Quazi here. And in today's video,
I wanna share with you a recent epiphany that I had on the differences between
the abundance and the scarcity mentality and how we subconsciously keep
ourselves in the scarcity mentality and how to break free from it so that
you can achieve your goals in the most effortless way possible.
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I wanna talk to you about the differences between the abundance and the scarcity
mentality and how we subconsciously keep ourselves and scarcity mentality.
And you'll notice that every single successful person has and are
in this abundance mentality. And I'm gonna explain to you exactly how now,
if you are new to this concept of abundance and scarcity mentality,
it essentially, it's kind of like this. The abundance mentality is the belief,
the fun mental belief that there is enough in this world for everyone. Okay.
There's enough for you. There's enough for me. There are no limited resources.
Okay. There is enough to go around for everyone. Okay.
Everything that you truly want, if you were to get it,
it wouldn't mean that someone else were to get less. Okay.
So it eliminates this concept of competition. The scarcity mentality.
On the other hand, assumes competition, limited resources. It assumes that, oh,
the earth has limited resources. If I get food, then someone else won't.
If someone else gets food, then I won't. Right. And according with our,
according to our beliefs, you know, we amplify them,
exaggerate them until they start to negatively affect a psychological
or start to manifest in our lives, in, in the physical equivalent. Okay.
Now the scarcity mentality begins. Initially,
when we talk about desire in this teaching of manifestation and the law of
attraction, what we talk about is this concept of a burning desire. Okay,
well, I'm gonna write this down burning desire.
So you've probably without a doubt heard of this burning desire before.
And I first heard of this concept from Napoleon hill in his book,
thinking grow rich and it, and it, he said,
you must have a burning desire in order to achieve your goal.
So I had this burning desire and I was trying to cultivate this burning desire
every single day. But then what I realized was when I had this burning desire,
what was happening was I was telling myself I'm not good enough for this,
or I should want it. And if I wanted it, then I will someday,
someday I will be good enough for that money that I want for that business that
I want to get for that girl that I want to bring into my life.
I will be good enough for her.
One day I will be good enough when I kept telling myself that it always kept
delaying it, right?
It always put a separation between me and the self that I wanted to become.
And because of that, there was always that gap. I was,
I was constantly reinforcing that gap and that became my reality.
So most people live in this burning desire state of where they like to
fantasize about their goals,
because they can't allow themselves to have their goals right now.
If you think about it, it's kind of like, uh, going on Instagram and you, uh,
I scrolling through some girl's profile thinking, oh,
we know it would be nice if I could have this girl,
but you don't really want this girl or this guy or this person.
You just like to think that you want this guy or this person,
if you were to start dating that person right now, you wouldn't know what to do.
Like if you were to get all of your goals,
everything that you wanted handed to you right now,
you wouldn't know what to do with it. It would be completely unnatural to you.
This goes to show that you are not within yourself,
ready to achieve and accept that that's not your reality internally yet.
And because of that reason, you are not experiencing it. Okay.
And through our desires,
we like to establish to ourselves that we're not good enough by reinforcing that
gap. I hope that made sense. That kind of went on a long winded run,
but I hope that made sense. So we, in the scarcity mentality,
we create this gap. So burning desire creates a gap,
and this is the scarcity mentality.
Now another quality of the scarcity mentality,
which we subconsciously keep ourselves stuck in is the quality of settling for
things. Okay? And here's an example, you know,
maybe you set a goal to achieve a certain revenue per month in your business and
grow it to a certain level. And, uh, or maybe,
maybe you were wanted a partner or a certain person that you wanted. Now,
what happens is
you are maybe some go shows an interest in you or a guy shows an interest in you
and you know, deep down, okay. You know this, you know,
deep down that this person, you're not truly attracted with this person,
but right now you're single and you've always wanted a relationship.
But you know that, you know, you're not fully,
you're not a hundred percent sold on this person or maybe that house you're
gonna buy or maybe that business or that job offer. But you accept it anyways,
because you know,
you need money or you need to be with someone and it sucks to be lonely.
And what you do is in order to avoid the negative counterpart, which is,
it sucks to be alone. You settle for this person.
So people who are stuck in the scarcity mentality, they settle. Okay.
So you'll notice this quality when you start to settle for things,
you're subconsciously telling yourself, this is all I'm good for this job.
This offers all I'm good for. And then you slowly grow to resent the job,
or you slowly grow to resent the partner, which is actually bad for the partner.
Like if you're not fully attracted to someone, you shouldn't be dating them.
Right. Or any other thing that you're doing,
you're doing that thing a disservice. If you're not fully into it,
as that wasn't truly meant for you, right. It was meant for someone else,
someone else would love that person that you're dating,
that you you've settled for.
Someone else would probably love that job that you've settled for. Right.
And I was faced with this reality when I, uh,
graduated college and I had a job offer lined up for me. And it was a cushy,
comfy, $60,000 a year job. And, um,
I exercised the abundance mindset when I told myself, Hey, wait,
this is a great job offer.
And it would give me money and I would need money right now. Right.
I would love to have money right now, but do I want to sell myself for it? No.
So decided to not settle for the job, but fully commit to my business,
which at, at the time was basically making zero to three K a month. Right.
