hello boys and girls today only bill would be talking about James Charles but
we're also going to be talking about some very important subjects such as
empathy boundaries and a whole lot more so make sure that you stay tuned what is
up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
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or just the fans of youtubers and just kind of analyze them and talk about them
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notification bell so I just did a video about the whole James Charles news
that's been going on everybody freaking out about his sister's tour and the
pricing everything if you want check that out go check it out in the info
card but if you don't check it out basically I was just saying like all of
its ridiculous all right like and please just bear with me until the end of this
video like I really hope that you listen because I'm going to talk about the
James Hall situation but they don't want to you know connect it to what you and I
and everybody deals with on a more personal level and I think by discussing
these things you might figure out a way to set up boundaries with co-workers
with friends with family members and things like that so anyways most
recently I was actually just watching some other videos about James Charles
and right now - day-to-day is the time of recording this people are freaking
out about James Charles blocking fans over on Twitter and and like here's the
thing there is there was just zero empathy going on and one would argue
that there's no empathy from James tall side of the street making ticket prices
so high and everything like that but also no empathy from the fans here's
here's something that a lot of people don't understand 99% of the people who
are going to watch my video who are fans of James Falls will never fully grasp
what is going on in that person's life when it comes to being an
fluence all right just like me I won't ever grasp it I will never fully
understand what they're going through but something I'm always trying to work
on and I've been working on a lot more lately is developing this empathy okay
now James Charles walking fans like that there's a narrative going on that James
Charles is just blocking fans because they're upset about ticket prices that
is really simplifying what's going on like I have some tweets up on the screen
right now like there are people there are people who are literally just trying
to get blocked by James Charles they are specifically trolling James house just
to get blocked and as somebody who has personal experience with this what
people don't understand is during this time of chaos for James Charles around
the ticket pricing for his tour what people don't understand is he is getting
thousands upon thousands upon thousands of people thousands of people tagging
him on Twitter and yes you might have a group of people who are just trying to
give some criticism some critiques and everything like that okay but there was
a massive amount of people who are just sending him straight up hatred okay and
what a lot of people will never understand from the aspect or the
reality and the point of view of James Charles is is that all those things are
blending together like and all of us each one of us lives in our own reality
you are just a person sitting at your house or at the coffee shop or wherever
the heck you are saying huh James Charles prices are too high that's your
reality right the meanwhile there was another person that saying s James
Charles screw James Charles he's greedy he's this he's that
and that is their reality now the reality of James Charles is all of it is
getting blended together and it's one mixed Bowl and each one of us we have
our breaking point I have my breaking point you have your breaking point and
James Charles has his breaking point if I had to guess without knowing James
Charles without talking to James Charles he got to a breaking point where he just
went block happy where anything was just setting him off because he is an extreme
really sensitive state so he is just blocking everybody and is that fair not
all the time not always some innocent people are probably getting blocked some
innocent fans are probably getting blocked but I wanted to talk about this
in a video to just try to help help you understand where he might be coming from
and why he's doing this you guys check this out I was on Twitter
the other day and check it out Geoffrey Starr black me Geoffrey star
black me I don't know why I have some guesses why I made some videos about
Geoffrey star I thought they were pretty empathetic like I was on the dude sank
but he blocked me why he blocked me is really none of my business all right
like no matter what happened whatever led Geoffrey started to blocking me that
is none of my business that's what he did that's what he had to do in his
reality and that's cool man that's cool like one of the things that we're living
with and in right now is that people think that they have like this justified
right to just dogpile on somebody with thousands I just picture for one second
just close your eyes and imagine being in a stadium right like a football
stadium that holds tens of thousands of people and you're standing in the middle
of that stadium and all of these people are screaming at you they're not
cheering you they are screaming at you just like try to imagine that for one
second for a lot of social media influencers for youtubers for
celebrities for whoever it is that is what this feels like to them alright but
here's why find interesting about this if you remember when James Charles
palette first came out there was a young woman who said I made a tweet that ended
up going viral about how his palette gave her an allergic reaction alright
and a bunch of James Charles fans went after this young woman attacking her and
harassing her this young woman ended up having panic attacks she talked about
self-harm she talked about a lot of things and she just wanted it to stop
alright and that is awful that it's terrible I don't condone that in any way
shape or form but the point I'm getting at is that that young woman for a day or
a whatever that period of time was she got
a very small taste of what influencers and celebrities deal with on a daily
