LEE
LEE IS
LEE IS A
LEE IS A BEAUTIFUL BALD. I LOVE HIM, TOO.
>>> WE'RE TALKING ABOUT SOUL
MATES, SPEAKING OF LEE,
AND WE ASKED VIEWERS TO SEND IN
PICTURES OF THEIR
SOUL MATES.
SOUL MATES. >> WE HEARD FROM SO MANY OF
YOU.
YOU.
YOU. >>
YOU. >> IT WAS REALLY EXCITING,
BECAUSE WE WANT TO SPEAK
TO YOU, WANT TO GET YOU
INVOLVED, AND MORE
IMPORTANTLY, WITH LOVED ONES.
WE WANT TO SHOW SOME OF THEM.
THIS IS PEG BY AND HER ROCK,
JOE.
JOE.
JOE. THIS
JOE. THIS IS SHANNON AND HER -- I'M
GOING TO HAVE TO --
HER HUSBAND.
HER HUSBAND. >> ROLL THE PROMPTER.
>> BECAUSE I WANT TO BE ABLE TO
--
--
-- >>
-- >> THERE'S JASON.
I LOVE THEM.
CYNTHIA CELEBRATING 37 YEARS
WITH HER HUSBAND.
>> YAY.
>> YAY.
>> YAY. >> AND THERE'S MACKENZIE.
YOU USED TO WORK WITH THEM.
>> THEY JUST GOT MARRIED.
SO EXCITING.
SO EXCITING. >> YES, MACKENZIE.
WE DO REMEMBER HE WAS ALWAYS
COMING BY YOUR CUBICLE,
HONEY.
HONEY.
HONEY. WE
HONEY. WE DO.
WE DO.
WE DO. >>
WE DO. >> JENNIFER AND HER HUSBAND.
SO SWEET.
SO SWEET.
SO SWEET. >> IS JEN IN OUR STUDIO?
OUR FABULOUS PHOTOGRAPHER.
>> YOU KNOW WHO ELSE HAS FOUND
EACH OTHER'S SOUL
MATES, IS JESSICA GLICKER,
WHOSE BIRTHDAY IT IS.
SHE USED TO PRODUCE AN
EXCELLENT SHOW CALLED
"ATLANTA TECH EDGE."
SHE'S INCREDIBLE.
SHE'S INCREDIBLE. SHE'S SUCH A KIND, SWEET SOUL.
SHE'S ALWAYS LISTENING TO
EVERYONE, SO HAPPY
BIRTHDAY.
BIRTHDAY.
BIRTHDAY. >> SHE IS.
ALWAYS HAS A SMILE ON HER FACE.
>> SHE DOES.
>> FIND THE GALLERY ON
ATLANTAANDCOMPANY.COM.
ATLANTAANDCOMPANY.COM. I STARTED ANSWERING LAST NIGHT,
THOUGHT HOW CUTE IS
THIS.
THIS.
THIS. I
THIS. I CAN'T WAIT TO GO BACK AND
LOOK AT ALL THIS.
>> PLEASE SHARE YOUR SOUL MATE
WITH US.
WITH US.
WITH US. DO YOU BELIEVE IN SOUL MATES?
THAT'S A QUESTION WE'RE ASKING
ON FACEBOOK.
ON FACEBOOK. >> AND WHAT DOES OUR POLL SAY?
I THINK WE PUT OUR POLL UP.
>> YES.
>> YES.
>> YES. IT'S TOTAL DESTINY, 25% OF YOU,
AND NO, LOVE IS
ABOUT GROWTH.
ABOUT GROWTH. WELL YOU KNOW WHAT?
>> I TEND TO SKEW MORE ON THE
LOVE IS ABOUT GROWTH.
I MEAN, I LOVE JIM.
PEOPLE ARE GOING TO BE, "YOU'RE
RIGHT."
RIGHT."
RIGHT." .
.
. >>
. >> YOU
. >> YOU KNOW WHAT, CHRISTINE?
THAT'S ACTUALLY HEALTHY.
BECAUSE THE ARTICLE I READ SAID
WE SHOULD NOT REALLY
BELIEVE THAT WE DO HAVE SOUL
MATES, BECAUSE THAT IS
MAKING THIS IDEA OF PERFECTION
THAT WE BELIEVE IS
ATTAINABLE WHEN IT'S REALLY
NOT, AND THE SOUL MATE
IS KIND OF CON GREWOUS WITH
THAT.
THAT.
THAT. >>
THAT. >> REMEMBER THE WHOLE "YOU
COMPLETE ME."
