Hey, it's Tripp Kramer from www.trippadvice.com. I want to tell you
about the 5 biggest mistakes that men make with women. I'm also going to
show you how to fix them. These are mistakes that I've seen hundreds of men
make over the course of my years of being a dating coach and I want you to
learn from each and every one of them so we can speed up the process of helping
you find the woman of your dreams. You ready? Let's get started. This is in no
particular order, but I guess I will start with the most common one I see
guys make. I see it when they meet a girl. I see it when they text a girl and it's
that they never ask the girl out. Are you guilty of this? When was the last time
you were interacting with the girl and you didn't get her number or you got her
number and you were trying to get her attracted to you over a text? This
doesn't work. You need to pull the trigger and ask the girl out. Guys are so
nervous of rejection that they won't take the interaction to the next level.
The problem is that if you don't, someone else will. What's the solution? The
solution comes in knowing that the only way you are going to get with the girl
is if you show her that you're interested. She won't ever do the work
for you. Now that you know that, it's time to get her out on a date. Simply find a
place to sit down and have a coffee or a drink and get going. The second mistake I
see guys make is not approaching a girl fast enough. I know that you might be
meeting girls on apps or on dating sites but yes guys are still meeting women in
person. During the day, at bars, at libraries, at coffee shops and the reason
why they don't approach is because they get to inside their head. the brain tells
them illogical things like what if she has a boyfriend, what if she rejects me, a
pretty girl like me wouldn't ever give me a chance, what if people look at me
when I talked to her. First of all, you should know that all these are just
excuses and it's your ego trying to save itself from getting bruised. In order to
combat these excuses, you need to approach the girl within 3 seconds.
Give yourself to the count of 3 and just go. That's the absolute best way to
fix your approach anxiety. You do it fast and don't listen to your brain. No
excuse is ever worth not giving it a shot. Say that again, no excuse in your brain
is ever worth not giving it shot with the girl. The next mistake I see
guys make is that they overthink things in terms of what to say to a girl. I
get it, it's hard to keep a conversation going so they end up never approaching
the girl because they don't know what to say or what to talk about. If you want a
solution to this, just go in the description and check out my free video
called Chick Crack. There I'm gonna give you the best conversation topics that
make it easy to talk to women about. They will love the topic so much that they
will want to continue the conversation for you. So just go in the description
and get Chick Crack. The fourth mistake I see guys make is that they settle for
the first woman that shows them interest. Yep, guys will learn the proper way to
meet and attract a woman and the second a woman shows interest, boom he's hooked.
This is a big mistake. Why? Because she showed interest
doesn't mean that she's the right girl for you. A lot of men have insecurities
and don't feel worthy of love or worthy of being loved by a quality woman so
they settle for the first person that comes their way.
How do you fix this? Well you should have a list of all the things you want in a
woman and if this woman doesn't meet at least 80% of that list, then it's not
someone you should continue dating. The fifth mistake I see guys make is that
they act too needy with the woman that they get the numbers from or the women
they end up in a relationship with. The problem with the neediness is it's
incredibly unattractive to a woman. she wants to know that she's with a man who
can hold his own and isn't desperate for any girl who comes his way. It doesn't
show confidence in himself. I mean can you blame the girl? How would you feel if
a girl texted you non-stop, called you non-stop, and got upset if she couldn't
see you every single day of the week? This is maybe something that can happen
when you're in a relationship for a long time, but not when you first start dating.
My suggestion is to limit your calling and texting and even seeing each other
only to a few times per week and focus on the other areas of your life like
your hobbies, your friends and your career. That way you won't become too
obsessed or needy for the girl that you're with. Now comment down below and
tell me what is the big mistake that you're making. Which one of these 5
mistakes are you making all the time and even tell me if you're making multiple
of these mistakes. Let's work on this together. I want
to hear from you so comment below and don't forget to go in the description to
get your free video called Chick Crack which is gonna help you continue
conversations with the girls that you meet because it's gonna give you the
exact topics of conversation that a woman likes to talk about. Go check that
out and I'll see you in the comments.