Hi everyone - viewers question time from Gloria M:
I think I used to over complicate things, I'll write you about it and see. I would like to know
do you agree with me and if you have some extra comments. Number 1:
If I experience an unwanted situation and it causes certain feelings,
all I have to do is imagine the opposite situation and live in that state, for example
a friend ghosted me instead of feeling lack and anxiety about him in the situation I
replaced that state with a state of 'we have the best communication ever' and just focus on
that - that didn't come out well, 'focused' that was supposed to be. So whenever I think about him
I think about how we enjoy our communication and how everything is fine despite that in the 3D
he's still ghosting me. Basically I don't have to identify limiting beliefs or ask
someone what's wrong that caused that, just live in the end result and everything will be fine.
And you put a question mark as in, is that right - yes, we spend a lot of time working out a lot of
stuff if we hop into living in the end then that's a great way to shorten and shortcut the work.
I think when things aren't working sometimes it's good to go and look at the beliefs that we hold
but I would try this first because this is quicker, easier, faster, less complicated so
as much as going digging for beliefs and looking at what beliefs we hold that really
hand-break what we're doing, I think this is a much faster, quicker way to get to where you
want to go if you're able to do it, so yes, yes, yes. Number 2: If we want to change someone who is
known that is a rude person and we see evidence of it and we want to change the person
or our perception of them all we have to do is see that person as someone polite
and despite the bad reputation live in the state - how that person is so kind, not put attention
on what other people say/ Exactly, I did that with a partner of mine who was quite nasty and I just
imagined him being kind and loving and that we would laugh and we would have great conversations
and that person transformed - was it quick? No it took some months because I had it ingrained in my
consciousness that this person was nasty so it's not that you can't do it it's just practice it,
get better at it and then you will see the outside transform. I think I realize why some people seem
see someone as good and other people as bad - good or bad is created by someone's perception,
focus right? Yes, right. So by applying this you can manifest the rudest person in the world to
be the kindest in the world towards you - yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. 3: If we suddenly
aren't attracted to someone and we don't see them like we used to, for example we don't
like them as much as before we lose interest. Does that mean that they will have a limiting
belief that pushes us away from them, so we are manifesting that into our reality we don't care
anymore? Yes that's a possibility or it could be that you just lose interest because you might be
attracted to different things now than you were say a year or two ago when you first met them.
So it's two halves of a nut with that one Gloria, it could be what you said
and I'm gonna go back over this because I think this is important - if we suddenly aren't
attracted to someone and we don't see them like we used to for example, we don't like them as much
as before we lose interest. Does that mean that they have a limiting belief that pushes us away
from them? It might not be a limiting belief, it might be also that they want to be single
or they want to be free and they don't want to be in a relationship so that belief can
create the end result you're talking about but sometimes also someone can have that going on
but then you are still attached and want to be with them so that one I think can swing both ways.
It's a good question because yes, everyone is us pushed out and we are them pushed out as well
so you're looking at it from two separate vantage points okay. Now you said,
I know I ask basic questions but I don't know why I'm so complicating
all - I was so complicating all of that before I think I was attached too much to how. Yeah and
I think a lot of people are attached to the how Gloria, we try with our little brains, work out
how's this going to happen, when's this going to happen? I think a big part of this learning
is letting go of those two things 'how and when' - how and when, how and when and just
live in the state, let go, surrender and allow, allow, allow, allow and I'm gonna say allow again
because this is where I see people get snagged. They don't allow, they try and micromanage,
they try and coax, they try and poke. they try and fish for information - 'M' that comments for you
about the fishing and you know who you are! And how you've overcome it, so I was attached, okay
I'm going to go back over that bit. I was attached too much to how, like I have to do more stuff to
get the manifestation. Yeah which is still trying to manipulate, make things happen and I think so
much of our humanness is about letting go of that, letting go of trying to make something happen
okay. Now it all comes to flipping the states and wanted assumptions - oooh I like the way you said
that I'm going to say it again - it all comes to flipping the states and wanted assumptions,
nice. I assume what you will say but I am very curious - do you have something to add
to it if you don't that means I'm a I'm a good pupil. Well I've done the YouTube because I think
your question's really good and it's like advanced questioning and that's fun and it's
good to think about it and it's good to work it out and it's good to
look at things from different angles and it's good to try and test things out you know. Because so
much of this stuff is experimental and what works for me might not work for you and what works for
you know John might not work for Sally. So Sally's in my brain because I'm about to go and have lunch
with her - Sally I'll meet you there shortly. So it really is about testing things out for you,
test it out, practice, try, see what happens. It's like a little experiment between you and
you - this is what Florence Scovel Shinn talked about it's 'The Game of Life and How to Play It',
play it, try it, do it, you know and all this stuff it's not one size fits all.
I mean so many of you, you know um do affirmations and there's a whole tribe that doesn't like them
and then there's those that go through the feeling state and and they don't do anything else and then
there's those that love to visualize. Find your lane, stay in your lane, try things out
and then get really good at you know say your top three things and then you from that you go forward
and you get more advanced. And I think when you get more advanced you learn more surrender
quickly and letting go and allowing and faith and trust - trusting yourself and trusting life
and stop trying to coax all this stuff to grow. Stop stepping on the plants okay. See you later.