Have you found out that you keep attracting a narcissistic partner, and you’re wondering
why?
If yes, then today you are in the right place.
A narcissist is an individual who has an inflated sense of their own importance, lacks empathy
for others, and demands excessive attention and admiration.
So why do you keep attracting a narcissist over and over again?
In this video, we will share with you 6 reasons as to why this may be the case.
1.
The Behavior Feels Normal To You One of the reasons why you keep attracting
a narcissistic partner, is because their behavior seems normal to you.
For instance, if one of your parents is, or was a narcissist, then the behavior may seem
normal to you, because you are used to it.
People around you play a big role in influencing how you relate with others.
So, if you grew up with a narcissistic parent, or you were previously in a relationship with
a narcissistic ex, chances are, that you will become an easy target to someone who is a
narcissist, because they know that you can, or will tolerate their behavior.
2.
You Love Pleasing People Narcissistic people are opportunists, and
always take advantage of every chance they get to manipulate people around them.
So, if a narcissistic person finds out that you have a people-pleaser personality, they
will be drawn to you.
One thing you need to note about narcissists is that they can never be pleased, no matter
what you do for them.
They are very unpredictable and constantly change their mind on what they expect from
you.
They do this because they want you to keep trying harder and harder to please them, and
also to make you feel like a loser, and that they are better than you.
So, if you are a people pleaser, then know that this could be the reason why you keep
attracting a narcissistic partner.
3.
You Don’t Value Your Needs & Feelings You are also likely to attract a narcissistic
partner if you don’t value your own needs and feelings.
Narcissists don’t care about other people around them.
They are self-centered and only care about their interests.
So, if you are the kind of person who usually sacrifices your feelings and needs in order
to please others, then you are likely to attract a narcissist.
You need to know how to stand up for yourself and put yourself first.
Narcissists are always on the lookout searching for people who they can easily manipulate.
You must learn how to say no.
Not only to avoid narcissists, but to improve your overall quality of life.
If you don’t know how to say No when someone asks you to do something that you don’t
like, then that is probably the reason why you keep attracting a narcissistic partner.
4.
You Are Suffering From Low Self-Esteem People suffering from low self-esteem are
also more likely to attract a narcissist into their life.
Individuals with low self-esteem are always mindful of what other people around them think
about them, and sometimes to assuage others, they do whatever they can do to please them.
If your self-esteem is low, then you are likely to accept poor treatment from other people.
You also become easier to manipulate due to your lowered self-esteem.
This is what narcissists like, and they will take advantage of your low self-esteem to
manipulate you and make you feel worthless.
In fact, low self-esteem is one of the traits that narcissists look for in a person before
dating them.
If you have lots of confidence or high self esteem the narcissist will most likely move
on to an easier target.
5.
You Are An Empathic Empathic people are also likely to attract
a narcissist.
An empathic person is an individual who always relates to and feels other people’s emotions.
Although this is a positive trait, it can work against you if you are not careful.
Narcissists are usually drawn to people with this trait because they know that they are
easy to manipulate.
Empaths have everything that narcissists want in a romantic relationship, including being
a good listener, being good-hearted, giving a lot, and giving love and attention.
If you are an empath, know how to set boundaries.
You need to know when someone appreciates your kindness, and when someone is taking
advantage of your good deeds.
6.
You Feel Worthless Or Unlovable You are likely to attract a narcissist if
you don’t think highly of yourself.
If you think that you are worthless or unlovable, then you may easily fall into the trap of
anyone who makes you feel good even though they are doing it for their own selfish gain.
If you think that someone is doing you a favor to love you, then you will tolerate poor treatment
from your partner, and that is what a narcissist person looks for in their next victim.
Narcissists love people who feel they are worthless.
A narcissistic person will always make you feel that you are lucky to have them in your
life.
Remember, having a feeling of low self-worth is not an attractive trait to a partner.
Work on yourself and your mental health to improve all aspects of your life.
If you do this, you can avoid your chances of getting into a serious relationship with
a narcissistic individual.
Have you experienced this with a narcissist?
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