This video is about = "The Reasons You Deserve To Be Treated Better!" I'll explain how to recognize when
you're not being treated well by another person... when dating or in a relationship with them, and
why you deserve to be treated better! To find out more please stay tuned to this video....
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Since becoming recently single, I've noticed that people's behavior
(men and women) have been pretty bad and I'm a good quality man who's sensible, from a good family
but the dating pool (for both genders) has some pretty rotten fish in it! In particular women and
men who treat good people disrespectfully! Most men will bite their tongue for the hot chick off Tinder
who turns up late to a date... stays on her phone and talks really badly to him..."but I just want
to see her naked! She's hot! Maybe she could be my girlfriend!" he says, and women do the same thing
tolerating the man who's a game player, who's a waste of time and toxic.... "maybe there's something
about him? I can't have him but I want him!" she says when he's actually a loser or maybe he's actually
dating someone else....Why you deserve better = there are reasons why you deserve to be treated better
when you come across a time waster, a liar, a manipulator, especially when it comes to dating...
life is too short! Yes life is too short to settle less especially somebody who does not treat you
the way you treat them, or the bare minimum! If you're the one making all the effort = the phone
calls, texts, you're planning the dates, and it's not reciprocated... it's all one-sided and off-balance
stop and look at yourself in the mirror! Seriously have you seen how wonderful you are, how handsome
beautiful, funny, cool, successful? So why settle for less? Also you'll never be good enough
for the wrong person! You could do a detailed PowerPoint presentation and show them all of
the areas they've gone wrong and how they've hurt you... but these people just won't get it...because you
are never good enough for the wrong person, and frankly despite what they may say about
unrealistic standards you might hold that honestly is something they will never meet....
that is because they're not good enough for you! It's as simple as that! Here are some examples
of how they are not treating you as good as they probably should be....
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Actions over words! Always watch what a person does - never what they say! That is how to determine
exactly how you're currently being treated! Words, talk is cheap! Anyone can use words or can hide
behind a phone, anyone can be say or do anything they want with words = "I adore you! I love you! I
want to marry you! I'm obsessed with you! You to me your everything!" all of that are just words...
that may trigger a response (an emotional one) but frankly we often fall for it hook, line, and sinker!
and then slowly but surely....the mask slips and we start to determine and recognize patterns
that don't match those wonderful words, because remember talk is cheap! Anyone can say anything
and it is following up on those words that is the real definition of someone that's genuine...
There was a woman I was recently talking to (that I met off a dating app) she seemed nice and pleasant
but slowly and surely the words kept coming out = "I'm starting to build real attraction to you SCG
I think about you all the time..." however she'd take hours or days to respond.... despite not working a
very busy job (and she worked from home) "I'd like to talk on the phone to you, how about tonight?!"
Yet there was excuse after excuse, and she would constantly delay and if we were ever to speak
it was brief - when she was kind of available... "I want to go on a date! How about this weekend?"
and every single time I try to organize it, she would delay again... take ages to respond, and be difficult
You may think I'm extreme with what I'm about to say, but here's my two cents = why on earth
would I want to spend my precious time going on a date with a woman, who cannot simply go on
the phone to me, who cannot respond in a timely manner, who says one thing but acts the opposite?
You could argue she was ditzy, all over the place, but based on my personality
that is not the type of person I like to talk to date or socialize with at all....Always watch
what they do never what they say.... to always determine the true intentions of an individual...
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When it comes to dating and relationships, despite what you may have been told before (and previously
believed) there's always a tone being set! Either by you or the other person, and once bad patterns
behaviors and traits bubble from the surface, eventually slowly and surely that tone is set...
If you give most people an inch these days = they'll take a mile! And if people genuinely
believe they can get away with behaving badly and treating you poorly they'll do it! That's why it's
better to nip that in the bud almost instantly! If they do not comply, then tell them goodbye!
