It can be hard to know what to say when you first meet a girl, especially when you're
trying to get that flirty banter going. So on this video I'm going to be giving you 17
different phrases with context that you can use to get the flirtiness started as soon as
possible. And I have a whole module on flirting in my course called Hooked which you can check
it out at Get Her Hooked.com I'll put a link down in the description below. That teaches
you everything about attraction and flirting and how to get women hooked on you. Here's the first
one "your trouble". Okay so you're gonna look at her and say "your trouble". You say this in the
context where she might have said something kind of risque or something that you disagree with,
and it doesn't have to be like super risque, it can be something really little and with
all these phrases you don't have to use them at the exact perfect time. That's the beauty
of it. You can just kind of throw it out there because it doesn't have to be super logical.
Number two similar to the last one where you can say it where if she says something sort of
risque or you can say it if she says something that you agree with. So whether you agree or
disagree you're in conversation you can look at her and say "what am I going to do with you?"
And that's something that you would say maybe not right away. This is a little bit deeper
into conversation like "what am I going to do with you?" and you have a little bit of a smirk on your
face and that's what makes it flirty. One of my favorites is "this is never gonna work out". This
is number three "this is never gonna work out". So again anything she says that you might disagree
with that's gonna be the context as well. You're gonna be saying "this is never going to work out"
as if you're saying you and her are never going to work out. That's the whole idea here. You're going
to see a theme through all of these. The theme here is some sort of tease or pushing her away
metaphorically pushing her away, saying something that most guys would not say. You're not going to
get a lot of compliments here that I'm going to be listing off today. It's stuff that's going
to be more of like pushing her way teasing her showing her that hey it's not gonna actually work
out. Specifically with this one "this is never going to work out". You can even say "you and I,
this is never going to work out." And again you're doing it in this teasing and joking
manner. The next one is a little bit different, it's not so much of a push but more of a pull,
and you're doing this kind of cocky funny thing where you're being kind of cocky but also it's a
joke, hence cocky funny. And you're gonna say "I know, I'm totally your type." You'll say "I know,
I know, I'm totally your type. So you might say something about yourself, she might ask you about
yourself, and then you'll say "yeah I know, I know I can already tell I'm totally your type."
Showing her hey there's a little bit of Interest here, also you got to remember the things that
I'm saying here on today's video is really something about the underlying context of
this is a romantic conversation. Not romantic in the like oh it's romantic. I don't mean
like flowers and candles. I mean romantic like this is not going to be friendship,
so you're entering this conversation where it's sort of flirty, where you're saying
these things to start building a context of this is something that might go further onto a date.
That's why you might say "I know I'm totally not your type" because now you're talking about the
fact that you guys could even be each other's type which is what, that's something you would
say when you like someone, when you're attracted to somebody like this next one. Number five here,
you're gonna say "okay where are we going on our first date?" Something you might say more into
the conversation where you guys have been talking for a while and you say "okay so let's set it up,
where are we going on a first date?" And I know it sounds kind of serious and it kind of is, and
you can use it serious like as if you're asking her on a first date, but you can also use it
in a more sarcastic joking way. Like maybe you guys agree on something or you're like
oh wow you really like this too, or you like this kind of music too, whatever it is and you
say "okay well that's it where are we going on our first date?" You can even extend this,
you can role play a little bit. This is just some bonus ones here like "okay that's it when
are we getting married?" "Tell me when's the date?" Something like that. "Okay that's it
you're my new girlfriend okay let's skip all the dating stuff. We're boyfriend girlfriend now.
Where are we going on our first date?" Let's get into some more teasy stuff. The next one here is
"you're a total nerd aren't you?" Okay so you say that to her only in the context where she might
say something that is remotely nerdy or geeky or whatever it is. I mean it doesn't have to be
so literal. She doesn't have to be talking about stuff that's like stereotypically nerdy. You can
just kind of say it based on whatever she says, and that's the fun part. It's like take a few of
these and try these out and see where they go, see what happens, see how the woman reacts, and
even try to use some of these for fun in a time where like it wouldn't make perfect sense. Because
I want to show you how powerful that these can be when you're flirting with someone that it doesn't
have to be so logical. If she says something that you disagree with you can say "all right don't
be a brat" or if she's acting bratty or she's acting needy or something like that you can say
"all right stop being a brat." The next one very similar to the last one. You can say "does someone
need a timeout" as if you're treating her like a child. It's like "does someone need a time out?"