And because I did that because I didn't settle,
I established to myself, abundance.
I'm actually worthy of much more. I'm contributing to this.
I'm delaying gratification to achieve something else.
Something much greater because I'm worthy. Right.
That's how you enter the abundance mindset by not settling,
by refusing to settle. So people who are in the abundance mindset,
this is the secret quality, right. They refuse to settle.
So if you look at my story, when I refuse to settle for that,
um, we've looked at many different houses, too. My wife and I,
and we've looked at maybe over 30 or 40 houses and I've refused to
settle. Right. because we knew that, okay, these houses are good.
All of these houses are good, but they're just not quite it. And when, you know,
you know, when you know that someone is right for you, you know,
I knew my girlfriend at the time would be the person that I wanted to spend the
rest of my life with because I just knew I could see that, you know, I,
I can't really see myself with anyone else.
So people who are in this abundance mindset also learn to trust their intuition
when they know they know, and they don't doubt, okay.
They don't ever question it. When that feeling arises,
they go with that and they fully double down on it.
So they have this quality of faith. And I've talked a about faith,
a lot in this channel. If you scroll up, put a little eye up there,
you can click on it and see a video on what faith really means and how to
cultivate it. But people who are in abundance mindset
refuse to settle ever. And they always go for what feels right. Okay.
Logically, it must make sense. And within you, it must feel a hundred percent,
right. And only then do you fully commit? Now there's always, you know,
a chance to take this to the extremes and you just say no to everything.
So you must always learn to have a balance between the two. So for example,
you know, the house that we're buying right now,
I could always find floors in it, but these floors are fixable, right?
So if I can fix these floors by working on the house itself, then I'll do it.
But overall, do I like the things that are unchangeable? If yes,
then I go for it, right? So that's the abundance mindset.
So the question becomes, how do we into the abundance mindset?
What's the fundamental difference in someone's focal point when they're in the
abundance mindset, versus when they're in the scarcity mindset.
And this is what it is. If I draw this web right now on the left hand side,
we're gonna have scarcity.
And I hope you can see this on the right hand side, we're gonna have abundance.
I'm gonna use a different pen for this. So in the scarcity mindset,
this is what the person's life looks like.
So someone in the scarcity mindset who has this burning desire for
something,
they crave something because they've been lacking at their whole lives.
Let's say it's money, right?
What they do is they place money in the center of their lives.
Their whole lives revolve around money.
And then they have the other areas of their lives, like health
relationship
themselves and their per development, their spiritual journey.
All of that. When you do this, you become a slave to money,
right? If your whole life revolves around money,
you're always going to be controlled by monetary matters.
If there's like something you have to spend money on,
you're gonna be closely guarding it. You know, your,
your whole life story revolves around money,
and money's gonna tug you all the time.
And when we fall slave to something, it controls us,
whatever we hear about money, anything negative, we become quickly closed off.
Whenever we hear like an opportu needed to get money,
we quickly drop everything and chase money, right?
So this is what happens in scarcity mentality. And this is just an example.
I'm giving you where the, where money is in the center,
the focal point of someone's life. On the other hand,
if you are an abundance mindset,
what happens is money is no longer in the center. Guess what else is?
Guess what actually is in the center right now?
And I hope you can see this what's in the center right now is the self is me,
okay, myself and my personal growth and everything else,
the relationships, the money, the business,
the health,
all of those other things become a supplement to help you grow in your spiritual
journey. When you double down on yourself,
you tap into this abundance mindset quite simply.
So when you double down on money or you double down on partner
and women and men and you know, fitness,
then that thing starts to control and run your life.
You become a slave to that thing. But when you become a slave to yourself,
you are basically doubling down on yourself, right?
It's like you are inverting it. And in that way,
it starts to positively affect other areas of your life because you no longer,
you know, your own worth, right? Your worth, isn't determined by money.
It isn't determined by the women you are dating, or the men you're dating.
It's determined by what you say it is.
And this is the secret to entering abundance mindset by placing yourself
at the center and always doubling down on yourself on your education,
on your personal growth, reading, working on your health.
Like for me, growth in business is a challenge to see how much I can grow.
Right growth in my relationship is a challenge to see how much I can grow.
So this is my own personal journey and everything else is actually
helping me grow. I'm learning a lot of lessons from those, right?
So business is not. The center. Relationship is not the center.
Health is not the center. All of those things could go away,
but I would still be fine. And from that,
we can come and boil everything down to one fundamental truth.
When you can be fulfilled by nothing,
that's when you have the potential to have anything. Okay.
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I guess I'm gonna do a quick recap of what we talked about.
We talked about the abundance versus the scarcity mindset, how to enter it.
And we talked about how having a burning desire always leads you to entering
scarcity mentality.
And we also talked about what the focal point is when you're in scarcity
mentality versus where you're in abundance mentality in scarcity mentality.
It's the thing that we want to pursue.
That becomes the core focus on in our lives. It could be money.
It could be relationships, it could be a health, it could be something else,
but an abundance mindset, your focal point, it becomes you,
you focus on your growth and your personal journey and you double down on
yourself and everything else is a supplement to that.
That leads you to grow and to become a better human being. Right? So, yeah,
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