9 FRUSTRATING Problems ONLY Guys Have [0:00:00]
So, as a guy, you walk into a public bathroom, this is what you see.
[Sound effect] All right.
You got to go, which urinal are you going to use?
Now, for a lot of guys the answer is obvious.
Two, three, and five is open, let’s get the job done.
[Sound effect] Unfortunately for some guys, this is a no
go.
They’ve got paruresis aka shy bladder syndrome.
Seriously, they can’t be with another guy complete stranger standing right next to them.
[Sound effect] Now, a lot of guys that have this issue, they
avoid the urinals.
They use the toilet, it’s got the privacy of the stall.
But, what if the stalls are in used, out of orders?
You guys know we don’t have nearly as many toilet stalls as the ladies do.
The point being is men deal with a unique issue.
When we go to a public bathroom, we don’t have near the level of privacy.
Next up on our list, nocturnal penile tumescence also known as morning wood.
Yeah, you know what I’m talking about.
You wake up, you stand up, and, wow, somebody’s at attention this morning.
So, this is very natural, you’re in a relax state and you have a lot of testosterone flowing
through your body and your body does what it naturally should do.
But, the issue here is guess what?
What do you want to do first thing in the morning?
You got to go to the bathroom.
You know what I’m talking about.
You literally are trying to like bend your body trying to urinate.
You got to go, but you’ve got to pee.
Seriously, any of you guys ever dealt with this situation by just doing a handstand and
peeing that way?
Next up, the random erection.
All right.
So, maybe it’s not random.
You have a hot teacher, you enjoy watching your colleague up there work.
She just – yeah, she just looks great.
[Sound effect] Unfortunately, guess what?
You forgot you’ve got to now stand up and give your presentation.
Or you were called on and you need to stand up and recite something to the class.
You’ve got an issue though, so what do you do?
All right.
So, you’ve got a few options here.
One, are you wearing a sports jacket?
Guys, I’ve talked about this, the power of the sports jacket, guess what?
It’s going to cover that area, at least somewhat.
Okay.
You don’t have a sports jacket, what are you going to do?
Grab a book.
Yes, putting a book right there, okay, that may be just obvious.
I know whenever I’ve had to do this, you stand up and you just held your hands in front
of you and look the person in the eye.
You do not let them look down though.
You maintain that eye contact and you make sure everyone’s looking right here.
Look me in the eyes, do not look down.
Next up, you can go from zero to orgasm within sixty seconds.
Oh, you’re not a minute man, you’re more like thirty seconds?
Congratulations.
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Next up, gents, we’ve got the hover hand.
A lot of guys think, oh, this is a new addition.
No, hover hand has been around for a long time.
Really, this is about guys simply not knowing where the relationship is at.
Is she a friend?
Is she more than a friend?
You want to get in close.
On the other hand, yeah, you just simply don’t know what to do.
Or maybe, I don’t know, you’re rich and famous and you don’t want to get in trouble
by somebody saying that something happened that didn’t, so you want to maintain a little
bit of distance.
Keanu Reeves, I’m looking right at you.
Guys, point being is it’s all about you got to make a call here.
And that’s the way to overcome this for a lot of guys, but it takes confidence, it
takes you becoming more sure of yourself.
Simply, if you want to put your hand around somebody and you want to get close to them,
then do it.
Worst case, they’re simply going to push you off.
Now, let’s talk about the first move.
Whenever you make the first move, guess what?
You are taking a risk.
You’re throwing yourself out there.
You are open to rejection.
And the vast majority of people that need to make the first move are expected by society
are men.
In fact, only 6% of women actually go out there and make the first move.
So, guys, I’m just saying here that there is a lot of pressure on us to constantly throw
ourselves out there.
But, when you understand it’s a numbers game, when you practice putting yourself out
there and actually you become very comfortable and realize this is all just part of the game,
just engaging and talking with people, you’re able to read cues body language, you’re
going to find that or did you actually throw yourself out there, it just felt like a natural
extension of you talking and engaging.
And that’s where I’d like to see when a guy has got that confidence and he really
– she couldn’t even tell was he hitting on me, actually, he just seemed like a really
friendly guy.
