N: Hi Jamie, I was in a long-distance relationship
N: For nearly 3 years
N: He came back during his school break but became
N: Really weird N: Okay? J: Hmm
N: At first, I thought it was just because he was
N: Graduating soon and maybe he was stressed
N: Then he started saying "We should break up"
J+N: Oh
N: Kept telling me that J: OHHH N: I can not visit him
J: HOLD UP HOLD- N: Oh wait wait wait
N: And stood me up at the last minute
N: We broke up because I figured out that
N: He was cheating on me with his friend's- Oh damn, ex
N: Friend's ex? Wait. Friend's ex??
N: This mothafucker's-
J: So I'm dating y-, no N: No no its like J: Okay
J: No we're not, okay, sorry N: Shut up
N: Okay, I'll say that again
N: We broke up because I figured out that he was
N: Cheating on me with his friend's ex for 3 months+ already
N: When I found out, I didn't confront him and just texted him
N: That we are over
N: For me, I wanted to end this thing quietly and maturely
N: But then his friends started to tell me that he's
N: Telling people that I was the one that wouldn't let go
N: Of this relationship and it's my fault
N: This motherfucker is like crazy like
N: He keeps spreading all this false info and keep telling
N: People that he didn't cheat, even still I've been silent
N: About it. But the story doesn't end here, oh my gosh
N: He now keeps asking me to payback for all the
N: Things he gifted to me. At first, I thought just pay him
N: And end all this shit but he asked for more money still
N: So I decided to never give him money anymore
N: My problem is that after all this drama
N: I'm so scared of dating now
N: My friends say to give it a try and date someone else
N: But I'm really scared
N: What suggestions would you give me on getting over these struggles?
J: Girl. Congratulations for ending the stupidest guy ever
J: Clap. J+N: *CLAPS*
J: It's really hard to end these kind of situations if you
J: Are still in love, which you call
J: It's a very toxic relationship to be N: Hmm
J: He's the one whos doing all these bad things but why
J: Do you have to feel bad, it's really..
J: It's just not right
J: But... for him, um
J: I'm really sorry that he kinda lost you, I mean
J: You don't really have to be sorry for him cause
J: Dating his friend's ex, is like at the first place he
J: Doesn't have any respect to one of his friends or any
J: People around him. So soon, he's gonna lose all that
J: And his dick too, um
J: Don't be silent about it, why would you be silent about it
J: Um, if it was me and if my boyfriend
J: *Whispers* If I had a boyfriend
J: If my boyfriend does that to me
J: I would play baseball with his dick, alright? So
N: Home run J: First
J: I would break up, that's the first thing that I'm gonna do
J: I mean like of course and then
J: Ask for money? Dude like, really?
N: That was like a- that shocked me
J: "Payback for all the things he gifted to-"
J: So, how- wait. 3 years right?
J: *Gasp*
J: Even though it's such a waste,
J: I'm actually glad the relationship didn't last beyond 3 years.
N: Ahhh, the time, the timing
That she didn't spend more time in this stupid relationship
J: Yes N: Hmm J: I'm just happy for you
J: That you don't have to keep on going with this guy
J: And um, cheating... is a habit N: Hmmm
J: So, if one starts to cheat in a one relationship
J: Next is not that hard, right? N: Hmm
N: Hmm yeah, got to admit, I cheated
J: *HITS NATHAN*
N: I cheated like once or twice
N: I've done it, I've been there J: It's not
N: Don't meet someone, don't meet someone who cheats
J: But if you're like him and he knows what he has done that's bad
J: It's okay, but most of the guys won't think that deeply
J: He's kinda like, more like a um, sensitive side
J: Because he thinks a lot, he thinks a lot in the girl's
J: Perspective, so he knows what he's been done wrong
J: But, for him, I don't know because he's really
J: Messed up and
J: He started talking about bad things about you
J: Which is really what a pussy would do, I'm not talking
J: About girls, it's just so
J: I’ll talk in Korean because you are Korean.
J: I don't think breakups are ever easy or end well.
J: But, you can still tell what kind of person your ex is through their behavior after the break up.
J: In my case, I tend to keep only good memories,
J: because the good memories are what stand out to me.
J: Therefore, I'm on good enough terms to say at least "hi" whenever we run into each other down the road.
J: But if you find out your ex has been talking shit behind you?
J: You gotta kick the person out of your life forever.
Indeed, there are some people who have this ’Nice Person Syndrome’.
J: Since they are the ones who end the relationship or feel guilty,
J: Out of guilt, they might think "I want to be remembered well by this person",
J: or "I did something wrong to make them cheat on me".
J: But you shouldn't ever think like that.
J: Seriously.
J: You might feel terrible and think "oh, the past 3 years were a waste of my time",
J: but what I want to say is "Girl, congrats for not letting it go further than 3 years."
J: and you also might be worried like, ‘Can I meet a new, better person?'
J: or ‘I'm afraid of starting another relationship.'
J: There are TONS of better people.
J: TONS.
J: You will meet a way better person than your ex. Because,
J: You deserve it.
J: So, don't be so frustrated.
J: Be confident!
J: Fighting!
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