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[PD] Do you know what we're doing today?
Answering questions.
I don't know what about though.
[PD] So today you guys will be answering difficult Would You Ever questions.
I am scared.
- I'm quite interested to hear her answers. - Hey don't ~
Some difficult raunchy, thirsty, sexy questions.
Mom and dad if you see this video, I'm sorry if I reveal some things you're not proud of.
Put disclaimer all.
Hit me up!
No!
For sure.
My reason is very simple.
I think I have a very good understanding of most of my friends.
Their ex, after a certain period right, they are strangers already.
So it doesn't matter.
Really, I just find it very disrespectful.
Imagine if it's a close friend.
Then you know all the shit that went throughout their relationship.
- Maybe as friends we always talk about each other relationship problems. - Oh.. That's so bad.
- Then you hear about your friend's problem with your ex. - Oh my god..
Actually this is like a common Hong Kong drama trope.
You go and vent to your bestie about your problem then she's like
'Aiyo so bad'.
But behind your back, they are doing things!!
That one is Hong Kong drama meh?
My 'No' is if this person was dating someone that I am friends with.
I would consider that person a friend.
And if it's their ex then I probably wouldn't date them ever.
Just because they were my friend's ex.
- It's just not polite to that friend. - Ya
- Even if the friend tell you like it's really okay. - It's okay, it's fine, you know that kind of thing.
- You'll never know if they are actually okay with it. - Correct.
I cannot eh.
I feel that I would always be compared to, to my friend.
There will always be this comparison.
Plus it's like we're both friends for a reason.
- Because we have similar interest, school background whatsoever right? - Ya.
Even if they don't compare you, you own self will compare like
'Am I doing better than my friend a not?'
Really ah?
You get what I mean?
There will always be this lingering.
But let's say if I get to know someone and they happen to be the ex of my friend.
Okay, then fine.
Wah I don't care one. I tunnel bros all the way.
For me it's like a returning customer.
Yes.
I would say yes.
Alamak this one..
Yes.
We are both very different!
I'm very clear. This one confirm I won't.
I don't really like the shape of my nose.
It's very bulbous at the front.
And it's a hereditary thing.
And to me, it looks like a button mushroom.
If someone wants to pay for me, let me know.
Then we can talk about it xD.
Since the question is 'Have you ever considered', then is yes.
But I will not do it.
I think when I was going through puberty, I was more riddled with insecurities.
Some of the procedures that I wanted to do was to make my jaw not curved out like a crescent moon.
Oh same, sis ~
Shave a bit of the jaw so my face not so long.
Because people would call me horse face, moon face. - Moon face.
- Like the new moon abalone logo. - Yes, same.
But then I think..
Maybe my crescent face is my specialty.
What if I go and fix it,
then when I look at myself in the mirror and I don't like it.
So ya, I cannot reverse and make myself a moon again.
So might as well just work with what you have.
I mean I will play with the cards that the universe have dealt me with!
For mine I would.
Let's say if my religion allows it, then I would say yes, I would do it.
There are a lot of things that I'm not happy about.
What do you need to do?!?!
NO!
Plastic surgery is not limited to face.
It can be like you put abs eh. >_<
But I would say yes.
You ask me the question was "would you forgive?"
Yes I would forgive.
Because everyone makes mistakes.
But would I stay with the person? No.
Ahh..
Okay actually you know..
That changes things.
Would I forget things? No.
But I won't stay because I respect and love myself enough.
To say that you know what, you've made a mistake.
As long as you're willing to say you did it.
You know what? For my sake, let me forgive you.
Right
But that doesn't mean I have to stay with you.
That doesn't mean I have to continue my life with you.
What I was thinking of was that you forgive and you stay together.
But if it is not staying together, then I would definitely forgive.
It's just not something I see the need of holding on to.
It's very easy.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
- You cannot change lah. - Yes.
Because you made that choice to cheat.
I don't necessarily label them as 'Always a cheater'.
But they would have lost my respect towards them.
And I don't think I can ever be associated with someone whom I have no respect for.
AAAh~
If somebody has had a history of cheating right..
*turned off*
I feel like that person is very likely to repeat that behavior.
Because he/she feel that it's an acceptable behavior in future relationships.
Especially if they talk about it nonchalantly.
Ya!
Like I've been on a Tinder first date where the guy literally said
'I got something to say but you're going to judge me' .
Then I'm like oh my god just say~
Guess what he said.