"Do I need to put you in at timeout right now?" You can say that if you disagree with something,
you can say something, you could do that if she's teasing you back. So if she's giving you crap you
could say "okay hold on does someone need a timeout right now?" The next one is a little
bit condescending so you got to be careful with this one, but you can also use it in a way where
she's not necessarily in a heavy emotional state. I'll explain. "It's okay sweetie,
it's okay sweetie we'll get through this." "Sweetie it's okay we'll get through this." So
you can say this as a joke where in the context maybe you guys are talking about something that
maybe she's like pissed about or sad about or not happy about for whatever reason. Like "sweetie
it's okay we'll get through this." In the similar context you could also say one that's like "uh oh,
uh oh, hold on we've upset the princess." So maybe you tease her and she gets mad about it
and then you can tease her again and say "oh no oh my bad I think we've upset the princess" or maybe
she is grossed out by something or turned off by something like she's mentioning in conversation
like "I would never do this, I would never go here, I would never do that." You could say "uh oh
looks like we've upset the princess." Next one is like a challenging one where you're just kind
of flirting with getting to know each other. You'll say to her "all right I bet you can't
guess..." and then fill in the blank. Like "I bet you can't guess what I do for work." "I bet you
can't guess where I live. I bet you can't guess what my favorite movie is" whatever some sort
of thing to make her guess which then starts to get her more invested in you, but also is flirty
type banter. If she ever does something that you like here's the next one. You could say "wow good
work all right one point for you" giving her some sort of scoring system as a joke. Maybe you do it
once or twice in conversation like "okay that's good not bad you just scored another point" and
you're almost saying it like you've scored points with me as if you're qualifying her to be with
you. Next one is a little bit more specific but I do like it. If there's ever a time where she's
maybe indecisive or she can't think of something she's kind of stuck somewhere in her head when
you guys are chatting you can say "you know, I can tell you're probably not one for making decisions
are you?" "I can tell you're probably not one for making decisions." Something to that degree where
you're teasing her a little bit on the fact that she's being indecisive. Another one where she's
saying something that you like that you enjoy that you are just digging her on, you can say "okay you
know what now I think you can be my best friend." So I know earlier I said in the beginning of the
video there's stuff you can say to get into that more romantic context like "okay where's our first
date, we're gonna be boyfriend and girlfriend, we're getting married." This one is another one
you can use. I know it sounds like well wait doesn't that get me in the friend zone if
I'm saying best friend? No it doesn't because you wouldn't say that to a friend like this in itself
is a flirty sentence. "Okay now you can be my best friend" and also the way that you say it the way
you're looking at her with really good eye contact like "okay now you can be my best friend" as if
you're allowing her to be your friend be with you whatever. It is flirty despite the verbage being
used. Here's a really good one we're saving the best for last here. "I think that you're too nice
for me. I would be a bad influence." Okay so you say that to her, "you know, I just have this hunch
that you're just way too nice for me. I just think I'd be a bad influence." Telling her basically
that you're a bad boy in a sense but without doing it in this kind of cheesy way. You're
just like "okay I'd be a bad influence on you like you're way too nice." Here's a really easy
one you could probably use this anytime if she says something that she likes or
something she's done. You basically make this exaggeration you go "hold on, wait a second,
you like what? Oh no. This changes everything." So bringing some emotion into the conversation,
really all of these do this but especially this one. Like "wait, what? You like what or
you don't like this or you've moved here, you've lived here, you've done this, you traveled here,
okay this changes everything." Here's an amazing one. If she's flirting with you, if she's giving
you a compliment, if she's showing any kind of Interest even if it's very subtle. You could
say "uh oh stop trying to seduce me I caught you" or some variation of that like "you have to stop,
you have to stop trying to seduce me because it's not gonna work." Speaking of seduction if you
want to know the mindsets behind seduction so you can use these phrases even better,
check out the video here on the screen about the seduction mindsets. And don't forget, if you want
to learn more about attraction and flirting check out my course at www.getherhooked.com.