(Jason Nash talking to David Dobrik) and I was like Trisha get out of the way I'm going home I want it all I need some
time to myself she's I know so I want to start this video off by sharing a quote
from a book I'm reading by my girl CCB aka the crimson kiss by the way go
follow her on Instagram she is an amazing woman an amazing author she
talks a lot about relationships and stuff like that but anyways she says and
I broke my own damn heart by staying in a relationship that I knew wasn't good
for me but instead of taking accountability I blamed it all on him
what is everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel what I try to
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while so it is very appreciated anyways if you want to check out rewire your
anxiety it's available down in the description and could comment in the
ebook and audiobook format all right so yeah like to start this off to start
this off because some people were upset about a title of another video on their
like here's a good rule of thumb okay like I'm in therapy okay and therapy is
something I think everybody should be in but like here's a good rule of thumb
when you're about to do anything ask yourself like what would my
therapist tell me in this moment right something I had to do early on before
therapy and I was just working 12-step programs just like food my sponsor tell
me to do in this moment so I got some messages and comments that Trisha Paytas
just released this new video right here and whoo-hoo
oh boy all right so it's time to like why my ex-boyfriend is afraid of me and
like in my opinion like it's it's just sad like I feel bad for all right and
I'm glad she's getting help and I hope that works out but for the hundreds of
thousands of people out there watching yeah I want you to know like what we can
learn from this to start taking some accountability and see what's going on
but yeah in this video she talks about how Jason Nash finally returned her
stuff but he didn't want to see her and this is something that I don't know it's
not too uncommon especially after a breakup like it's awkward and it's like
you know whatever but in this situation there's much more but in the video she
starts talking more about David Dobrik she starts talking about Jeff Wittek and things
like that and the vlog squad and everything it's like dial it back
because here's the thing like so many of us we lack this self-awareness right and
that's why I love that quote from Cece beers we lack this self-awareness like
why are people acting this way so one thing I will say is I hope Trisha Paytas
can take a pause for a second and develop some empathy for what happened
between her and Nick econo avocado this is something I hope for all of you as
well and here's what I mean by that so she's like joking about like jason nash
maybe getting a restraining order against her you know for being scared of
her and things like that but her whole thing about ghosting Nikocado Avocado
was you don't owe anybody anything if they scare you if they make you feel
concerned or whatever it is you don't need to talk to them you don't need to
see them so I would hope that she could take a step back and look at this and
say oh okay so maybe maybe this is why Jason Nash doesn't want to see me or she
could say oh okay now I understand how Nikocado avocado
feels like you guys we have to gain empathy and here's the way I learned it
like I was doing a lot of self reflecting and journaling like I I just
wish more people with journal but here's when I got some more clarity it's when I
was writing down my resentments towards other people why other people pissed me
off and then I would start writing about the
expectations right like nobody should treat me like this nobody should do this
people should be this way a good mother a good friend a good sister a good
employer a good employee these are what these people should act like then I'm
saying all these expectations aren't placing on other people that I'm not
even living up to myself right like for us it's easy for us to sit back and
watch YouTube we could watch storylines like Trisha Paytas or anybody else and
sit back and judge but where are we doing that in our own life like it's so
easy for us to die ha these people don't know what they're doing and they're
causing their own problems but where's that happening in our own life but the
main thing the primary thing I want to talk about in this video is like more
self-awareness and understanding why people do what they do right because in
this video Trisha Paytas is really confused as to why Jason Nash would be
afraid of her and like the craziest part is like he had his assistant DM my
makeup wires my friend Adam he's like David just left the stuff there I like
like do scare me the most unresolved meant from this whole thing nothing he
broke up with me not because his friends all hate me whenever I hear Trisha
Paytas and jason nash i sick about this clip right here it was it was so scary
that my boy I actually just started laughing she almost wanted me over with
(Jason Nash talking to David Dobrik) how crazy it was like I almost went to her side to the dark side it was and
just completely flipped and was like alright why did you almost call the
police I'm not gonna say she can say if she was I'm not gonna throw her under
the bus I literally didn't do anything I mean what she did like wasn't that bad I
was blocking the door
that matter everybody said but right here wait wait wait she sat here like a
prison guard and I was like Trisha get out of the way I'm going home I wanted
all I need some time to myself she's like no so before I break that down real
quick like I when I got sober seven years ago I had to start asking myself
do these people who don't want to be around me do they have any reason to not
want to be around me right like what was my part right because we're never gonna
grow we're never gonna learn unless we look back at what's happened in our
lives and say oh maybe I contributed to this so like when I see somebody like
Trisha Paytas just so confused as to why Jason Nash doesn't want to talk to her
like there were many times during that relationship where Jason Nash would try
to leave and she did things like that she wouldn't let him leave so if you're
able to sit back and like ask yourself like oh wait is there any reason why he
wouldn't want to see me maybe he's worried about that happening again do
you see what I mean but aside from that aside from that
whole thing too like you have to take a minute to put yourself in Jason Nash's
shoes right there's constantly videos being made about him there's Instagram
stories there's tweets like there's all these
things right and Trisha Paytas has been having these emotional roller coasters
and everything like that like is it any wonder that he's trying
to distance himself from her you know what I mean like we have to take a step
back and this is it just about Trisha Paytas like we have to ask ourselves
like we have to ask ourselves like why do people not want to be around us what
am i doing right because if not how are we going to improve like for example
like I used to be the type of person who complained all the time all the time
like I had such a negative bias like there was no silver linings every
situation suck and like people stopped wanting to hang around me just because I
complained so much right it wasn't until I realized like oh maybe
I'm just being a downer all the time and that's why people don't want to hang out
with me and now I know a bunch of people when I
want to you know what I mean like we need to sit back and look at this but
the next thing I want to talk about is when we see this and this is just
confusing with the whole storyline but anyways this videos for you baby girl
alright but Trisha Paytas in an Instagram story
talked about how how she found out Jason Nash was cheating on her and this is
like a huge thing she talked about an Instagram story - made a billion tweets
about it and everything like that and something that a lot of us forget like
if that's true write something a lot of us forget is the hurt someone caused us
in a relationship because Trisha Paytas in this video talks about and she's
trying to figure out ways to get him back which I don't know but anyways like
we have to look back and say oh wait like this wasn't a great relationship
this wasn't as good as I thought oh yeah they hurt me all right and one of the
biggest fears a lot of us have is being alone and that's one of the reasons we
want to go back were drawn back to an X because it's it's safe it's comfortable
but is it is it like something Trisha talks about in this video is about how
her therapist is trying to teach her to let go alright and this is something
that all of us need to do with situations that are hurting us rather
than helping us all right but we need to realize when we're not letting go
we're causing our own misery it's like holding on to a hot coal alright
nobody's forcing us to hold on to that hot coal but until we drop it we are
continuing to cause our own misery alright but anyways that's all I got for
this video don't forget to go check out my girl CCB she's an amazing author and
down the description down to the pin comment is my new book rewire your
anxiety go check it out it's available now in ebook and audiobook format
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