- In this video, I will share with you 15 quick signs
that he is emotionally attracted to you.
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So now, my queens, my beautiful, lovely queens,
with tip number one.
He listens attentively every time when you speak.
He listens to the message
that you're saying in your sentence,
he listens to the point.
Saying this, ladies, men usually listen when women speak
when you have something important to say,
when your message has some sort of point.
If you were talking like a radio 24/7,
and you literally don't stop,
and you talk for the sake of talking
or you're talking because you're nervous,
and you are just like blah, blah, blah,
don't get mad if he drifts away and stops listening to you.
As ladies, as the saying goes,
the less you speak, the more you learn.
And when you don't speak that much, but when you do speak,
your message is interesting, it's important.
It's not some useless rubbish kinda radio talk.
Men will pay attention to every second of it.
If you don't even speak that much, and he's not listening
when you actually do speak,
then possibly you have a big problem.
Number two, he is emotionally attached
is when he shares his stories with you.
When a guy feels like he's bonding with a woman,
he will feel comfortable to share his stories,
and everybody has life stories,
we all have funny, hilarious, sad, whatever type of stories
that we had happen through our lives.
If he is investing his time in sharing a story with you,
it's a big sign
that he's getting emotionally attached to you.
Number three sign, he wants to spend quality time together
and share new experience,
he wants to build a new connection.
Because ladies' connection is built through things
that you guys do together,
so perhaps sharing new experiences, trying new things,
rather than just talking on a phone for hours,
and sharing your life stories.
Which is also nice,
to talk and bond with somebody on a phone.
However, in order for a guy to fall for you,
you need to actually spend time with him
and create new experiences together.
Therefore, if he's inviting you
to create those new experiences together,
it shows that he's seeing a lot of potential in you
and that he's getting emotionally attached to you.
Number four sign is when he feels comfortable
being vulnerable with you.
A lot of men will start to share
some vulnerabilities of their life, perhaps childhood,
'cause I find that a lot of weird things
happen to many people during their childhood,
and that's where kinda majority of vulnerabilities start.
And when a guy feels comfortable with you,
and he feels that there is no judgment
coming from your side,
and you are there just kinda supporting him,
and relating to him and listening to him,
he will start to feel free
to share his vulnerabilities with you.
However, ladies, never push a guy
to share their vulnerabilities,
and never share your own vulnerabilities first,
thinking that now he will share his.
Men don't really work like that.
We check you out as a person, we test you,
are you a relationship material?
We see are you trustworthy, et cetera,
we see how we feel about you.
And when they decide, by themselves, do we want to try
and share those vulnerabilities with you or not?
But it always come from him, and it's always his decision.
It's never pushed, when you push a man, he'll never do it,
but when it comes from him, when it comes freely,
and it becomes he wants to.
And it's also a sign
that he's getting emotionally attached to you.
Staying with, a lot of men play it as a game,
in a way that men know that women bond
through sharing vulnerabilities
and experiences and stories together.
So what a lot of guys do,
they start to share their vulnerabilities
on a first date, second date, third date,
thinking that a woman will bond quicker,
and then you'll get faster into her pants.
Which is a complete game, it's completely ridiculous.
A real masculine male that's actually decent,
interested in you, and a good person,
will never share his vulnerabilities
on a first or second date.
Doesn't make sense to do it if you're smart.
Unless you want to get into the girl's pants fast.
Number five,
a sign where a guy is getting emotionally involved with you
is when he starts to introduce you
to his family and friends.
So some guys will introduce you casually,
and other guys will introduce you officially.
And I would say it's nice when he introduces you casually.
But if he's introducing you casually,
get it casually as well.
However, other men will introduce you officially.
He will say something like
"This is my girlfriend, this is my love,
"I want to marry her one day,"
or "She's the one, she's the most beautiful,
"this is my princess."
Et cetera, et cetera.
So this is more like an official introduction,
which makes a woman feel cherished and safe.
It also shows that he really likes you,
it shows his emotional attachment to you
because he's not freaked out
to introduce you to his family seriously.
Which is always a very lovely thing.
Number six is when he asks for your opinion on things,
and puts your opinion as a priority.
That shows that he really, really cares
about what you have to say.
That your opinion to him matters.
Some examples could be
that he's thinking about his life further,
perhaps he's buying a house,
or he's starting a different business.
And before starting it, or before buying the house,
he talks about it with you, he discusses it with you.
He listens to your opinion.
He puts your opinion as a priority.
Number seven, what he is getting emotionally attached
is he loves to cook for you, he loves to impress you,
loves to do these little romantic settings for you.
Perhaps out of the blue when you visit him,
he has all these like cute little candles
just for you, litten up,
just to create this nicer mood, nicer atmosphere.
