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Okay, so let's talk about Prince Harry and Meghan.
So there's been a massive explosion
ever since that Oprah interview came out.
And by the way, if you want to check out
my breakdown on the Oprah interview,
definitely check out my video on that.
But basically, you know,
there's been a massive amount of backlash.
I had to laugh, like before Prince Phillip died,
people asked him what he thought about that interview,
and he said, "Madness, nothing good's going to come out of it."
And I thought, wow, that is so powerful and poignant,
like right spot on.
You know, here he is 99 years old,
and he definitely knew exactly what was going on.
And you know, it's never really good in families
to like go and air all your dirty laundry,
like to everybody else.
But you know, for most people,
everybody else might just be your friends, family,
neighbors, people around you, colleagues.
But you know, for people who have a platform,
they have the opportunity to talk to,
you know, arguably the most powerful person in the world
as far as having a platform,
and that would be Oprah Winfrey.
And so there they go, they get on there,
they make some really, really,
you know, explosive allegations about racism,
and mental health, and things like that.
And here's Harry sitting by,
and by the way, I did a whole video as well
on is Meghan a narcissist,
so a lot of people are saying that she is.
Who knows, I mean, you never really can say
somebody is this or that unless you actually know them,
you actually can diagnose them,
they actually go to a mental health professional.
But, you know, you can certainly see
if people are having narcissistic traits or tendencies.
And, you know, I think in this particular situation,
you've got a guy who has sort of had a hard time growing up.
I mean, he was like 12 years old when his mother died.
He's being raised by a father who,
I don't know, Charles certainly seems
to have narcissistic tendencies to me.
I mean, the way he treated Diana,
the way he continued to have a relationship with Camilla
even when he was married to Diana,
and he kind of marginalized her and her feelings,
and she had mental health issues,
and nobody was really addressing that.
And so, you know, here's Harry growing up in this situation,
and you know, there's always this kind of
I'm sure weird dynamic about the fact
that my brother is going to be the King,
and so he is being groomed that way.
I don't know if you guys ever watched "The Crown",
but there was like this whole storyline around
when Queen Elizabeth was younger and her,
you know, the dynamic was sort of weird
between her and her sister
because one was going to be the queen,
and one is just there, you know,
and so there's probably some weirdness going on with that.
And so Harry's a guy who's been sort of
trying to find his place.
You know, yeah, he's part of his Royal Family,
and yeah, it looks all nice
when they come out on the balcony and wave to everybody,
or they take the family pictures
at Christmas time or whatever.
But what about the rest of his life, you know?
I mean, and so, he's trying to find his place.
William finds Kate, who at least from the outside world
seems like the perfect person.
You know, she's doing everything right, everybody loves her.
And now, Harry wants to find his person.
And so he finds Meghan, and she appears to be perfect,
which narcissists normally do at the beginning, right?
And so, and I'm not saying she's a narcissist,
but could be right?
And so, you know, he finally feels
like he has his chance to have a life,
to, you know, have a wife, to have children,
to find his purpose in the world.
And so, he brings Meghan into this fold,
and it just is exploding.
I mean, like it's not working out.
And so, he wants to be supportive of her.
He wants to give her the support that his mother never got.
And so, he's coming from that place
of my mother had mental health issues.
She struggled with the Royal Family.
I don't want that to happen with my wife.
He actually said that in the interview,
I didn't want history to repeat itself.
So he's doing what he needs to do to support her.
But in the meantime, it's causing a massive division
between him and his family.
And so, you know, now he is living
in this country where he is not royalty.
I mean, yeah, he's a celebrity,
but you know, it doesn't come with the kind of royalty
and everything that he has literally grown up with,
was born into.
And he is now in Meghan's world,
and she is calling the shots, obviously.
I mean, this is what she wanted,
and he's trying to support her.
But as far as whether or not he will actually leave her,
I mean, it's so complicated now,
because he not only has one child with her,
they're about to have their second child.
And with two children in the mix, do you go back to England?
How does a custody plan work with that?
She's certainly not going to move back there.
She felt like she was persecuted by the Royal Family,
persecuted by the press.
I mean, with Prince Andrew and Fergie,
they were able to actually live
in the same house for a long time,
they co-parented, they did their thing.
Whereas in this situation,
I don't see like an easy end,
and these kids are babies, you know?
He's got a long way to go.
So, you know, but if she is a narcissist,
it will eventually start to steal his soul.
It will eventually start to suck the life out of him.
All of you guys out there
who have dealt with narcissists on a regular basis,
you know that to be true, they are energy vampires,
and you end up feeling like you have no life in you.
It literally, you know, sucks at your soul.
I've been there, not in a romantic relationship,
but in other relationships, and it's horrible.
And so, you know, I don't know that he will be able,
if she is a narcissist,
to stay in that relationship long term.
But if he does, then, you know,
it may not be so great for him.
I mean, maybe it's fine.
But if he does end up leaving her,
he's probably going to be stuck in California
with, you know, because he's going to want to be,
you know, seeing his children,
and there would be a custody plan,
and all that sort of thing.
And who knows if they even have a prenuptial agreement?
I'm sure they probably do.
But anyway, my guess is that
he won't leave her anytime soon,
but I want to know what you guys think.
Do you think that he will leave her,
or do you think that he won't?
Put that in the comments below, he will, or he won't.
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