it's Pastor Cal.
Hit the jab.
[bottle pops] - Cheers, baby.
- And Dr. Pepper. Let's talk about sex.
- [laughs]
- You are from this moment engaged.
- I think I'm tearing up.
- This is "Relationship Rewind."
[upbeat music]
[tape rewinding]
Each week Dr. Pepper and I
will watch a clip from the latest episode
of "Married at First Sight," and we're going to give you our
honest, no B.S. reactions.
- This will be the very first time
we're watching this footage
about these various couples
at their wedding receptions talking about sex.
- Do you think anything will happen tonight,
or are you still kind of waiting just to see...
- No. - Hey, look...
- Wow. - Wow, that's clear.
- Wow. - What if he woos you, like...
- He can woo me.
That's wonderful.
But at the end of the day... - But it's...
- I want us to build a strong foundation.
- Okay. - Like--like,
I want the tension to build.
- What if you do all that, everything is great...
- That's nice. I like that. - And then he, like,
sucks in bed?
What if he's, like, literally the worst...
- Ooh. - [bleep] you've ever had
in your life?
- Okay, let's stop for a second.
We see this over and over again where these "friends"
start saying these ridiculous things
that plant all these negative seeds in their minds.
- And the idea is, you're gonna learn each other
that way as well. - Exactly. Exactly.
- So--so it can't be one person sucking.
It's, like, okay, you people are--
[laughter]
- It was me--
- [laughs]
I'm sorry.
Go ahead, Dr. Pepper.
- Let me-- - Oh, God.
- Let me use different language here.
- Okay. - What I mean is,
it's not about one person being "good" or "bad" in bed...
- Right. - But rather
we will learn each other, and we will figure out how
to be good for each other.
- Yes. - And so this isn't like
some kind of contest.
- You're learning together.
Let's keep going. - Moving on.
- What's your time frame on you guys?
- I might give him a good little honeymoon.
- Girl, it's in two days. - I love that.
- We there for a while.
[laughter] - Look at her face.
- So what is your ideal night for tonight?
- She walks in and says, "We're doing what you want to do.
What's that?"
- These--these guys.
- Get on your knees.
- What did he say?
[tape rewinding]
- Get on your knees. - He said, "Get on your knees."
[laughter]
- Oh, it's best these things stay in the bedroom.
- You know what? They're married.
They can do whatever they want to do.
- Yeah. - That's about--
I just want them to have realistic sexual expectations,
you know?
Nothing--and everyone can talk a good game
until the game begins.
- That's true. - You know?
- That's true. - Once the game begins,
realism sets in,
and the couples that I've counseled, sex--
the first time they have sex, it's not mind-blowing.
You know, and it might be, "Eh, okay."
But it can become mind-blowing. - Yeah.
I'm am feeling very good about Airris and Jasmine.
- Yeah, me too. Me too.
- I think they are good-looking people
with the right attitude with, you know,
ability to love, with desire for marriage.
- Yeah. - I feel excited
about their possibility. - Yeah.
Yeah, I agree. I agree.
[tape rewinding]
- Once you turned your cheek to him,
I was like, "Does she like him?"
- I said, "Baby cousin does not like him."
- I turned my cheek one, because I saw his bald head.
- Okay. - And I was like, okay, like...
- That's new. - Stop.
- I wasn't expecting a guy with a bald head.
- Stop. She got turned off.
- By a bald head?
- Well, I can see why this would be
personally important for you.
- It's personal.
It's an affront to men with bald heads.
- Well, I agree. - Bald heads unite.
- Don't take it personally. - She's shortsighted.
She's terribly shortsighted. - Well--well,
she really is shortsighted.
But that worries me.
It worries me a lot. I mean, if she--
- Yeah, that she would react that viscerally
from something like that. - Right, yeah.
- That's-- that's not reasonable.
In talking to her earlier that she's--
she's willing to let love grow.
We knew what her likes and dislikes were,
but this guy is coming
with everything that she wanted.
- Right. - Yeah, except hair?
- I mean, you fall in love with somebody,
and they have a great head of hair,
and then they lose that hair, you know,
are you gonna get divorced? No.
- Exactly.
- You know, it's just an expectation of hers,
and I'm just assuming she's gonna get over that.
- I believe she will.
- Let's go on.
- I think... - He's serious about it.
- Because this was so nontraditional...
- Thank you.
- We have to start off as friends.
- Come on. Well, ehh, ehh. - Well, yeah, I'm your husband,
but I want to be your friend. - Ehh.
- Like, I want to be your biggest supporter.
- You can be their friend all day--
- When you gonna get serious, though?
- She's looking for a husband.
- Thank you, my man.
- Don't get caught up in that friend zone.
- Thank--thank you. - Don't get lost in that sauce.
- Don't get-- don't get lost in that sauce.
- He must be married. Okay, stop it right there.
I love that.
That's perfect.
That's exactly what I tell people.
- Mm-hmm. - You know, people say,
"Well, we're gonna be friends."
No, it's not "Friends at First Sight."
That's not why you're signing up.
You're signing up for a marriage.
Friendship will come in the process,
but focus on being a husband and wife.
- Well, I think what he means is
that he really wants her to feel secure with him,
that he has her best interests at heart,
that he's gonna develop that connection first.
- Yeah, but that's not friendship.
That's marriage.
- I'm hopeful. I'm very hopeful
as we thought in the beginning that the more she gets
to know about him, the more sexy
and intriguing he becomes.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah. I think so.
All right, well, that's all the time we have
for "Married at First Sight: Relationship Rewind."
- We'll see you next time. - Bye-bye.
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