- The power of a woman who can walk away.
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Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite,
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And just before I will share with you those six situations
where you will the have power
as a woman if you will walk away,
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So now without further ado, the situation number one.
And it is if he starts to lose emotional control
during an argument.
Just leave in the middle.
No need to handle the abuse
if he can't control his emotions
and have a poker face when police shows up
at his house while he's abusing a woman.
Well, then he can't control his emotions with you too.
If you walk away as soon as the abuse starts,
you give him time to calm down
and speak to you calmly when you come back.
Also, you set in a boundary.
If he's abusive, you will not be there.
It will give him a bit of a reality check
but if he continues this way
a time might come that you will never come back.
Number two, when you are in marriage age
and you've been dating him for a year,
let's say one and a half years, and you know
that you behave high-value, yet he is not proposing,
it is time to leave.
It takes about six months to know
is the person right for you or not.
And if he's not ready after
one and a half years
it is definitely time to go.
I find that men shoot themselves
in the foot nowadays
because being single is nearly glamorized
in today's society,
and I know quite a few man over the age
of 50, but never been married
and desperately want a family.
Yet now it's hard to find the love of your life.
Therefore, what we do, we end
up paying women to give them children
because we didn't get married when we had
a chance to marry the woman we loved,
and now it's too late.
Number three, when he behaves disrespectful.
Sometimes the only way for him to pay attention
is for you to walk away.
A lot of men don't pay attention
to boundary setting.
So let's say he did something disrespectful
and you are not talking
to him because you feel upset.
Yet instead of making
things right and apologizing,
he is just simply ignoring you back.
Or it is when he behaves this way and you feel
like he's taking the piss.
Rather than giving you respect,
a lot of times the only way
for you to gain the respect back
is unfortunately to make that step and walk away.
I'm not saying that walk away is easy, it's very hard to do.
However, a lot of times men really push us into the corner
where we literally have no choice
if we want even a drop of respect.
Number four, never walk away as a threat
and always do it only if you are ready
because there is no guarantee
that he will come after you to fix things.
The only guarantee is that you
are showing self-respect
by not letting him abuse you anymore
and having self-respect is the
most attractive quality in a woman.
Number five, check your standard.
Men are not stupid.
They know when we disrespect you,
they know when we ignore you, they know when they ghost you,
they know when we have not been gentlemen-like with you.
They know when we play hot and cold
and majority of times they do it intentionally.
As that way we check your standard.
We check what he can get away with
and this is exactly why confronting him about it
or trying to have a conversation
in order to explain to him that he is behaving
inappropriately is useless.
As majority of time he already knows,
and as I said, majority of times he's doing it on purpose.
So if you will try to have
a conversation about this,
he will just blame you and will call you all kinds
of names because he is not going to admit that he is wrong
'cause he doesn't want to take responsibility
for his behavior and apologize.
And again, this is why walking away a lot
of times becomes the only choice.
Number six, don't expect a high standard
if you are showing that you are not worthy of it.
Another time when men disrespect women is
because he has lost attraction for you
and he doesn't care about you anymore.
So of course there are always two sides of a story
but because I'm a relationship coach for women,
I focus on women and what is your side of the story
because I coach you.
Meaning, why did he lost attraction in you?
In which case then I would say reflect back
on your own behavior
and see have you been behaving low-value?
And ladies, what is a low-value woman?
What are low value behaviors?
Check out my video right here.
And if you have,
it kind of makes sense why he's taking you for granted.
Now, if that's the case, you can
either walk away or try to improve yourself
by practicing high-value behaviors
by valuing yourself, respecting yourself, et cetera.
And what is a woman of high-value?
Check the video right here if you still don't know.
Or I have a high-value woman course for sale on my website,
if you really want to learn from the core
and this is when your worth will increase
and therefore the standard of what you accept
and what you don't accept will increase too.
Very important.
Don't expect a man to treat you with a standard
if you don't behave like you have a standard.
Therefore, don't expect him to ask you in advance,
if you accept last minute, don't expect him to respect you
if you accept sex on the first few dates.
Your standard lies in your behavior and what you accept,
not what you want or not
in how you think he should be treating you.
And going over this again, are you worthy
of that high standard that you are asking him to deliver?
Because if he thinks you are not worthy of that standard,
he will not give it to you.
If you are behaving as a low-value woman,
but you want him to treat you with high-value standard,
ladies, this is simply not going to happen.
You need to become high-value first
and then you'll get your high-value standard.
Therefore, I would highly recommend you to get
my High-Value Women course, which is for sale on my website
and I'll put a link in my video description box below.
So ladies, these were my six situations
on where you will have a power in walking away.
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Mwah.