COMPLETE ME." .
.
. >>
. >> "JERRY MAGUIRE."
>> YOU JUST WANT A MAN TO BUST
IN YOUR BOOK CLUB,
LOOK RIGHT AT YOU.
>> IT'S ROMANTIC, BUT AT THE
END OF THE DAY, YOU'RE
SAYING IT'S NOT REALISTIC, THIS
WHOLE SOUL MATE
EXPECT STATION THING.
>> MAYBE RENEE ZELLWEGGER
SHOULD HAVE SAID, "ARE YOU
DAY O'DAY?
DAY O'DAY? IF YOU NEED ME TO COMPLETE
YOU."
YOU."
YOU." INSTEAD SHE CRIED.
>> THAT WOULD HAVE RUINED THE
MOVIE.
MOVIE.
MOVIE. >>
MOVIE. >> THIS IS WHAT TO DO TO MAKE
SURE YOU'RE IN A
RELATIONSHIP THAT'S HEALTHY AND
YOU CAN IDENTIFY
SOMEONE AS YOUR SOUL MATE, BUT
MAKE SURE THESE
THINGS ARE ALL GOING IN THE
RIGHT DIRECTION.
RIGHT DIRECTION. THE FIRST THING YOU WANT TO DO
IS MAKE A LIST.
WHEN I FIRST READ THIS, I
THOUGHT, I DON'T KNOW ANT
THIS, BECAUSE MY GIRLFRIENDS
THAT MAKE LISTS OF
THINGS, SOMETIMES I THINK THEY
MIGHT BE MISSING OUT
ON A GREAT GUY.
BUT THAT'S NOT WHAT THIS IS
SAYING.
SAYING.
SAYING. THIS IS SAYING MAKE A LIST OF
THINGS YOU LOVE ABOUT
YOURSELF, THINGS YOU WANT TO
ACHIEVE, THINGS THAT
ARE SORT OF NON-NEGOTIABLES FOR
YOU.
YOU.
YOU. THEN
YOU. THEN AFTER A FEW MONTHS, CHECK
BACK IN WITH THAT
LIST, STILL MAKE SURE YOUR MORE
OR LESS AND IDEALS
LINE UP SO I DON'T EAR NOT
CHANGING TO MAKE SOMEBODY
ELSE HAPPY, THAT YOU'RE STILL
YOURSELF.
YOURSELF.
YOURSELF. >> YES.
>> YES.
>> YES. I
>> YES. I LOVE THAT.
>> NUMBER TWO IS OBSERVE THE
RELATIONSHIPS AROUND
RELATIONSHIPS AROUND YOU, AND THIS IS -- YOU GO ON
TO INSTAGRAM.
TO INSTAGRAM. I THINK I'VE DONE IT BEFORE.
LIKE, RELATIONSHIP GOALS,
HASHTAG.
HASHTAG.
HASHTAG. THAT'S NOT WHAT THIS IS ABOUT.
THIS IS ABOUT A REAL LIFE
COUPLE YOU KNOW THAT YOU
WANT TO EMULATE OR YOU LIKE
BEING AROUND.
BEING AROUND. ON THE FLIP SIDE, YOU KNOW
THERE ARE A COUPLE IN
YOUR FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE.
THEY SAID TO TAKE NOTE OF THE
THINGS YOU DON'T LIKE
ABOUT THAT COUPLE, MAKE SURE IT
DOESN'T TRANSFER
DOESN'T TRANSFER INTO YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP.
>> THAT IS VERY TRUE.
THAT IS WHY JIM IS SOMETIMES
LIKE, "LOOK, THEY'RE
FIGHTING A LOT.
DO YOU WANT TO BE AROUND THAT."
I'M THINKING, "THAT'S NOT
NICE."
NICE."
NICE." BUT HE'S NOT SAYING IT IN A
JUDGMENTAL WAY.
JUDGMENTAL WAY. HE'S SAYING NIT A POSITIVE WAY.
>> THE LAST ONE IS PRIORITIZE
THINGS FOR YOURSELF.
JIM IS TRYING TO PRIORITIZE
YOURSELVES AS A COUPLE,
WHICH IS GOOD.
IT ALSO SAYS, THE EXAMPLE IT
GAVE, IF YOU ARE A
RUNNER AND YOU GET INTO A
RELATIONSHIP AND YOU'RE
NOT RUNNING ANYMORE, WHY IS
THAT?
THAT?
THAT? IS
THAT? IS THAT PERSON HOLDING YOU BACK
FROM YOUR DREAMS?
IF THE ANSWER