Words are extremely powerful when it comes to getting a woman attracted,
even invested. I want to show you how to use your words, specifically over text in order to do that
in order to get her excited. I'm going to give you the text message right now that you can just
copy and paste. But before you end up actually trying it out there, I want you to listen to the
rest of this video because I'm going to teach you why it works and exactly when to use it. Alright,
so here's the text, word for word. You're going to send her - "There's a surprise tonight." And then
you can do like dot dot dot ellipses. There's a surprise tonight. Or you can even change it
around if you want to do something that's a little bit different, like I have a surprise tonight,
or there's some sort of surprise tonight, whatever. Any sort of way of using this idea
of there's going to be a surprise. First of all, when do you use something like this? You
have to understand like, you can't just send this text message to a girl that you just met
that you've never met before. Or maybe you're sending it to her over DM or you're sending it
to her over meeting her online. You can't just do that, it's very specific. You want to send
this to her after you two have met up a couple of times. This is not for the first date, it's not
for the second date because sending this message can obviously be kind of creepy, can be kind of
weird. It's only going to be a little bit more normal and more exciting when she knows you,
when she has known who you are, your personality has met up with you, and has a sense of your vibe
and your being. That's when you can send it. And by the way, you can send this really whenever you
want after that second date. If you want to use it for the 10th date, if you want to use it when
you're in a relationship, if you want to use it when you're married- it doesn't matter. The point
is, you just don't want to use it too soon. So imagine, you guys have already had two dates,
and you're setting up the third date, you guys have set that up, you're meeting on Friday,
you're going out to dinner, or she's coming over, whatever it may be and then you send her this text
message: "There's a surprise tonight." This is obviously going to get her excited because
people like surprises. Now specifically, it's going to be even more exciting for a woman to
hear this because women have that more emotional response to something like this, and there's more
tension being built, which is what gets women more attracted. My TED formula that I talk about on the
channel, tension, entertainment, dominance, this is part of that tension. Building the tension,
and then releasing it later on. That's tension right there. Hey, there's a surprise tonight.
Let's get her excited. Let's get her excited to see you. You know the saying "Girls Just Want to
Have Fun", that's what this is all about. If you keep that fun, if you keep stringing her along
with these exciting text messages, and by the way, we'll get into this in a bit, but you have
to have something that is a surprise. And don't worry, it doesn't have to be anything grandiose,
it can be even something really small, but let me explain why this works so well. Women
become attracted from emotional spikes. The more emotional spikes there are, the more that she can
become attracted to you. Also, women are attracted to this idea of a chase. This is where men and
women are very different by the way. As a man, you probably know this. Now listen, it's interesting,
because yes the chase works on us, but it's really annoying. It's really annoying for us. If we had
our way, we wouldn't want to chase at all. We'd just be in a situation where it's very easy to get
together with a woman to end up in bed with her, to get into a relationship. We just want it easy.
For women, they like that chase because here's the idea; it's already easy for them to sleep
with guys and to get guys. So the guy who can make her chase a little bit, the guy who can give those
emotional spikes is the guy that she's going to be more interested in. Of course, your personality,
your vibe, all that stuff is equally important. But you want to make sure that there is some sort
of fun involved. That's why a text message like this makes it so much more fun and starts to pull
her in and reel her in because she's going to know wow, every time I'm with him something exciting
happens. Now, of course, you don't want to be saying to her all the time, "I have a surprise
for you." It's not going to be as interesting anymore. But the idea is to always have that
fun environment. By the way, we teach this in my coaching program TrippAdviceCoaching.com where we
teach you how to be a guy who's always able to have those emotional spikes. You can go check
that out and you can even book a call with us to learn how. But still, let's learn how to use this
in a way that's going to make sense because you need some sort of surprise so I'll give you some
ideas right now. The surprise can be a bottle of wine that she said that she really likes. Maybe
the other night when you guys met up, she says she really likes white wine and you got a nice bottle
of white wine for you guys to share. Maybe the surprise is an activity or something that you guys
are doing that night. Maybe you guys are going out to dinner and the surprise is, hey, we're
going to this awesome place that you've wanted to take her to. Maybe it's like, I don't know,
mini golf or bowling or maybe a place you wanted to take her. Think about things that are exciting
for you or exciting for her. Those are the two camps. Exciting for her might be something that
she said she liked, like I said, maybe that bottle of wine. Maybe she mentioned that she really likes
a certain kind of music and you're going to put that music on when she comes over. It's not so
much where it has to be this grandiose thing. More importantly, it's the excitement for her when she
sees that text, gets excited, and all that time up until when she's with you. And then of course
you can reveal what that surprise it. So again, that's something in her camp or something in your
camp. In your camp maybe it's something that you wanted to tell her, show her, share about you and
your life. Is this triggering any ideas? If it is, write a comment down below so we can learn
from you and your examples. What's something that can be a surprise? I know there's some jokes here,
we can get all funny and sexual and stuff. But all that stuff aside, let's be serious. What is
it that you can maybe surprise her with? Think about something that's going to be even just
slightly interesting and that's going to be good enough. Maybe even it's like something different,
like you told her that you guys are going to be having dinner at your house, but then instead
you got a little picnic together and you guys are going to go somewhere and eat outside. Or maybe
you guys are going to take a walk somewhere after you guys were hanging out and go somewhere that
you've never been before that you wanted to check out. It's a surprise for you and both for her. Get
creative. Don't overthink it. More importantly, it's about that text. There's a lot of other
text messages that you can send too. And these are ones similar to this where you're wanting to do it
after you guys have hung out a lot. I call them 6 Sexy Text Messages To Send Her. There's a video
on the screen where you can check that out. And of course, if you need more help meeting women,
building these emotional spikes, and getting women attracted to you, go to
www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com where you can learn more about how my coaching team can help you.