There was a young man who once matched with a stunning woman off a dating app who lived locally
to him! He was besotted by her beauty and insisted to himself "I must set the tone that I'm rich and
successful!" when actually he really wasn't... So when he took her out on a first date - he showered her
with gifts and booked one of the most expensive restaurants! Every single day he sent loving texts
of attention and affirmation - "she's so beautiful I've got to treat her like a princess!" he said
However this attractive woman was a big narcissist and she played him like a fool! As they eventually
began dating - the demands were outrageous! He would always have to pay (no matter what) he called her
first (she never called him) he always had to do whatever she wanted, and bend over backwards...
Then one day exhausted, bankrupt after blowing all his money on his now girlfriend... he told her "listen
I don't want to go out tonight... do you mind if we just stay at home and chill?" "You're not taking
me out?!" she said. "I'm a little strapped for cash...Do you mind if we stay in?" She growled "if I don't
get dinner, you don't get to see me!" Now this may be painfully obvious for us observing from the
outside but foolishly this man set the tone from the offset = putting her on the pedestal so much so
that none of his needs were met, and he lost a hell of a lot of time, energy and money! Try and
set a respectful turn early, and if they're going to be difficult, they're not going to comply, tell
them goodbye! If you're enjoying this video please hit the like button for the YouTube algorithm and
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The longer you tolerate bad behavior, remain passive, bite your tongue, and keep quiet
the larger the resentment grows... and trust me that's not a healthy place to be!
You might do any of the following = pretend to be fine but you're not....
tread on eggshells, try bottling up your anger... your frustration, be in a mood but try and keep
it under wraps but badly, have a feeling in your stomach that something's off! Remember that woman
I would told you about that I was speaking to a dating app - whose actions didn't meet her words?
It was my resentment for her that grew and the reason why I had to say something! I don't play
games - I reply when I see a text I've got nothing to hide - what you see is what you get! But sadly
most people are full of crap and instead play a fake narrative... which I have a low tolerance for
When I recognized it it'd been days since we spoke on the phone, and that she'd been difficult
and not very compromising, I called her out! I said "you said we were going to talk but we haven't, I've
been patient! I'm trying to organize my week! I called you didn't answer... this ain't my style..."
She got defensive - turned into a mini argument... we deleted numbers! Thus saving me a lot of time and
energy moving forward, and the reason why initially is = because I obviously deserved better and again
I was growing resentment towards her! Had I gone on a date with her... my mood would be
bad....I would have been secretly annoyed at being messed around....I would have felt emasculated at how
she just couldn't do basic things like communicate and talk the way we were why am i going to go on a
date with a woman who really is actually turning me off with this pretty basic but bad behavior...
I'm sure there are many people who would stomach such things = let it go and turn it around and might
see me as being really critical and harsh... but life is too short for people who don't treat me the way
that I treat them, and I deserve to be treated.... and full disclosure I treated her extremely well
even up to that final chapter - being patient and understanding. Resentment grows if you tolerate
less than what you probably truly deserve....If you've made it this far into this video...let me
share a little secret that you probably already know = some people are just rude or have no manners
some people are just disrespectful, or low quality, they're trashy, or not very classy...
they can be quite naive and foolish.... they can be really childish and immature or they could be just
an utter mess in life! That's it really = if you're accomplished, hard working, transparent, good quality
why settle for anything less? Why tolerate a low life when it's not up to your standards?
That woman who got defensive with me with her poor communication skills etc, said the following =
"I'm sorry I'm not good enough for you and your unrealistic standards!!" All I asked was a phone
call back to arrange a date.... if that is unrealistic and you can't meet basic human requirements then
jog on sister! The bar is very low for most people and in the dating world most people tolerate that
disrespect, bad behavior, rudeness almost instantly... in the hopes and prayers the other person will
end up liking them, sleeping with them etc... but personally now I hold myself to a higher standard
and don't have the time and energy for anyone who can't meet basic human needs, morals and values....
This is not arrogance by the way, this is how I choose to live my life and if I wanted to just
be with anyone I would have stayed in my previous toxic negative relationships. People are just rude
and stupid sometimes.... just cut them offm walk away and let them be someone else's problem... Remember
you deserve better... especially if you're doing the work to improve yourself... always....