hey there welcome to the video when you've watched my other Tinder videos
you found out how to get matches but the next problem a lot of people face is
starting a conversation on tinder so in this video I will teach you how to be a
pro at tinder conversations so make sure to watch till the end the first step of
messaging someone is obviously the opening line for the opening line there
are a couple of ways you could go most people start with a plain "hey" sure this
can work sometimes but most of the time not when someone gets over ten messages
a day with 8 of them being a simple hey you won't stand out so the chance of
getting a reply is very small this kind of first message is not only unoriginal
and boring but it also doesn't go any directions for a conversation so let's
take a look at the other options you've got another option is using a existing
opening line from the internet sure there are some good ones out there but
when you use a commonly used opening line there's a chance the person you're
messaging already received it making you again look unoriginal also these type
of lines don't really start a subject to talk about
they're only for breaking the ice or flirting + these kind of opening
lines can be very cheesy and awkward sometimes so now let's take a look at
what in my experience is the best option for starting a Tinder conversation. the
absolute best way is writing an opening line yourself this can look hard at
first but it's easier than you might think with the following steps first you
scan the whole profile of the person you want to talk to look at her name bio
pictures interests artist anthem job school everything there must be something that
stands out for example she has the same name as someone from a famous movie or
her name rhymes with something or she has a foreign name or maybe she has a picture
at a special location you've been to as well
or you want to visit or a picture with a dog when you also have a dog or maybe
see mentions similar interest in a bio or listens to the same kind of music or
maybe she went to the same school or she has a special job scan a whole profile
and look for things that catches your attention next you send a original +
personal or funny message about it for example say something like our dogs
would totally become best friends or what is your favorite song from Drake or
what was it like being in Australia there are so many things on so much profile
you can send a message about even if the other person doesn't have a bio the good
thing about this type of opening line is that is not only original and personal
but also a conversation starter when using a standard opening line like I
mentioned earlier in this video you won't start a conversation but with with
this method you instantly start a conversation about a topic when you send
her something about a country she visited ask what other countries she has
visited and what she wants to visit in the future maybe you could visit one of
these countries together someday or when you send her an opening line
about a dog have a conversation about that what is the name of the dog for how
long you've got it what other animals do you like and so on when you sent her
something about music ask what other genres or artists she listens to if she
goes to festivals and concerts and so on these are all way more interesting
conversation topics than the basic boring how you doing where do you live
what kind of job you've got conversations most people don't even
answer the questions I just mentioned since they get this kind of message
every day but people always like to talk about their passion and hobbies especially
with someone that shares the same interests so the key for starting and
keeping a tinder conversation is scanning the whole profile look for
things that stand out send a original and personal or
funny message about it and keep the conversation going about that topic you
should save the boring job interview questions for later when there's no other
topic left to talk about and you really want to get to know each other better
but don't start with these kind of questions when the other person feels a
connection with you because you talked about a common interest he or she will
start asking questions to you as well and then the conversation will go
naturally from there because it's coming from both sides when you've run out of
topics but you've had a good conversation don't wait too long for the
next step which is obviously asking her number or
even asking her out for a date and that's basically how to have a normal
conversation with someone on tinder don't forget to give this video
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