- Have you scared some guys away in the past,
and are you scared of doing it again
in your current relationship?
If so, then this video is just for you, so keep watching.
Hi everyone, my name is Ieva Bereisaite.
I am Greta's sister,
and one of her high value women coaches.
Today we are going to be talking
about three behaviors that scare men off.
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The number one thing that scares men off
is constant attention and chasing.
One of the biggest turnoffs
for a quality man is when he has to invest
just minimal effort into the relationship
in order to get your attention.
Remember that the value of something rises
when it is not easily gained.
And by this, I mean, you don't have to play hard to get.
But whatever you do, don't over give your attention to him
simply because if you do that, then you are taking away
the chase, and that makes it a big turnoff for him.
Remember that men are naturally born providers.
High value men, or men who are naturally goal-orientated
will love a hunt or a chase.
And whatever you do, don't take that pleasure away from him.
Also remember that you always decide how much attention
you will give him.
That is fully up to you and that is fully your decision.
Remember that you should give him the attention
that he is worthy of based off of his actions
and not based on his words.
Many men know exactly what women want to hear.
So be smart and look at his actions instead,
and then decide if he is worthy of your attention.
The second thing is no self-respect
and pushing the relationship.
If you act desperate, it will definitely scare him off.
This can be, for example, if you complain
that you don't spend enough time together,
or he sees and notices that you are simply
waiting around for him to ask you out,
and have actually nothing better going on for yourself.
If that is the case, he will slowly but surely
start losing respect and interest for you.
He will simply be put off
by these types of actions coming from your side.
Also, if a guy feels pressured
that he now needs to commit to you,
it will also scare him off, and it is also chasing.
So asking him things like, when will we get married?
When will you finally propose to me?
Are we official yet?
When are we gonna be official?
All of these things should not be asked
because you will simply be putting him
under pressure to make a decision.
And this type of pressure for high value men
will scare them off,
and it will make the decision making process
for him even longer.
When it comes to moving the relationship
in a new and more committed direction,
don't mention that you really want it.
And don't imply or make it seem like you're waiting around
for it until he finally makes the decision
of marrying you or being in a relationship with you.
Wait for him to mention it,
and to bring it up because when you act high value,
and when he is a high value man,
he will mention it and he will bring it up.
You don't have to do that because he will do that instead.
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The third thing is agreeing
with everything he says and needing his approval.
There is nothing more boring than a person, or in this case,
a woman who doesn't have her own opinion.
Remember to not just simply follow the crowd.
Instead, have your own opinion.
This 100% differentiates a quality guy
and a quality girl from the rest.
High value people base their opinions
and beliefs on their own experiences, right?
And not just the opinions that other people might have.
High value people build their own opinions, right?
They don't say, okay, everyone's doing that,
so I'm just gonna start doing that as well.
They make their own decisions.
They take on the beliefs that they believe are correct,
and they build their own opinions
and have no problem stating those.
Don't be afraid to disagree
with something that your guy says,
or to have different opinions on a certain topic.
This doesn't mean
that you should be disagreeing on everything.
For sure no, of course we want
the relationship to feel good,
and not like you're disagreeing
with each other the whole time.
But if you do have a different type
of opinion on a certain situation,
don't be afraid to state that.
By doing so, it shows authenticity,
and it shows a lot of confidence.
Don't feel like you have to agree with your friends,
or in this case with your guy
if you simply do have a different viewpoint.
It really shows that you can think for yourself
and that you have a mind of your own.
And each and every single person has a mind
and an opinion of their own.
We just have to be confident enough
to voice that in a friendly, humble, and polite way.
Remember that a yes person or a yes girl
who always says yes to everything
and doesn't really have her own opinion
will not be taken seriously.
In most cases, these types of women are seen as low value.
And might be instead seen as a quick fling
rather than a quality long-term partner,
at least for sure, by a high value man.
These three behaviors really, really do scare men off.
And if you notice
that you have one of these three behaviors,
well then you always have the opportunity
to start changing it.
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