so do you ever just take a look at what's happening in the world and just
have to ask yourself like is this even real life what is up everybody this is
Chris from the rewired so where we talk about the problem but focus on the
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this video i just want to have a talk just me and you real quick so i've been
talking with some other creators and some audience members some rewired
soldiers about the channel and something that's come up is when i look at my
channel compared to others you know and i'm trying to find the differences some
people think that my video seemed a little less researched and I'm like huh
well that's interesting because I follow stories for months or even years but
those of you who have been around for a while like you know the purpose of my
videos like I'm just trying to give you some context and then see what you and I
can both learn from watching these youtubers or celebrities or movies or TV
shows and see what we can learn from them right so I don't like going into
all the details of all the stories because then at a certain point it kind
of it kind of feels for it to me personally like I'm just gossiping like
I want to just kind of get to the point and then say okay what can we learn from
this right but anyways I'm gonna try it I'm gonna try giving you some more
context about Tana mongeau and Jake Paul getting engaged and I want all of you to
just remember throughout this whole thing like this is about you all right
or maybe you know some friends who are being ridiculous like this as well
alright so anyways this has been going on for a few months this relationship
and yeah I really I was hoping I was praying to God that this was a
our stunt maybe it still is maybe maybe they're gonna pull like a Danielle cohn
and just tell us that this was all a joke but anyways tana mongeau was dating
obviously she was dating bella thorne and then you know when that thing ended
they're still friends she started dating fake Justin Bieber who was Brad Sousa and
just man within months months ago it came out right around the time of
Coachella tana mongeau you know said that Brad Sosa cheated on her right and Brad
made this like apology video and everything like that and within like
days maybe even a week or two this whole thing with Tana mojo and Jake
Paul started and it was like okay this is just for publicity you know whatever
get people talking about it and all of that but anyways Tana mongeau was cheated
on on Bratz by Brad Sosa okay so now let's talk about Jake Paul Jake Paul has
last two major relationships were with Alyssa violet and Erica Castel both of
which he cheated on all right so if you watch the Shane Dawson docu series and
like Shane Dawson you know interviewed like Jake Paul and Erica Costello and
then he can review like Elissa violet and everything like that like
Jake Paul was not good and there was a lot of things that came up during that
series about emotional abuse and things like that but then you know not long
after the Shane Dawson series Jake Paul and Erica Costello broke up and it came
to light that Jake Paul was cheating on Erica Costello as well so by the way if
you want me to do a video on like why people are attracted to cheaters
let me know because it it does kind of blow my mind that Tana mojo is now
dating Jake Paul Tana mojo just got cheated on and she knows that Jake Paul
is a known cheater all right so anyways Jake Paul and Tina Botta they started
making videos together and you know seemingly hooking up and Jake Paula's
like said some things to Brad Susa and jake paul and Tana they did this video
that was like terrible i was thinking about making a video on her where they
like took care of these two kids cuz jake paul has kids around all the time
but anyways and they were like joking around about what it's like to be
parents like you any of you out there are parents and you
watch that video it's kind of like you know as a parent when you see somebody
saying like oh it's like I have a kid because you know I have a dog or
whatever it's like no no like if you have a child that you're watching and
you give it away that doesn't mean that you're gonna be a good parent anyways
this has been leading up to tanomo Dylan's birthday and she just turned 21
congratulations to you tanah 2y congratulations you just survived what
it's about 21 many ways leading up to it like she was publicly kind of like
telling or pressure Jake Paul into buying her a car which isn't a big deal
because Jake Paul is a multi-millionaire but anyway it's like I'm always looking
at this stuff and I'm thinking about the example that it's being to other people
and like yeah tanomo Jo like she knows how to work her audience and everything
like that on Twitter and she was like getting everybody to retweet and you
know hashtag like Jake Paul bite an out car and you know buy another car it
looks like alright so anyways her birthday just happened and yeah it looks
like they got engaged alright and this is awful from a million different angles
okay like again I pray if there is a god that this is all a PR stunt but let's
talk about this because this is something that's actually very common
and I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't if they did get engaged so one of
the first things aside from like knowing who you're getting with knowing what
their track record is like have they proven to you that they are a changed or
a different person but like rushing into things right like this is one of the
worst things that we can do in relationships when we rush into things
