Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. What I'm going to
talk about on today's video is the second best date idea which I will tell
you in just a second. You probably read it below in the comments, but I
don't want you to just hear the date idea and then move on. There's a reason
why this kind of date is the best for a second date which, maybe I'm giving it away
here, most people think is the best first date idea. I'm going to explain why
that is not true in my opinion and we'll go into what you can do to make this
second date awesome. What is the best second date? The best second date
that you can go on with a girl is dinner. That's right, dinner. The typical first
date move and just your overall typical date idea. Dinner, very easy, very
common. But I believe that the second date is the best time for this and I'll
explain why. Why do people usually think that the first date should be
dinner? Because that's all they really know. Whenever they see a
data on TV or they hear about people going on dates, usually it's dinner. And it's
very easy. You pick a restaurant and then you just go for it. However, I
believe that dinner is actually a very big investment. Especially if you're
going to be going on a lot of dates with different girls and trying to meet the
type of girl for you. First of all, I'm trying to save your wall a little bit.
Because if you're going on let's just even say one or two dates per week for a
whole month, that's a lot of eating out and a lot of nice dinners and of course
we do want to go to some sort of nice place or dinner. We're not going to have
you be going to any sort of fast-food or anything too casual. I want you to go to a
nice dinner so if we're going to do that, you know we want it to be nice and we
don't want you to break the bank. But also, I do believe that not just the
investment of the money, but it's a big investment to go for a dinner date the
first time because you're really forcing yourself down there to sit there across
and that person. You're doing a whole meal and you might find out fairly
quickly that this person isn't for you and now you're sitting there, you're
dedicated to an entire meal and I want to save you that time. I think it's
better for a first date to be more casual and do some sort of drink or some sort
of coffee or maybe even some sort of activity. Nothing that's going to be
heavy on your time because you don't know what's going to happen with the
girl that you meet. I want to be clear here. There's a lot of
different circumstances in which you might be meeting a woman. In this case
and we're talking about doing a first date coffee, first date drink, first date
really small activity and a second date being dinner. Well then this means that you
met this person very quickly or very casually. Maybe at a networking event,
maybe through online dating or through an app or through going out and just meeting
someone and having a quick conversation with them. That's the case in which
you do that. I believe that dinner is a nice time to sit down with someone when
you've already sort of gotten to know them and then you can kind of make that
next transition into hey now let's sit down, let's get to know each other, let's
have that time together, let's eat food together, let's share that experience
together when again you've already them to know them a little bit. A first date
dinner can be fine if you've been talking to them for a
while or you guys are connected for a while,
then yeah fine go for a first dinner date. But normally that doesn't happen.
Normally it's a pretty quick meeting online or offline and then I think it's
best to again do a first date where you get a quick drink, short activity and
then second date you can sit down and go to dinner. I think the best type of
dinners you could do and again this is not going to be for everyone because
you're not all going to like this type of food, but I think that sushi is the
best second dinner date. Why? Because sushi is really fun to be
eating with someone else because you guys can talk about the pieces, you can
tell whether you like this piece or this piece. Plus, at the end of the meal you're
not disgustingly full, it's not too smelly so you're not going to walk away
having a lot of garlic breath or just smelling like whatever the kitchen
smelled like. It's a very nice clean meal and fun to do with someone.
That's my suggestion to you for that second date which would be dinner.
Of course it's up to you and up to her. If you're not going to do sushi or
both of you don't like it or there's no sushi restaurants in your area then what
you can do is pick whatever she likes best. I like to do that. I like to
say hey what's your favorite food you know assuming that you probably like
everything. I don't want you to go somewhere that you actually hate. But
assuming you like most food and she picks something that you like.
Let it be her decision. Not where to go, what type of food. You say hey what's
your favorite food, she says I love Italian, you say awesome I'm going to
pick the best Italian place for us. That's a great way to set up
that second date. If you're not sure how to set up this second date or even a
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finding the girl that's perfect for you. Go grab that link. I want you to write a
comment down below if you've made it this far. What's your favorite second
date idea? Is there something that I'm missing? Maybe there's something else.
Again, dinner is my opinion. I think it's one of the best. But maybe you have
something else that's even better. I want to hear from you. I'll be in the
comments with you. Write down below your opinion on the second best date and I'll
see you on the next video.