dating multiple girls
at the same time or even have multiple girlfriends at the same time without cheating or being shady
with them? It's a new concept to me. I don't know how to go about it but I love the sound of it.
That's funny. Second question, how do I have a fulfilling dating experience in my current
situation with my father? I work and moving out is a current goal. But even then I feel he might
try to get in the way of me moving out somehow. Listening from Uganda. Yes. All the way from
East Africa. Looking forward to your insights. I appreciate you. We got a question halfway across
the world. I love it. We did on our last call too. We had someone who called in from the Middle East.
Alright, let's dive in. There's a lot of things happening here. It sounds like...
it sounds like the first question is all about you're dating multiple women at once. It's not
cheating and it's not being shady because you're not promising anything to them. And any woman
who thinks that all of a sudden that you're their boyfriend because they slept with you one time...
well, that's gonna be their problem because that's not what you said. Don't lie. Be honest. You have
to go on a date with someone and say, yeah, I'm dating a couple other women. But if they ask you,
you say, yeah, I'm not monogamous right now, I am out there dating. If they ask you,
I would say that. Also, don't court them and seduce them in a way where you're trying to
be so lovey dovey with the girls that you're meeting because then you're leading them on.
If you just want something casual, which there are women out there who want to casual,
then you keep it casual. Don't go on any fancy dates, don't be wooing them in any way. Not
that you should anyways because that's just needy and beta, but you want to be only having sex with
them and hanging out with them and not doing much else, if that's what you're looking for.
If you're looking for relationship ultimately, then you're dating and dating until you find
someone who you do want to settle down with and then you'll get into a relationship with
them and then you'll call it off with the other women. There's nothing shady about it.
I don't think there is. Women are doing it. People are doing it. And it's not... well
that's not a good argument. But it is something I should say though. But still, the real reason is
you're not lying or doing anything dishonest because you're not going
to be dishonest. That's all that there is to it. Second question you said, with your dad.
First of all, I like what you're saying here that your current goal is to move out. That's great.
And that is the answer. If he's going to get in the way of you moving out,
I don't know what to tell you there. I don't know the details. That's not my area of expertise.
If he might try to do it, I don't know. I don't know what to tell you. I mean,
is he gonna physically stop you? Is he gonna steal your money? I mean, if that's happening
then you have a very serious problem on your hands and your dad's not a very good person.
Maybe there has to be some legal action to be taken care of here. But if it's like an emotional
thing, if he's emotionally getting in your way, I think you got to look to what it is that you want
and make sure that you go after it. I don't know how he's gonna get in the way of you doing that.
There's some deeper legal issue that you're gonna have to handle that. But
in terms of what you need to do to make sure that you're staying on track is you
don't let anyone get in the way of your goal and realize how much you want it and want to do it.