Hey Dan here and in this video I want to share a little thought about being more
decisive and making quick decisions I'm learning to make quick decisions to
become a decisive person has so many benefits it is generally very appealing
if you are a man I hate to get you know all gender roles and blah blah blah
about it but women like decisive men generally people like decisive people it
shows confidence it shows you know a quick-thinking ability all this sort of
things so making decisions is attractive great it will free up so much time in
your brain it is such a nice thing to just like make a quick decision right
what should I do boom try that do it it's done sometimes it works sometimes
it doesn't the thing is is any decision you make there's a good chance you're
right and there's a good chance you're wrong that's sort of how decisions work
how you tend to get better at making decisions is through experience right
yes you can like read books and watch videos and all that but generally we
tend to learn from our own experience and so the more experiences you have the
more you learn you learn probably more from bad decisions than from good
decisions I don't know if that's been your experience but it's definitely been
my life experience where when you make good decision sort of like all right and
then you go on where you make a bad decision and you reflect on it and try
to figure out what went wrong and tried not to make that same mistake again
right so my thought is if you make quick decisions and you just trust your
instincts make a decision and it happens to be wrong then you learn a lot right
your intuition gets better and you're more likely to make the right decision
the next time but I think our our intuition is sort of like our sense of
direction if you're using Google Maps to find a restaurant five blocks from your
house probably the part of your brain that deals with directions orientation
it has checked out it's down in Mexico at my life design fiesta event it's just
sleeping at the back of the room it's not doing anything because it's like hey
listen this person is real ah Google Maps they don't give a crap about
having a sense of direction or knowing how to navigate
I'm checked out I'm not needed here right this is how our brain works if you
don't use parts of it because you rely on like an electronic device or other
people or whatever then you're not then it's going to go it's gonna atrophy it's
not going to be strong and useful and all that right so this is what I figure
our ability to have a good intuition and make decisions it's the same way is if
you're never trusting your intuition and you're not really using it you're
overthinking everything you're asking people a dozen times like hey what
should i do what should I do and it's like little things your intuition to
gonna say like all right this guy doesn't listen to me anyhow this is a
waste of my time I'm gonna go to Mexico with Dan for this playoff carbon event
intent and forget this because it's just not worth putting in any effort right
thinking of your intuition as if it was personified right so I think giving
yourself like trusting in yourself basically to make good decisions will
ultimately allow you to make good decisions you sort of have to put the
carriage before the horse right start trusting yourself start making quick
decisions and then learn from those and what you'll find is that your intuition
gets better and better your judgment your wisdom all those things will
improve in the short term one of the benefits like I mentioned is you free up
a lot of space in your brain I got a message the other day from a writer that
I'm working with about the project we're working on and it was potentially a very
big decision like what she was asking I could have sat down and I could have
made pros and cons list I could have spent hours on this thing but I read the
message it made sense to me what she was proposing and I said yeah let's do it
I trusted my intuition and am I gonna be right or wrong I'm pretty sure I'm gonna
be right but even if I am wrong occasionally then I will learn on that I
will you know figure it out it will help me but in that day what that meant is I
regain like two hours of my time because I wasn't spending it over thinking like
what should I do with this you know what the right thing Bravo blah blah blah now
I'm not saying to make every decision like really quick to just be impulsive
with everything but I think for most people my experience with especially
like in the free freelancer program in our group program and with just a lot of
people in life is that most people lean towards indecisive and not believing in
themselves and most of the time they should be believing in themselves when I
actually you know get down to it what they want to do makes a lot of sense
they have a lot of like good intuition they just don't necessarily trust
themselves so if that is you I would encourage you to start trusting yourself
to start believing your intuition giving it a try following through on it and
then you know change the result after that learning to be decisive will have a
really really significant impact on your life and is really worth the investment
and the risk of trying it out with some decisions now and just you know making
that easy for yourself in the future so that's it short video today hope it
helps you with taking back a little bit of your sanity and a little bit of your
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awesome day