Hey there, this is Clay.
And today I want to talk about information hoarders.
A lot of people will sign up for our program and they'll, they'll learn about the active
no contact rule about the three mindset pillars and about, the, the three ways that you can
really cultivate the kind of personality and the kind of, emotional capacity that you actually
really need in order to get back together with your ex and to save your relationship.
And you know, they'll do that for maybe like a week or two weeks or something like another.
Then they'll just be like, yeah, I'm ready for the next phase.
Let's go, let's give it to me.
Come on.
I'm so ready for this.
You know, I kind of made up my own version of no contact.
He was like basically the same as yours.
I'm so ready.
Yeah, let's do it.
I'm ready.
You know, I, I did it.
I'm ready.
Let's give me the Ninja tricks, man.
Give me the tricks, the Ninja tricks.
I mean, the templates give me the, the black hat techniques.
Give me the covert psychological hypnosis scripts.
I'm so ready for that, man.
I'm ready.
Unlock module five.
Yeah.
And that's what they say.
That's maybe not with that kind of zest and vigor, but that's essentially what they say.
And, essentially their information hoarders, you know, they, they want to know the next
trick, the next tactic, the next secret move, because they believe that the next thing is
going to somehow unlock the solution to their problem.
And, you know, information hoarders.
There's, they're so concerned about every chess move, about every possible scenario
that could play out in the future, that they're terrified to actually just do the work.
And you know, it's not who knows the most tricks, the most tactics.
It's not who knows the most, you know, secret maneuvers that's going to win in this game
of love.
It's the person who actually gets down and does the work, does the day to day work, no
matter how boring, no matter how mundane it may seem, this the person who actually does
it, that is successful at getting their ex back and saving their relationship.
And, and really in anything in life.
And you know, I want you to consider that maybe it's not the next thing.
It's not the next phase.
It's not the next trick.
It's not the next tactic that's going to save your relationship.
It's what you're doing right now.
It's the things that are available to you right now.
It's the, it's the mindset work.
It's the transformation work.
There's available to you from the exact moment that you sign up for the program that is going
to unlock what you want.
It's what you have in front of you right now.
It's what you're doing right now.
Just consider that we you're doing right now.
We could change everything in your relationship.
It's not something out in the future.
It's not something out in this wonderful paradise of tomorrow.
It's what's lying in front of you right now.
It's what you choose to do, right?
It's what you choose not to do right now.
It's what you refuse to decide on doing right now that's going to shape your future.
It's going to shape your life.
It's going to shape the results you get with your ex is going to shape your relationship.
And I want you to really consider that and what that hit you.
And I want you to just do the basics.
Focus on the basics because it's not the Ninja tricks, it's not the tactics, it's not the
covert persuasion scripts or anything like that that are going to save your relationship,
that are going to make things better.
It's what you do every day.
It's mastering the basics.
It's just, you know, doing the everyday simple exercises that we teach in the first part
of our course.
It's going to make all the difference.
Now, of course we in the, in the second part we go into some strategy.
We help you, you know, craft, how to reach out to your ex and all that.
But that is going to mean absolutely nothing if you failed to master the basics.
And that is why information hoarders will always fail when it comes to saving the relationship
and getting back together.
It is why they will never be able to do the kinds of things that people who are willing
to put in the work and master, what we teach in the first half, what they're capable of
doing.
They'll never be able to, to, to, to be able to perform on the same level as the people
who have mastered the basics because they believe that they have to master some advanced
tip, some scientifically proven psychological script or something like that in order to
have success.
But success is just based on what you do today.
It's based on the basics.
It's based on a simple understanding of the fundamentals.
It's based on actually doing the work on practicing what you learn.
It's not just based on mastering some Ninja trick tomorrow.
It's not based on tomorrow at all.
Success is based on today.
It's based on what you do right now.
So with that, I want to ask you, what are you going to do right now today?
I don't want you to try to lust after some kind of secret tactic that you might learn
tomorrow.
They might learn 30 minutes from now that you might learn when you download yet another
ebook.
I want you to focus on what you're going to do today.
What are you going to do right now?
What you're going to do in this moment, this moment right now that you're experiencing
with me on this video.
Feel that moment, feel that moment, and then decide what you want to do.
Well, so I hope this gives you the courage to really practice the basics, to stop believing
that there's some sort of magical tactics script or something like that, that that lies
around the corner up ahead.
Because there isn't, there isn't.
You have to practice the basics and the fundamentals if you're going to actually succeed at saving
a relationship and getting your ex back.
And that is the reason why we have the two separate phases in our program.
It's because we want to give you the space to practice that without the distraction of
thinking that you need to use these tactics.
These are these strategies when you haven't really gone through the process yet.
So please don't say that you've like invented something kind of similar to what we do, what
we, what we teach.
And you've been doing it for the past three months because you know, I know that's not
true because nobody else teaches what we teach and I'm just being honest.
Nobody else teaches what we teach.
And if you joined last week, then you have not done the active no contact rule yet.
It's as simple as that and you just have to put in the basics if you really want to succeed.
And you know, if you just want to gather information that's totally fine, that's totally fine.
If you just want to have this massive collection of, of hundreds of scripts and, and, and,
and psychological tactics and everything at your disposal, that is fine that, that's your
own prerogative.
But I'm assuming that you want to save your relationship.
I'm assuming you want to get your ex back.
I'm assuming you want to have the great loving relationship that you know in your heart you
can have with this person.
And if that's the case, I want to really encourage you to practice the fundamentals to build
off of those three mindset pillars that we teach in the first part of the course.
Do that, and it doesn't matter what tactics, usually it doesn't matter because you'll have
the fundamentals, you'll have the transformation internally done down so solid that it doesn't
really even matter what you do because your ex we'll, we'll, we'll see in everything that
you do, all of the transformations will come through in every single action that you take
there.
It doesn't really even matter what you do and you don't have to memorize scripts or
tactics or anything like that.
So I hope that makes sense to you and I hope that gives you permission to, to really do
what's already in front of you without having to lust after the next script or the next
tactic or the next persuasion strategy or anything like that.
Because it's really about what you choose to do right now that's going to make or break
your chances of you getting back together.
It's not in the secret formula developed by Russian scientists and the Kremlin or anything
like that.
It's, it's what you choose to do now in this moment that's going to decide what is going
to happen with your ex and your relationship.
So I hope this helps you out.
If you'd like to end Lauren about how to save your relationship, head on over to relationshipinnergame.com
and sign up there.
Thanks.