maybe it's rushing into moving in with them but especially like getting engaged
getting married and things like that because here's what you see what Jake
Paul and tan and mojo and like this is why I want all of us to learn from it
because we see this happen in so many other situations maybe you have a friend
or maybe you were this person where in the beginning like of course everything
is amazing it's the honeymoon phase right everything is all like tralala oh
my God we're so in love and like you know we're just making love and we're
doing all these fun things and everything like that
but here's something that I learned a long time ago like how good a
relationship is isn't based on the best times it's based on how you get through
the struggles alright and this is what really shows you how strong a
relationship is and I'm I'm not telling anybody like go out and like cause your
own struggles but like you have to see like before you take a giant leap into a
relationship such as moving in or getting engaged or whatever like you
have to have had to go through some difficult times right because sometimes
where people find out after the whole honeymoon phase it's like the person
they're dating and you might be able to relate to this let me know down in the
comments below like the person you're dating is awful at being there for you
like when you're going through a legitimately hard time like that person
doesn't know how to be there for you or they're very selfish or self-centered or
whatever it is right so during the whole honeymoon phase you can't tell that like
I've met people who like dove into a relationship or whatever and then they
had like a loved one pass away or maybe they lost a job or if something happened
with their friends or family members or whatever it is and then the person that
they were like so in love with during the honeymoon phase was just
non-existent during that time and during that struggle and then they were just
their eyes were opened up and that's why we really need to realize that like it's
based on our expectations right we we jump into a relationship and we expect
everything to be perfect forever we expect you know the feelings we have and
everything like that to be like this forever it's going to be like this you
know like just to give you you know an example like my my beautiful girlfriend
Trista and I we're now living together but we didn't move in together for
almost two years after dating alright the other thing that I want to talk
about when it comes to Tana mojo and Jake Paul getting engaged like here's
what bums me out all right like it seems like marriage and that whole thing it's
just it's just not even a big deal anymore like I wasn't like growing up
and maybe it's because I was a romantic and everything like that but like you
know man just like a big deal it's like two
people in love and like these soulmates coming together and like devoting
themselves to one another and it's this huge deal but something I realized as I
got older this has been a major issue especially in the United States for a
long time is that people just get married all willy-nilly like I live in
Las Vegas like I live in the city where people just come through get married
take off and like that's that's what bums me out because it's like it's not
even a huge deal the other thing that kind of bugs me about just people like
rushing into marriages and stuff it's like when I see you know like people who
are against like gay marriage I am just blown away
I am absolutely blown away with the amount of people who just rush into
marriages the divorce rates are extremely high and all that's like why
do you care that these these two people who have like how to fight for the right
to get married like why do you care that they're getting married when so many you
know straight normal you know quote-unquote normal couples are doing
this every single day and like to me that is tarnishing you know the the
sanctity of marriage by just rushing into these things so anyways if this
thing with Tana Bojo and Jake Paul is for real I do not see it lasting very
long and here's a thing here's what bums me out and like I'm no psychic but like
I don't imagine this relationship working out I made a video the other day
it seems like tenha mojo is growing and things like that but like Jake Paul has
not changed there is nothing about Jake Paul that has changed and what bums me
out is seeing somebody like Tana mojo when if I'll say if because I'm trying
to be an optimist here if it does fall apart you know she's gonna be crushed
she's gonna be hurt she's gonna be devastated she's gonna be surprised but
I guess the last thing I'll say before I let you go like we really have to do a
better job choosing the relationships that we even get in like we really need
to assess the situation say who is this person and the thing is like most of you
out there you don't have as much information on
person that you're about to date as Tana mojo has on Jake Paul like again his
track record is not great so we need to realize when we get into relationships
with somebody who is not a great person like we cannot be surprised when it
doesn't work out you know what I mean they anyways let me know if you have any
experience with this down in the comments below have you ever rushed into
anything have you rushed into moving in with somebody and you rushed into gang
married to somebody or engaged some somebody having children with somebody
whatever it is let me know how that worked out down in the comments below
and I'm sure they said outliers where it did work pretty well
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