But, you pick up the right indicator she’s interested and then, you go and, yeah, you
close those moves, right?
And, speaking of closing the moves, dinner.
So, you asked her out.
You want to take her out on a proper date.
Guess who’s paying for dinner?
The vast majority of the time, it is the guy.
Yes.
And, I know we’re supposedly live in a society in which everyone is equal now.
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pay for dinner, and this is a trap.
So many women will say, oh, well, we can go Dutch, but, guys, don’t fall.
You know Admiral Ackbar have this right, it’s a trap.
Understand, you’ve got to pay for it.
I know that sounds bad, and there is a – there are percentage of women will not hold it against
you.
But, if you do not pay for that date, again, go out there and look at the stat, a lot of
women will just will not go out with you again.
Is it fair?
No, not at all, but it’s simply the way it is and at this point, if you’re out there
dating, it is something that oftentimes you’re going to have to pony up for the cost.
And, by the way, if you disagree, if you agree, I want to hear from you guys down in the comments.
I’ve got a lot of research to back up everything I’m talking about which I will link to down
in the description in the support article.
But, guys, I want to hear from you guys down in the comments.
And, let’s talk about the pressure to make money, to be a millionaire.
Yeah, to be super successful because as a man, we – you know whatever society says
that’s nice, but the reality is we are judged by what we’re able to bring in and what
we’re able to accomplish.
In many cases, this turns off a lot of careers that, yes, we would love to become a dancer,
to go down maybe the path of the arts.
And, I do admire men that do that, but that’s tough because as many of you guys know, it’s
tougher to make money in that versus finance.
Yeah, you don’t really like finance, you sold your soul, but you did that because you
felt that you were doing what was right to be able to take care of your family.
You went and became a lawyer because you knew that it would provide well.
And, this is the pressure that we deal with.
Again, fair or not, this is the way things are at this point.
I would love to see them change and for, you know, things to be more equal in that regard,
but it is something again and again men are judged by what we can bring home.
Next, let’s talk physical strength.
Apparently, 70-80% of your bodily attractiveness deals with your ability to be strong, your
strength.
And, yes, this is something you can work on, you can go to the gym.
But, what if you’ve got issues, what if you actually work a job you just don’t have
time to hit the gym.
Or you’re dealing with, I don’t know, a degenerative muscle issue or you’re more
of a writer, you’re more of a thinker.
You’re not about the physical strength, you’re more about, I don’t know, you’re
a dancer, you’re someone that just more into stretching, you’re a runner.
But, guys, physical strength is something that, again, we are judged fairly, unfairly.
It’s simply something a lot of women look at and they judge us on it.
And, talking about being strong, oh, be strong, be a man, don’t show any emotion, don’t
cry.
These are things we hear again and again.
And it’s not just other men that are telling us.
It’s something that as a guy if you – you see a guy crying a lot of, women they look
at this as weak.
And, again, we live in a society that’s trying to make changes here, but we see this,
we know what the results are and we don’t want to come off as, yeah, as someone weak
and we want to be strong.
We hold it in and this leads to a lot of issues later on life because we can’t express emotions.
We don’t know how to talk to people about our emotions and this leads to loneliness,
it leads to us losing friendships, not being able to build friendships.
Yeah, it leads to a lot of issues not being emotionally healthy like this.
And on top of all this, we have to be perpetually confident.
Always show confidence, never show any weakness.
Never let them see you sweat.
Don’t blink or all of the sudden they can come in and take everything from you in a
negotiation.
You got to be tough, you got to be strong.
Again, we hear this again and again and so many of us try to live up to it, and it is
so hard so tough.
You guys know what I’m talking about.
And, let’s talk heightism.
Yes, men are discriminated against because of their height.
You’re not tall enough, yeah, she’s not even interested.
Don’t believe me, check out this video right here.
This one, I had a lot of fun with.
It is just shocking what some women are going to say about height and what they’re looking
for and how they don’t care about anything else.
They’re looking for height among other things and other places men are discriminated against.
So, check out this video right here, guys, very interesting.
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