while we're on Storrow Drive we met a nice fellow
other side they're cool deed he had a red 370z in his girlfriend or whatever
I hope it was actually how was your girlfriend I like your sister that feel
so gross when someone's like this take somebody for things like kissing your
Drive let's talk about something serious I'm a car guy and I'm gay.. oh my god
gays in car culture
I didn't come out till I was like 20 for a number of reasons Mostly my own bullshit
know now everyone talks about it gets better it gets better in like there's
YouTube and people can like other people like me I thought it was just me and my
small town or whatever we just need is great it's like really nice and
especially the fact that people's language has been changing a lot there's
much less homophobia like spewed on a regular basis in casual conversation and
you know I feel like I grew up at the height of that like you know I grew
up in a small town and every other word out of somebody's mouth was that so gay
what a faggot and it like it it does stick with you certainly does so growing
up in a small town where everyone is just call you a faggot for not being
like them or whatever you try to be like everybody else you try to do you think
so I went to college and I these friends and they were really cool you know time
goes by I discover hey you know what I definitely get so it was tough because I
had to tell my friends and I didn't know I'm like oh no I gotta come out to these
people where they gonna say it all my life I've been in my family so it's been
really cool with that i mean it's and I wasn't going to them yet but you know my
was an artist and we would go to like her friends parties and stuff in there
was always a pretty intense gay community there was never like Tom don't
be like that it was more like wow isn't that party fun because gays have good
parts
I'm glad I hope that coming out is not a thing in the future I think that's
ridiculous because the thing is you just come out of my coming out story just
come out once you come out
always coming up so I come up to my fraternity at a meeting right him like a
son to get this one-and-done like tell everybody remember it didn't go very
well not because people were like I said it really matter of factly and I think
everyone thought it was a joke like just the way our friends were so I kind of
said it again after the meeting hey guys that's true like I am gay if you'd like
to know what to say and the funniest thing that happens when you come out to
people is when things don't like the way you came out to them which i think is
really obnoxious because I'm telling you something about myself decided that
you're important enough in my life I should probably share this part of me
with you and then you go and say let you know I just didn't like the way you came
out and it's funny because it was the gay ones who didn't like the way it came
out you know I don't know why it was more like he didn't want me to come out
and such a big for only kept that was really weird little bit gay on gay crime
there where it's like you know how do you how do I what you know like having
been through this before I don't know the rules there aren't any rules you
come up how you want to come out if you want a big dramatic thing make it a big
thing enjoy yourself that I didn't they just wanted to be like a like this is a
situation
cannot see my friends you know it was so awkward at first but it blows over and
gets better thanks YouTube but you're always doing this thing and that's the
frustrating thing is like a somebody says oh my girlfriend you're not
institutionally thinking like this person like me anymore they're thinking
like no i'm just telling about myself and I do that and there is always that
paws it's like I wonder the thing about coming out though when you're in like
straight society is that you have a couple options are you going to go and
are you gonna go and make new friends who are gay or you gonna be accepted by
her friends and if you're gonna be accepted by your place if you're gonna
be accepted by your friends were you know they gave one in the crowd because
that clearly frustrated and if you accept everything that came true in
these circumstances where you can't have a normal conversation with some of the
people that were your friends to just now they're like giggling about every
time you say the wrong word
sexual connotation so that there was some of my friends and i ended up like
there are people that I just probably don't see any more cuz it just gets more
like I can I can't defend every joke and if they do make a joke like that I just
ignore them and they finally left room looks like for you have to go together
like find all gay friends or people who are comfortable with and you're next
good about this shocking because I can go whenever I'm driving my implied by
3:50 seem like for sure if I got my boyfriend the corps to see the car
they're like hey what's going on tell me about it for a few minutes into my
boyfriend and their leg lock all like hey we're going to lunch wanna go free
now there are a lot of teams in the community there are few but when I like
it or not they gave the car communities that I can walk into a car me in not be
the game-winner I'm the guy with the 911 I'm the guy with the M5