Hi, I’m Christy Whitman author of The Art of Having it All and you are watching the
Quantum Success Show where you can get your information and inspiration to create your
desires.
In this episode we are going to explore creating from the inside out.
Creating…
Understanding that our beliefs filter the way we experience reality gives us a really
important clue to the hidden mechanism that governs creation.
Everything we experience in the external manifested world is a direct reflection of what we are
experiencing within the internal world of our perception.
You know life is a dance between our inner and outer.
Between the spiritual and the material.
Between energy and matter.
This is because as human beings we exist on multiple dimensions simultaneously.
There’s a part of us that is tangible and manifested.
The part that exist in the physical form that interacts with other forms.
That takes the physical concrete action.
The underlying physical aspect of us is our nonphysical essence.
The inner realms where our thoughts, beliefs, perceptions, desires, and emotions are form.
It’s always present.
Whether we are at rest or in motion when we are awake or asleep the broader nonphysical
aspect of ourselves breathes life into the physical.
The physical aspect of us is a visible out picturing of the dimension that is nonphysical.
But the realms of our existence are inseparable in the same way that the five your hand is
inseparable from the back of your hand.
We now know both from physics and modern science as well as timeless wisdom that energy, not
matter is the basis of everything that exists in the universe.
Even things that appear to our senses as solid matter like rocks, mountains, trees, that
spare tire the sometimes mysteriously appears across the midsection…
They are made up entirely of energy.
In fact it has been said that only 4% of our being manifest that material form while 96%
of us exist as pure and manifested energetic potential.
Formless, Mao you pull and intangible.
So in the words of the 20th century philosopher Chardin…….”
We are not human beings who have occasional spiritual experiences; we are spiritual beings
having an occasional human experience.”
We may identify ourselves with our bodies but our bodies represent only the tip of the
metaphoric iceberg of the whole being that we are truly.
We are pure unbounded consciousness that is temporarily focus right here, right now in
these bodies with these unique set of experiences and for the span of our particular lifetime.
You know look into the eyes of a newborn baby and you will see as human beings we are really
comprised of far more of the consciousness then we are matter.
We are born into the world innocent, trusting, and completely devoid of preconceptions or
limiting beliefs.
The people and the things that exist around us occur to us as extensions of ourselves.
After all the moment we express and need someone or something comes along to meet it.
Our natural state we experience and express the full range of our human emotions without
restrictions, pretense or even a shred of self-consciousness.
As babies the question of whether we ourselves worthy of love or having our needs met doesn’t
even exist.
We come in hardwired with the knowledge that the world is abundant and that we too are
abundant.
That we are of course deserving of having all of our desires fulfilled.
We don’t hesitate to voice our discontent when our needs are not getting mad and we
certainly don’t pretend to be happy when we are not.
Before we are taught to seek approval and validation outside of ourselves we inherently
understand that our inner world of our own thoughts feelings, perceptions and desires
not the external world of our external world of people, things, and possessions is primary
to our well-being.
The way we feel is far more important to us than what we have.
What we have to do or how we look.
Then somewhere around the time of our first or second birthday language infiltrates our
world giving definition and form to what was previously formless and undefined.
From our parents and other elders we are given distinctions about the objects that exist
around us.
This is a chair, this is blue…
Then we are given distinctions about who we are and how we should behave.
You’re mommy’s good girl…
Wave bye-bye to daddy…
Suddenly the world is no longer a natural extension of ourselves which we are free to
interact with that play with and create with that a material, external reality that we
must learn how to manipulate in order to get our needs met.
The world now exist out there while we exist in here.
The experience that we crave such as happiness, contentment, and joy, love, freedom are seen
as originated from sources outside of ourselves and we must seek that am possessed that approval
in order to tame it.
To affect a change in the way we feel inside, we are taught that we must affect a change
in the world around us.
If ever we have an inner sense of feeling, frustrated, and happiness, discontent…
We look to others outside of ourselves and we carry it well into our adulthood.
What I need is a new boyfriend, we decide.
Then I will be happy.
