By the end of this video,
I'm gonna give you seven really crazy weird things,
that definitely you only see narcissists do and
it's kind of gross and icky.
You definitely gonna wanna watch this and
definitely all the way till the end.
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Let's go through weird things only narcissists do.
So, even if they've known you for years,
they know how smart you are,
they know all the wonderful things that you do,
they know how much you've accomplished.
It doesn't even matter how much you've done with them.
It doesn't, whatever.
Like, if somebody else comes along,
they'd rather the opinion of strangers over you.
Do you know why? Because narcissistic supply.
They want other people to think they're so great or whatever.
So it's a form of, like, flattery for this other person,
“Oh, I love your opinion, blah, blah, blah”,
then the other person goes, “Oh, you're so great”,
it's like love-bombing this other person
by pretending like they think their opinion is so great
about the other person's opinion.
It's a love bomb on the other person, just FYI.
Mostly everybody else wants that, they don't like that.
I have a whole video around narcissists and sex.
They don't like it because it's a control thing,
they wanna control you, they don't like you in their space,
they don't like you touching that, touching their things,
they don't like intimacy, it's a control thing.
So they don't want you doing things like that.
So most people, even men, they like initiation,
but not narcissists.
It's a very weird thing about narcissists, don't take it personally,
don't think that there's a rejection thing going on,
it's part of an overall thing that's going on.
Definitely check out my video on that topic.
Definitely check out my video on
why narcissists ruin holidays.
They cannot take other people being excited
about things other than them.
They get super mad about that,
like, attention given to anything other than themselves,
they just can't stand it.
So, they get agitated, they get upset, they get angry,
they really can't stand it.
So, that's number three.
Number four is another one that's super weird, but it's so true.
They walk in front of you like if you're on vacation,
or you're going places,
they feel like they need to walk a couple of steps ahead of you,
like, even if you're not in a fight, like, no matter what,
they just feel like they need to walk in front of you,
it's just a very strange thing.
So you can't like, engage in a conversation
because they're, like, ahead of you all the time.
They creep around your stuff when you're not there,
they hack into your computer even sometimes,
for sure they do that.
They may look through your things when you're not around.
Especially if they're trying to love bomb you,
they think that you're gonna like them better if they copy you,
if they finish your sentences, or they dress like you,
they have the same likes, they have the same dislikes,
this is how they kind of got you into their web in the first place,
that's how they had I got you hooked in to begin with.
So, that's one of the other things they do,
they mirror you and they copy you and
I do have a video on this too.
That's number six.
Super weird, super creepy,
one of those things that you definitely see narcissists doing.
The last thing and this is one of those things
that can be so confusing for you all out there
that are in romantic relationship with a narcissist, especially.
I've seen this especially as an attorney.
They say, “I'm done with you”,
but it's almost like that mom that has a little bit of a shirt left of their toddler,
like, they treat you horribly and
then, they turn around and say,
“But why don't you wanna be in a relationship with me?”
“I don't think you love me, what's wrong?”
We're looking at them like… “Because you're abusive and horrible…?”
It's like complete disconnect about how they behave,
or maybe they think that you're gonna forget about it,
but that's super weird.
So, weird things that only narcissists do.
What other weird things have you guys seen?
Make sure to drop those in the comments below.
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