>>> Three of our kids are
average height, only one is
little.
We have twins but people don't
believe us, because one is
little like us and one isn't.
>> Jeremy and Audrey decided to
leave the hit show, they have
since written a new book about
their relationship called a love
letter life.
Welcome, guys, good to see you.
>> Good to see you.
>> Jeremy, we're like, who is
this guy with the long curls.
>> Yeah, no more --
>> Natalie just had the best
celebrity look-alike.
Closeup of Jeremy.
>> Tight shot there.
>> Short hair now, do a little
profile, Jeremy, people turn to
the side a little bit.
>> There you go.
>> Okay, a little -- is it Matt
Damon, guys?
>> Jason Bourne here.
>> Jason Bourne.
>> Audrey, did you know you were
married to Jason Bourne?
>> It's kind of like going back
in time to when we fell in love.
It's nostalgic to me.
>> I love fisher, if we're going
to do a little celeb look-alike
for you?
>> Why are we saying good-bye?
>> Well, it's kind of one of
those things where, 14 years is
a long time to do anything.
I reached a point where it was
never something I really said
yes to.
I just grew up doing it.
It's been amazing, if you ask me
if I'd do it all over again, I'd
say yes.
I wouldn't trade the experience
for anything, but it's a long
time.
>> Is it weird for you guys now,
where's the camera?
>> I like to say, we may have
quit the show, but we didn't
quit the family.
We make cameos and go to
Jackson's party.
>> What did your brother say
about you leaving?
>> They all understand.
Like everyone understands,
because we've all been doing it.
It's been a family business for
14 years, that's a long time to
be working all together day in
and day out.
Making TV.
>> You guys clearly have
priorities, and your priorities
are straight.
You wrote this beautiful book.
And you give such great advice
to couples out there.
And also, you have amber, your
life is really full right now.
Let's talk about some of the
things we learn in this book.
Audrey, you were quite the hot
pursuit for a long time.
>> Why did it take so long to
fall in love with this guy.
>> I think a lot of it was just
timing, I was young, I was in
college.
I was a collegiate athlete.
I was focused on other things, I
was just fresh out of a
relationship, I wasn't looking.
We were set up on a blind date
by mutual friends we trusted.
We were intrigued by each other.
It wasn't really sparks fly.
We built this long friendship,
and I think that's why we called
chapter 1 the patient pursuit.
Jeremy patiently pursued me.
>> Creatively picked --
>> I tried to make it as obvious
as possible.
>> I love that, persistence pays
it also shows you were committed
to the friendship first.
>> For sure.
You.
>> Talk about breaking down your
walls.
Audrey, you were a tough nut to
crack first of all, jaire mirks
living your life in the public
eyes so much.
You put up some walls as well.
>> For sure, once we started
becoming friends and finding
ourselves in the space, we can
get vulnerable with each other.
We realized we had these walls
up, we wanted to go about it
strategically, we didn't want to
ruin what we have going.
I hope -- I don't mess this up.
So we were very patient and
careful in P our pursuit of each
other, but also, we all have
walls, and so we try to figure
those out and carefully --
>> Break them down before
getting them --
>> Dismantle them.
>> Be delicate with one another
in our pursuit.
>> I love this one, making long
distance work.
>> Snail mail is my favorite.
>> It's so good.
It's a lost art.
It totally is.
In the book, we say our long
distance relationship wouldn't
survive on text messages and
Skype calls alone.
For us, we wanted to pursue a
creative love story, an
intentional love story, and love
letters seemed to fit the bill.
>> You keep a marriage journal
as well.
What do you write down every
night?
>> Number one tool for our
marriage and now thousands of
other marriages out there, once
a week, we sit down and ask
ourselves six questions and go
through the calendar for the
week ahead.
>> Same six questions?
>> We get on the same page.
Most people are able to tell you
how their spouse bugged them
this week, before they can tell
you what brought you joy this
week?
That's the first question.
>> What's one thing I can do for
is there any conflict we haven't
resolved?
And it's a good time to talk
about it.
>> Get my husband on the phone.
We got to talk.
>> Once a week sit down with
your spouse and resist roommate
syndrome, if you will, before
bed, retire, 20 minutes let's do
it.
>> I love the message of this.