Or if I only made more money or had a baby or lost 10 pounds or have a second home or
was near the water.
This original fallacy and I thinking, this outside in approach to happiness sets us on
a lifelong journey towards really this destination I can never be reached.
Anytime we are looking outside of ourselves for something that can only be generated from
within such as approval, recognition, acceptance, love…
We are coming from a mindset of lack and nothing will never ever be enough to fill that void.
The new lover my initially do the trick for a while but then suddenly he isn’t showing
up the way that he once did and then he becomes not enough.
Or the success that we thought for sure that would finally prove that we are deserving
of love and sepulcher in like…
Now what?
Even the goals that we’ve had for a long time often don’t bring us the fulfillment
that we thought they would.
Ever since the beginning of my career as a teacher and a coach…
One of my biggest goals was to become a New York Times’s best-selling author.
My work featured on national TV and…
This is a biggie for me.
Because I felt that the accomplishment of it all represented a milestone that will cause
my life to dramatically change for the better.
I had Artie created an amazing life.
When I got the call from a literary agent that my third book had hit the number five
spot on a New York Times list I was so excited.
I happen to be at the mall with Alex and Maxim who were three and about a year and a half
at the time and I kind of note down to them to see them and their double stroller and
said…
Mommy is a New York Times best-selling author…
They looked at me like I was completely speaking a foreign language.
It didn’t make them love me anymore than they already did.
It did make my husband change the way my husband looked at me or how much love he had for me
because he already loved me for me not what I accomplished.
After about a day of celebrating you know the milestone that I had really worked for
for many years…
I actually started feeling a little sad and depressed.
So here I was finally a New York Times best-selling author and I had appeared on the today show
and many other national TV spots.
My life had not changed overnight the way I had imagined that it would.
So in fact my life is exactly the same as it was before.
Which again was a nice life but the accomplishment of my new title did not meet the expectations
that I had and I felt really deflated.
Yes doing TV appearances was fun.
And yes having the title of best-selling author gave me more credibility in the eyes of other
people but for me inside, it didn’t do a thing.
If anything it actually felt less fulfilled.
Because it that didn’t do it then I don’t know what would.
So I was searching for external things that we would hope would make us feel good inside
is really the cause of much of our unhappiness.
This outside in approach to happiness disconnects us from the true source of our creative power
and takes us further away from the essence of how we want our lives to look and feel.
You know manifestation is not creating from the outside in as many of us were taught.
It is not the experience, the people, the things that we desire that brings us the joy.
It’s the joy that brings us the experiences, the people, and the things that we desire.
On one hand running after all these things, trying to accomplish what I had was great.
But on the other hand the things I created were never what I really was seeking.
Although it was disguised as a goal to become a New York Times best-selling author what
I was actually seeking was a connection to myself and to the energy of filling full.
Everything that exists in our outer world of form including all living beings, all in
animal objects…
So to the world the inner world of our thoughts feelings perceptions desires and beliefs is
also made up of energy.
So take a moment to close your eyes.
See if you can feel the energy that is pulsating throughout your body right now.
You are literally made up of energy.
All energy generates an electro-magnetic field that vibrates at a particular frequency.
This vibration can be felt even if they can’t be seen.
Our own particular vibration is transmitted through the airwaves like a radio signal and
is registered by everyone and everything around us.
In the same way that magnet is attracted to steel we draw to ourselves energy that resonates
at a similar frequency to our own.
The people, situations, and experiences that come into our lives are always a perfect vibrational
match to the frequency that we are sending out through the actions that we take, the
words that we speak, and most significantly through the thoughts, the police, the conclusions,
the perceptions, the feelings that we’d well on in the privacy of our own hearts and
minds.
Even if we never voice them they are silently but powerfully conveyed and all that is because
the universe that we live in reads and responds not to our words but to our vibration.
Although we manifest and all that we don’t manifest into our lives is governed by this
process of attraction.
So to learn more about law of attraction you can watch the video that is specific to law
of attraction and I will also be talking about this in depth in the show that we are going
to see next week.
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