Hey Danette may here and Drew Canole and we want to share with you a powerful for today
that you can take home to truly change your life.
Truly transform, transformation.
Everywhere is transformation, let’s go!
I’m obsessed with the lotus flower because it has become this he metaphor for me in my
life.
If you look at the lotus flower, you will know that they’re just beautiful.
Most people like revere this but the thing about the lotus flower is that it doesn’t
grow on marble, it doesn’t even grow in reach soil.
It actually grows in the mud and the muck.
It gets it’s nutrients from the mud and the muck and I love that analogy because there’s
so many of us in our lives that are trying to run away from our mud and muck.
We are trying to run away from our mess instead of using it as our message that’s where
the nutrients reside in all that chaos and all that hurt and all the things that we want
to just put in the closet and shut the door to right?
And so todays Mindset Monday is I want to challenge you to take out a journal write
down all the muck in your life.
all the itty, gritty, yucky muck that you’ve been trying to shove down, not notice, not
think about and I want you to dig it up and yeah it’s not going to be super pretty and
I want you to look at it in a different light and I want you to write on the right hand
side all this muck, all the stuff in your past that you don’t really want anyone to
know about.
I want you to write how that muck has truly made you who you are today.
So for my example I’m going to share.
Yeah, can you share them an example please?
I’m going to get vulnerable for a minute, so I was in a previous relationship and I
thought this person had my back and here’s the truth, there are going to be people your
life that may stab you in the back, they may abandon you but are you going to stay in that
story?
Or you’re going to step on top of that story?
I was in a marriage and I had two beautiful daughters, well, and I have forgiven him since
so please don’t think that we need to like bash him but what in his rage, in his sorrow,
in his downtime he took all the money and moved it into a private account, left me going
back to my home with my two daughters that I was raising my own digging couches and drawers.
Making a game out of it for my daughters and I to come up with 47 dollars but here’s
the deal when I write down this phase of my life where I sold my furniture when I had
no money, literally eating beans and weenies, I can write down that this actually made me
strong because this actually made me realize I can make money out of nothing.
I’m thankful now for those lessons, I’m actually so thankful for them because now
I can get out of anything.
I think where people get caught up is once they hit that rock bottom place where you’re
searching for all the stuff in your house, you make up stories about how this is a struggle
and this is going to be so hard to get out of this right?
Think about the opposite way you could have taken.
This is happening to me instead of thinking about this is happening for me.
Thank you Universe, thank you God whatever you want to call it for bringing this to my
experience because this is going to be the bounce-back place in my life where I realized
and find out what my true calling and purpose really is and then you just dug in.
you get gritty which is awesome.
When you’re gritty magic happens.
I think about the lotus flower in my life too and being tortured as a child from the
age of zero to five like abuse.
If I can’t tie my shoes fast my dad would put cigarettes out onto my head but I learned
how to forgive and I learned that I came into this life experience maybe to learn forgiveness,
to be a conduit of change for people because people are torturing themselves all the time
and I was physically, mentally, emotionally tortured as a child and now I can use those
experiences from an energetic level and help people heal.
I’ve turned my mud into a beautiful lotus flower.
But here’s the deal we want to share this vulnerability with you guys not just, because
you can find your story in our story, we all have our stories.
We all have our mess, we all have our muck, use it to become this beautiful message for
yourself, for your strength, for your family, for anyone you want to impact.
You do matter, you do make a difference.
If you’re up against a challenge right now Danette and I want to challenge you to shift
the way you see it, shift the way you feel about it.
You’ve attracted this information into your experience for a reason so remember you are
worth it, remember you matter.
Go ahead and leave your comments below, let us know.
You are going to get into this action or you’re going to do this assignment and we want to
hear from you.
If you want to share your vulnerability, let’s do this.
Let’s get raw and vulnerable in sharing or mud and muck, we just did now it is your
turn.
Let’s do this because we know that in our stories other people can find theirs.
We love you.
Thank you so much for watching until next time.
I’m Drew Canole.
I’m Danette May and remember we’re in this together.