Asks you what your favorite food is,
and he make sure to cook it nicely for you.
If you guys are ordering,
majority of the time he will let you choose as well.
Ladies, these kind of signs of kindness,
I mean, it's a bit like common sense,
but it shows that he cares about you,
it shows that he's trying to please you.
And he's doing it
because he's getting emotionally attached to you.
Number eight, he makes you laugh.
He makes you laugh all the time,
because he can see that you love his sense of humor,
and every single time you giggle or laugh out loud.
Ladies, if you enjoy his sense of humor,
and you laugh at his jokes, and he sees that,
he'll be making you laugh all the bloody time.
Because he will feel pleased that he can make you happy.
Therefore, he will keep making you happy,
because if a man is emotionally attached to a woman,
it will be a no-brainer
that all he will want to do is to make you happy.
Number nine, he talks about you all the time
to the family and friends.
So perhaps you're spending time with his brother,
or his sister.
And let's see, if a brother shares like,
"Oh, he loves you so much," or "He cares about you so much,"
or "He talks about you all the time,"
or perhaps "He doesn't want anyone else but you.
"He's crazy about you."
So all these messages from his family and friends
will start to confirm to you
that he's getting really emotionally attached to you.
Number 10, he goes out of his way to please you.
So perhaps you have a problem,
or you need to pick something up,
but you cannot do it and it's an emergency.
And you know that he's got a free minute to do so
and you ask him for help.
It will be a no-brainer for him to go and get it,
and at the end of the day,
he will feel good that he helped out somebody
that he's emotionally connected to.
He will be more than happy to help you
in order to impress you,
to show you that he cares for you, that you can trust him,
that you can rely on him.
And ladies, a man will only, will only go out of his way,
for a woman that he cares about.
Number 11.
He is happy when you are happy,
and he gets angry when you are upset.
This is a sign that a man really cares about you,
that he's emotionally connected to you,
that he possibly loves you.
Because one of the big things for a man
is to make a woman happy.
Men are natural givers, they are natural leaders.
And as a leader,
he wants his follower or his supporter to be happy.
So when you are not happy, he is gonna take the blame,
and he will in a way even get angry,
'cause he'll feel responsibility for it.
Therefore, I think ladies, knowing that,
it's kinda important, when you are not very happy that day,
to in a way share with the guy why are you not happy,
so he doesn't think that he is the problem.
And instead of being angry with himself,
he can just support you,
make you laugh, fix your day, et cetera.
Number 12, and to be honest ladies,
I've kinda lost my count.
But number 12 would be supports you in all that you do.
Whatever idea you have,
whatever business venture you're going for,
whatever you want to do in life,
if he likes you a lot, if he's emotionally attached to you,
he will always have your back,
he will always encourage you,
he will always praise you for it,
and he will 100% support you in it.
Even if it's something that doesn't make sense,
even if it's something silly, he'll be like
"You go for it, you'll get it, you're the best."
And if you'll fail at it, and you'll go to him,
and you'll say "Oh no, it didn't work out, I failed at it,"
he'll be like, "Oh, they don't know what they have lost,
"what a diamond you are, what they were thinking."
Number 13.
You constantly feel him looking at you,
even if you guys are not looking at each other.
And if you guys don't have the eye contact.
You feel him checking you out, you feel him gazing at you.
This is definitely a big sign
that a guy is catching feelings for you,
that he's getting emotionally attached.
Number 14, you feel very comfortable in his presence,
you feel very safe in his presence.
He will always have your back,
he will always make you feel like a princess.
He will always put you as a priority.
You will feel like he will be there for you
to take care of you.
Here comes the number 15, and number 15 is a big one.
Let's say you've been dating for a few months,
and something really bad happened to you,
maybe you lost all your money, maybe you lost your job,
maybe you lost your flat,
maybe you just went broke instantly.
A man that is emotionally attached to you
will be there for you, will support you,
will look after you, will offer his help.
And instead calling you all the bad names,
and how irresponsible you are, et cetera,
he will bring positivity in your life,
he'll give you faith, he'll give you support,
and he will lift you up.
So ladies, these were my 15 quick signs
that a guy is getting emotionally attached to you.
I know they all sound very, very sweet.
And if you are dating somebody
that's taking you for granted,
or that's not doing that many things for you,
or perhaps you're just dating somebody
that's not doing anything like that for you,
and you're thinking like,
"Oh, where are these guys, do they even exist?"
Let me tell you this: they definitely do.
And when a positive high-value man is in love with you,
trust me, he will sweep you off your feet.
And all of these signs that I just mentioned
will be like a daily norm for you.
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Thank you for watching, kisses from Dorset.
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