I want to talk to you today about some things that you never want to say to a woman ever.
And what some of these things are, are going to be maybe something you won't say any time.
Some of these are going to be a little bit more specific to certain situations that
you might be in. We're just going to cover everything here. And it's going to help you
a lot because you don't want to be saying the wrong thing to turn a woman off. It's like,
sometimes you can say one thing that will just completely turn her off and then boom,
you'll lose a possible girl that you could be getting a number from, hooking up with,
getting into a relationship with. You never know. Some things I'll be saying today will also help
when you get into a relationship. All this, by the way, comes from personal experience. This
comes from just reactions that I've seen. I've made some mistakes and I will admit them today.
This has also come from women that I've talked to over the years and things that they've said
to me that have been complete turn offs. These are just things that you just want to make sure
you avoid. This goes into the idea of female psychology. They break down female psychology,
what women want, what attracts a woman inside of my Hooked program. I think you should check that
out if you don't have it already. And if you want to know like, does this really work? Tripp talks
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1000's of guys have already gotten it. You should too. I talk about it a lot because it works. And
it's awesome. And it's unlike my YouTube videos like I sit here and I give you random information.
But in the Hooked program, it's like organizing everything. A lot of the value in it is going
okay, how do I begin? Where do I begin? And how do I take this from step a to step z instead of
getting random information like this? The YouTube videos help, full courses help a lot more. Check
it out. I put a link down below. But let's get into the 7 things you never ever want to say to
a woman. Number one... this is in no particular order but I do find this one to be a huge one.
Never say anything along the lines of hey is it cool if I...? Or any kind of question that's
asking permission. This is besides sex, of course, where you should get consent. But anything els,
never ask a woman for permission for something that you want to do. I find that I talk to guys
and they text girls and say hey is it cool if I do this? This happens a lot in relationships. This
happens also just in general in the beginning of dating and courtship. Any kind of question
asking permission, like is it cool if I do this? Yeah, it's cool. Do what you want to do. A woman
doesn't want to give you permission. And you don't want to set up any kind of standard in a
relationship or dating relationship where you have to ask permission of anything. Make sure anything
permission related, you're not going to do that. Here's another one. This is a very specific one to
a specific point in time. Never say to a woman I'm only dating you. Never say that. Except
for when (and you're not going to say that sentence, you'll say something different) but
you might say that at the time when you are getting into a relationship with a woman. Imagine
you've been dating three, four or five months and she's like are you dating anyone and you
say I'm only dating you. And then it turns into a relationship. In the beginning though, never say
that or offer that information. I'm only dating you. It's a little bit creepy and obsessive. It's
like oh, okay we've been only dating like three or four dates. Why are you saying this to me?
Girls know, especially nowadays, that you're gonna be dating other women.
And they're attracted to you if you're dating other women, because it shows that other women
want you. If a woman ever says and she might on a second, third date, or fifth or sixth, whatever.
Are you dating anyone else? Even then don't say I'm only dating you because this is you admitting
that you're only focusing on her, which I believe that you shouldn't be. You might say something
along the lines of at this moment, you are not the only woman that I'm dating. Even if it's not true,
you want to say this because it kind of is true because you're keeping your options open
and you know that you would be dating someone else. Do not zero in on one woman and say that
until you actually know that this is going to be someone that's gonna be your girlfriend.
Let's go to the third one. The third one is do not comment on her appearance or body at all.
We don't want to compliment her because compliments are fake anyways and you're
just saying it to give her validation so that she can feel good because you said something.
Most of the times are not real anyway. You can just get into trouble here. Never say anything
even if it's a criticism, any criticism on her body. Just stay away from all of it.
When in doubt, don't comment on her body or her appearance. Even if she asks you be
very careful. Because if you say anything even remotely negative, she's going to remember it
and the wrath will come down on you, especially in relationships. I've been in this before.
Just be careful, stay vague with anything that a woman says. If in doubt, if a woman
asks you specifically like what do you think of this? Just, it's awesome, it's great.
Vague and somewhat positive and that's it. Never ask her if she's dating anyone else.
There's no exception to this one. Never ask her ever if she's dating anyone else, ever. There's
nothing to do with that information. You might think well, don't I want to ask that when I get
into a relationship with her? Yes, but you're not going to ask that question because that comes off
a little needy and potentially jealous which are very unattractive traits. We don't want to ask her
if she's dating anyone else, especially if you're just bringing it up to bring it up. Just don't
care about any of that. The second you do that, you come off low value. If you want to get into a
relationship with her or you're asking someone to be your girlfriend, you're gonna say hey
I just wanna let you know that I don't want to see anyone else and I want to see you and I think that
we should be in something where we're committed or we're monogamous. You're gonna say something
like that in those terms instead of are you dating anyone else? Don't ask her if she's dating anyone
else. At this point, you should never care. Keep it to yourself. Here's one... I know this is the
fifth one and I'm gonna say a few things here. But they all kind of tie in together, it's kind of the
same idea. Never say that she looks bored, she looks tired or that you should smile more. I'll
say that again. She looks bored. She looks tired. Or she should smile more. This is more of like,
when you're going to approach a woman. I hear this from women all the time. And I've made this
mistake before. I've said this to women. You look bored. Women don't want to hear that when you go
and approach them. And no, this is not like, no, but Tripp it's like a neg. It doesn't work. It's
gonna turn her off instantly. Don't say she looks bored. She doesn't want to hear that. That doesn't
continue conversation to go anywhere. Don't say she looks tired because you're almost saying that
she looks ugly. And don't say that she should smile more because when you say that to her,
you're basically telling her to do something and trying to control her in this weird way.
Don't say any of that stuff. I put that in one chunk together necause those are three common
statements that a lot of guys say. They like to use it as openers. They like to use it as
something to say when they first meet a woman on a first date. Oh you look tired.
Don't say that. Some of this stuff might sound obvious to you. But trust me, people have made
mistakes before and I want to prevent this for you. Here's a sixth one. Are you PMSing? Do not
say are you PMSing? Basically saying that the girl is acting like a bitch. That's how she's
going to perceive it. She's gonna think that you're just saying that to figure out why she's
acting in a way that you don't like. Never ask her that. There's pretty much no exceptions there.
Just stay away from anything. Are you PMSing? And are you on your period? None of that stuff. You're
just gonna come off like a douchebag. Here's the last one. I'm telling you last but not least.
This is a common one. Don't ever ask a girl. How come you're still single? And I'm guilty
of this. I used to do this. Not all the time, but I've done it. It's a weird question. It doesn't
go anywhere. There's no reason. No one has a good answer for that. You think it's a compliment
because you're saying wow, you're awesome, like, how are you still single? But it's just a weird
thing to say. Why is she still single. Why are you still single? People are just single.
There's no answer to that question. It doesn't lend itself to a conversation. And I don't think
you should be complimenting anyways. But it's just not the best compliment that you could be
saying to someone. Never ask her why she's still single. It doesn't go anywhere. Keep it out of
your repertoire altogether. What are you supposed to do with this now? Take this information,
write this down. Hopefully you just took some notes so you can reference it every once in a
while. You can make sure that you're not saying these kinds of things. You're not saying anything
that is remotely like any of these things. It's just a good thing to have in your back pocket
literally. You can put on your phone and have it there and reference it so you have a little bit of
a smoother conversation. And if you want to be even more smooth at conversation and know what
to say to a girl, check out the Hooked program at www.getherhooked.com where you're going to
learn everything about what to say to women, more about female psychology, understanding women, and
how to take all these concepts from A to Z. Hope that helps and I'll see you on the next video.