Then I'm like ...........
It will be forgivable if he was super regretful of his actions.
But he talk about it with so much pride.
- He was like oh actually I was very well organized. - He's like YesSssSs~
I will like message them with different phones.
Then I will keep track of what day I'm going out, with which one. - Put in the Google calendar.
And then he say he will remember all their monthsary and make sure to plan gifts for every single one of them.
I hope there was no second date.
No comments.
Oh jeez....
I'm out.
Goodbye.
Oh.
What's evergreen?
- Means no partners. - Means like what? Green fingers ah?
Oh.
- Yes. For me yes. - I okay one.
Wah..
Yes!
No?
Huh?
I don't know.
Erm...
In this stage of my life, no.
It depends on the time period I'm in.
- I sound like a dinosaur. - Wuxia (Chinese drama in ancient dynasty periods)
From the Jurassic period.
Is it you're wearing the halter bra.
Then you're holding the handkerchief like..
For me at this point of time, I want to find someone who is willing to learn and grow with me.
I don't think that I have the patience to guide someone along and be like
'Okay this is how a relationship should be.'
'Come let me teach you.'
Because I want someone who is already stable in their own ways.
And I'm stable in my own ways.
Then we just come together.
When you say someone who has no partner before, evergreen ah.
My first instinct is Brenda.
Would you not date Brenda?
That's true.
For me, my thoughts about it is that evergreen right.
I know this question has the implication that this person is probably not emotionally mature.
So that question that you're targeting here is is not necessarily that they are evergreen.
So if they are evergreen and emotionally, they can match the right energy with me..
Yes man.
Non evergreen people also emotionally immature what right?
- I believe we have our fair shares of partners that are like that. - True true.
Ya.
So yes if it depends.
1, 2, 3.
What kind of context?
- In what kind of circumstance? - How much money? XD
15 thousand dollars!
*yes*
But I will never speak of it again.
Unless I'm on my period.
- They teach us this for survival stuff in our airline training as well. - Ah I see..
So no, we don't just sit there and look pretty.
We learn how to survive okay!
If the airline crashes, touch wood.
If the aircraft crashes somewhere, we do have certain things in our survival kits to help us with distillation stuff.
- Oh, for your pee? - Yes.
So, even if I'm not drinking my pee directly, I don't mind distilling it.
But if I don't have a choice...
This is a very random, vivid memory from my childhood days.
Do you all remember this show on Channel U called 'Guess Guess Guess'.
Then one of it is the things that they have to guess right?
Is a family saying that they regularly consume their own pee.
Be it drinking it or freezing it to make ice pops and things like that.
And then they say that it has wonderful health benefits because you're essentially recycling what came out of you.
Next Eatbook taste testers.
Maverick!
Interesting.
I've learn that in relationships, everything is very complex.
So I've had this conversation with my mom.
I said "What if I bring someone home and you don't really approve."
Then she looked at my and said "Who am I to approve who you marry?"
And I was like.. :")
That's right mom. Thank you.
My mom did divorce when I was young.
And then she remarried.
So in that sense, the ideology of marriage is a bit more open I would say.
So for her it's like there's nothing for her to disapprove.
As long as you know what you're doing.
And if you choose to walk out of the marriage one day because it didn't serve your purpose..
- We will always have your back. - Yep.
- So my parents are very very supportive people. - That's amazing.
I cant imagine growing up in a family like that.
It sounds so supportive and wholesome.
It is never just you and your partner.
How your partner is interconnected with your family and how you are interconnected with your family
is very important when it comes to things like marriage.
So if you're too idealistic and think that its just us against the world,
I'm sorry that only exists in the movies.
Yeah.
And movie only 2 hour long.
Life at least 30 years long.
I mean if you're the sort of person who really don't care and
you are not going to get in contact with your parents after your marriage that kind of thing.
Like you really move overseas or to another planet or whatever and live there forever.
And you just cut off contact, then ya sure. Why not?
They don't have to approve of your partner.
But if you intent to keep your parents or family in your life,
and our partners is in your life as well,
they will have to somewhat still get along.
[PD] Any final thoughts?
Ya..
There are a lot of things that I thought would be very different between us.
But I think within the scope of relationships and integrity as a human beings and social wise,
I think we're on the same page.
Correct.
Except for the plastic surgery.
This is so fun.
I like this.
I honestly thought that I would use the pass because I wouldn't want to answers certain questions.
Guess what.
You questions were not hard at all.
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