pain is inevitable suffering is optional wow you hear that one
pain is inevitable suffering is optional now i want to see something
pain is a real confidence learn to struggle
learn to honor the struggle i love it don't expect joy
i want to cover something i just want to cover it twice so pain is inevitable
what does that mean
things are going to go sideways things may not work
the relationship could end the business deal could fall
through
but that could be painful suffering is a choice you see pain and
this was from brendon burchard pain is something we feel all of us
doesn't matter how much money you make i've i've made all the money i could
ever have dreamed of i still feel pain on a regular basis
but i've chosen not to suffer and the difference is
pain is you want to experience it before when i was talking about something
failing along your goals you didn't reach it and it fails
it's kind of painful i thought i was going to do a deal by now it didn't
that's a little painful but the suffering is when you go i can't
believe i did it and the next day you think about your insecurities the
next day after that you're thinking about why i didn't reach my goal next
day after that you're like i'm stuck in a life that sucks
the next day and the next day and two o'clock in the morning and three in the
afternoon and lunch times and all of a sudden the suffering begins
pain is meant to teach us a lesson suffering cripples us
now i don't have time to go through a whole process on how to stop suffering
but i can give you a little hack change your thoughts change the way you
think about pain think of the lessons you can learn from
immediately train your brain to extract what valuable information what
research and development is coming from the pain so you never experience it
again so you can make it better for the next
time so you can use that as your fuel to blast off to your next level of
life rather than the anchor that holds you
back so let's think about that what pain have you gone through that has
turned into suffering it's the relationship where someone's
unfaithful and you end a relationship that you thought was great that is
painful painful i've seen it tear people apart i
know it personally from past experiences but suffering is three years
down the road and still saying can't trust a man can't trust a woman
they only want your money they're never going to be faithful come up with
these shitty stories that make you suffer and cripple you and stop you from
a new relationship it's the same thing when it comes to
money it's the same thing when it comes to business
what pain have you experienced in your past that you didn't process that you
didn't learn from and now it's just this suffering
mechanism that wakes you up keeps you thinking is when you're when
you're alone in your thoughts it pops up it's like hey
suffering here let's spend some time together it's like no screw you i
learn from that i'm no longer suffering declare today decide today that
suffering will end pain is a part of our life the more pain
you have that means the bigger you're playing the game
but we don't have to suffer you have a choice
real confidence is your belief in your ability to figure
things out man that is just such a think about that
real confidence is your belief in your ability
to figure things out you see when does lack of confidence
come in when does insecurity come in think about when you don't have options
okay think about that think about you know
i'm i'm gonna pick a really hard topic again it's all relating back to success
habits for wealth abundance joy whatever you want but think about
you go to the doctor and they say you have not something life-threatening
but something really debilitating you have uh
i don't know crohn's disease pick any disease
now if you went home
if you went home and said i don't know what to do i don't have
anybody to talk to i don't know what this disease means am
i gonna die from it can i get healthier can i get better and you just didn't do
anything you didn't open a book you didn't try to google it you didn't call
a friend don't go see another doctor you just sat home for two weeks thinking
what do i do how does it get better what food do i
eat i don't want to leave my kids i don't need my family or i want to i
want to start a family i don't want to leave my parents i don't
want to i don't want to leave this world there's so much still to see
does that rob your confidence because you're not
figuring things out you're just obsessing over it
compared to a doctor say you have xyz disease
and a moment you get off the phone you find the expert in the world not all the
crap you see on yahoo questions of how's this disease you're going to die you're
going to live do this do that drink tea take this no you find the best person in
the world and you read everything on them and they say oh you
have xyz disease this is what we figured out this is the
path this is the plan this is the hope the person who does
that because they have the ability to take the time to try to figure it out
all of a sudden you're alive you've got confidence you're moving forward
compared to just sitting there feeling hopeless where in your life
do you need guidance do you need to grab the information
do you need to have the belief that you could figure this out like you need to
to anchor into your soul if something goes wrong
i got this if i lose all my money i got this
the relationship ends it'll suck i got this i get sick
that'll suck i got this when you start building that you start building the
grit you start paying your success and life
abundance tax that's the difference of people who go
oh no what do i do compared to no i got this it sucks i don't like it i
don't want it i'm not joyful i have it but damn it ain't gonna
bring me down those are the ones who beat the disease
they're the ones that find the better relationship
they're the ones that make the money and their businesses thrive
so think about that again after i shared that real confidence
is your belief in your ability to figure things out
guess what you can figure anything out and we have access to so much
information in today's world think of 20 years ago what would you have done
30 years ago what would you have done in any area now we could research dive deep
find the best read their articles there's so much
great content publish for free and then you have the opportunity to
follow people that have already forged the path
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