basis I've talked about this with chris d'elia like he is somebody who will put
people on blast to show them what it's like to have this type of hatred just
coming to masses and like I said I don't think a lot of people could fully
comprehend this up until the last couple months I could not fully comprehend this
all right but what I'm getting at is this you have every right to hate James
Charles you have every right to make a video about James cause you have every
right to call James Charles every nasty name you can think of and send hatred
his up his way all right but check this out he has the right to set up a
boundary and block you okay nobody nobody nobody has to take it not James
Charles not me and not you so here's a thing have you ever worked in customer
service all right like if you've worked in customer service
you two have probably got a small taste of what James Charles has gone through
for example my first career was in the car dealership industry on the service
side I worked for Ford and when I was working there and I first became a
service advisor they had a massive recall on a part in the engine area that
was lighting on fire okay people are coming in and screaming at me on a daily
basis calling me on the phone screaming at me like I was like my name was Chris
Ford and I made their freaking car alright and yes when you sign up for
customer service or even when you sign up for against an influencer that is
something that you are signing up for but there's a certain point where I
would get phone calls and people would start name-calling me they would start
cussing me out and everything like that you know what I did click okay back
before social media was a thing click that was a form of blocking somebody I
had the right to block that person now hanging up the phone and you know what
when I explained it to my boss they had my back because they understood that I
didn't deserve to take that hate and if you're out there and you're working in
customer sir so anything like that like make sure
like you understand where your boundaries are in your limitations but
the other thing is to like how many of you how many of you love maybe like gone
home from college for like Thanksgiving dinner you go back to see your family or
whatever it is or maybe you just didn't even go to college or maybe you
graduated college and you're on your new career path have you ever gone back home
to visit your family and then one person or multiple people or sitting there just
like talking crap to you about your life choices your life decisions what are you
doing with your life why are you dating this guy why are you dating that girl I
can't believe you made this decision like check this out they have the right
to say those things to you but you have the right to get up and leave you have
the right to set up a boundary and leave that situation the same way James
Charles has the right to black whoever he wants whether it's fair or not
because if it's your family they can argue like why are you blocking me why
are you black why are you leaving why are you leaving I'm just trying to show
you affection involved I care about you right but you have the right to set up a
boundary and say well I don't appreciate being talked to that way I don't
appreciate how you've treated me I don't appreciate these things I'm like his
here's the last thing that I want to touch on like I feel and this this
comment might get me some hatred but I feel it needs to be said like I feel
like there is this entitlement like this entitlement like listen you're going on
tour you need to set the prices the way I want and if I'm gonna complain about
it like you guys listen like I'd be I'd be chill I'd be loving if I can have a
Mercedes Benz but I can't afford it I could you imagine me just tweeting at
Mercedes Benz every day and saying no prices are ridiculous no prices are
crazy like my beautiful girlfriend Tristan I just moved into a new
apartment we looked at a lot of apartments a lot of them were out of our
price range could you imagine if I just went in there just every day just kept
telling them how ridiculous their prices were like what good is that doing like
what is that doing like like a lot of you voiced your opinions and James
Charles like adjusted the prices but that's about it like that's as far as
you if you don't want to go don't go if you
can't afford it sorry there's a lot of things that a lot
of people can't afford they're like I hate to like take this route but there
are like people who are living below the poverty line who can't afford food the
other day I was at a gas station like I was at a gas station I could remember
being this broke a guy a dollar and change in gas a dollar in change in gas
he could have sat there and yelled as I'm a complain to him about gas prices
but he just did what he could he did what he could afford so it's just like
like sometimes when I look at these situations I'm just like the audacity of
people like nobody's forcing you to go and James house is getting like
bombarded by tens of thousands of people jackholes like me making videos talking
about it like the dude is overwhelmed right now
like disagree with him all you want but understand he has the right to block
people that is his right and you have the right to block people you have the
right to get up and leave certain situations you don't you don't deserve
to be talked to in any way by a boss by a family member by a friend he'll like
even a significant other set your own boundaries well we are witnessing right
now is that James Charles has set up a juries whether you like them or not he
has set up his boundaries and you have the power and the ability to set your
own up to all right but anyways anyways let me know your thoughts on this topic
down in the comments below let me know how you are with Don Z's let me know if
he's ever work in customer service and you've had people just try to berate you
over the phone alright let me know what your experience is maybe you can relate
to the the analogy I made about a family just talking back to you let me know
down in the comments below and let's have the conversation alright anyways
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