Hi it's Agnes and I wanted to read you today a relationship story called 'No Facial Hair'
and it's from the book 'Emerald City.' So the story goes like this: 'My desire was to meet
my soul mate, friend, partner with all the qualities I desired and I wasn't accepting
anything less than. I went in as far as to how he looked right down to facial hair.
He had to be a family man with children, responsible and well financially and I even had
what star sign he needed to be and that he had to have a really good sense of humour.
You know how they say it's what you focus on - I felt so strongly about no facial hair even
to the point of having resistance to it. So therefore guess what the universe provided?
It was everything I desired including the facial hair! I was with a dating agency,
they called me to say we have this guy who's interested in meeting up with you. So I asked them
for all the qualities I desired. Now he ticked all my boxes except the facial hair. So I asked okay
no worries I will still meet him. After looking at the profiles that they had already sent me I
was very definite and said no. So he called me that day and we began together (corrects) and
we've been together ever since that day and now we are married as well. The thing was I had a
vision board full of pictures and words of what I desired in my relationship. My husband also had a
vision board of what he desired in a relationship also. We both got more than what we asked for
and yes he still has facial hair which in the scheme of things really isn't that important.
It so is what you focus on whether it's what you want or what you don't want
and it took me approximately 12 to 18 months to manifest my desire.
I only did a vision board - at that time I didn't know too much about the law of attraction.
I did up my vision board of my ideal man after I split up from my boyfriend in March 2005.
So learning from that relationship my first husband and other guys I went out with,
I was very clear on what I wanted this time around. And I decided I would I would take
nothing less than what I wanted. On it I stuck a photo of a man who had a good body,
dark hair and photos of couples in love. When I wrote words like he has to be
good looking in my eyes, be a family man and have had children and be really responsible.
I also wrote that I am attracted to him and he is attracted to me
and we have the same interests and like the same music. He is around the same age as me - not more
than 6 years, financially independent and my equal. He has to be open and willing to look at
at himself and be into self-growth, a spiritual man, a confident gentle and supportive person.
I have to feel safe he loves me for who I am, he's trustworthy and has a sense of humour.
He sees my worth and is my friend. It is very important to me that he wasn't an alcoholic or
a problem drinker. The vision board was a continual reminder to me of what I wanted,
along with these I told the dating agency that his sign should be either a water sign or an
earth sign. In my mind though I was thinking Taurus. I also told them what age he should
be I told them that he definitely had to be a family man and should have dark hair. I just
kept looking at my vision board and every time I'd get a call from the agency I kept telling
them time and time again what I was looking for which was very important though I knew..
..it helped me heaps was I went into with - I went into it with no attachments. It actually
looked like I was going to have fun, to meet new people, make friends and if I found my soul mate
well that was a bonus. It took me about 14 months. We spoke on the phone for the first time in May
2006 and we hit it off on our first phone call. It wasn't until I first met him the very next
day that I knew I was attracted to him. I loved his eyes and I loved his smile. My husband's
name is Ian and Ian and I don't mind if you use our names.' So that story was from Leif Jeffrey
and she is a beautiful woman that lives in Australia. So that's the relationship story
and this is Agnes from agnesvivarelli.com and stay tuned for more stories and story time.