so david dobrik over here thinks he's the king the only thing this dude is the
king of is clickbait and we're tired of it what is up everybody this is Chris
from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the
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yeah why does everybody hate david dobrik
that is an interesting question so David dobrik and the vlog squad for those of you who don't know he
has a much line called click bait click bait is something that is just
fascinating to me and ever since I became a youtuber it is just one of the
most interesting topics so today we're not actually talking about david dobrik
we are talking about the beautiful topic of click bait so I wanted to do this
video because I love a video right now about elevation blowing up like it's
gotten like over a hundred thousand views in the last day right and it's
titled the truth about illymation and her abusive ex boyfriend and there are so many comments just so many
comments talking about the clickbait of it right so as you can see as you can
see there's so many people there's so many people we're talking about
what the title imply like what the title implied like and what was fascinating to
me and why I'm so interested in mental health and psychology is just the way
our mind works so just to let you know like what my
thought process was when I made this video and I made this title I was
thinking of all the people who were asking these questions like why didn't
he do this why didn't he do that why didn't she do this so I wanted to bring
in psychology and discuss learned helplessness and explain why victims
don't do certain things so that was my thought process that was my intention
but you see so many people you see so many people who thought that my intent
was to expose illymations and that is absolutely hilarious to me so think
about it for a second think about it for a second like this was totally
unintentional I so the people who think that illy was lying about this whole
thing they're clicking on the video thinking that is going to expose her for
something then I've gotten a ton of other comments like these ones on the
screen where a ton of people were jumping to my video trying to defend her
they were expecting me to talk crap right I was actually just talking to
iliyan dear who's telling her that she has an amazing fan base because so many
people clicked on the video waiting to ready to defend her right so like one of
the justifications that people have in so many people like you should really
change the title Yussef really changed the title and I'm
like why why should I change the title and some people have replied and said
because the way is titled makes people assume that this is going to be an
exposed video I'm like huh that's fascinating to me so since you expect
videos on YouTube to be exposed videos I should change my title you are out of
your mind you gotta understand everybody's mental filter is different
when you seem different words like I just told you what my intention was and
my thought process was behind that title if you are taking a title in a different
way that is on you not on me and this is extremely important like why am I
talking about this why talking about this at all because I talk
to all of you so often about how you need to quit caring so much what people
think like I have come to a place where I accept I accept the fact that
different people are going to take things different way one of the comments
actually said like you should change this title because some people might
just go by see this title think you're talking back and not actually watch the
video and I'm like okay and how is that my problem like this sounds like pretty
like terrible yeah that even terrible it just sounds like I'm coming off as a
jerk but like that's just the way it is like in order for me to keep this thing
saying I need to realize that I cannot appease everybody so this actually
happened on another video I did a few weeks ago and it was called why I hate
spill that video has like 20 or 30,000 views something like that and so many
people so many people are saying the same thing about the Clickbank title
because the video was actually about jealousy and they clicked on it
expecting for me to talk a bunch of trash about spill but I was really
talking about my own jealousy think about that like whenever I go to the
grocery store and I walk past you know the checkout line and there's all those
like magazines with all the gossip and all that stuff I always think I'm like
who the heck buys these things but you guys like I watch you guys's behavior
all the time and people love the drama people want the drama people people want
something to defend people want something to argue over people want to
expose certain things like that is fascinating
so inadvertently a lot of you are getting manipulated because you're
getting played by your own emotion so what's the moral of the story the moral
of this video is that we are people who are constantly getting played left and
right by our emotions you see it on Twitter all the time you see all this
reactionary behavior because people are totally going off of their emotions and
I am here to help you not go so much off of your emotions but to calm down be
mindful and make logical decisions so you can respond rather than react
because I will always say this until the day I die it is a lot easier for you to
fake to you it is to try to fix the rest of
the world so if you think that every youtuber on the platform is gonna change
their titles because you look at the word truth in one way when it wasn't
intended in another way and you don't click on the wit video that is a little
bit ridiculous alright so remember it is a lot easier for you to fix you that it
is to think that you're gonna fix the rest of the world and that is actually
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