Hello, my wonderful friend! Let's talk about 9 exciting signs she wants to touch you~
Touch is magical and it's very exciting. Can you imagine looking into her stunning eyes,
knowing that she loves your touch, and she wants to touch you? That would feel amazing, right?
Now I recently did this video on how to touch a woman. If you haven't seen it,
I will put a link in the description below. And
it's only right to make another video on the signs that she wants to touch you.
So if you would like to know these magical,
exciting signs, make sure you stay with me till the end of the video.
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And let's get to the 9 exciting signs she wants to touch you. Now,
as we get started with this, I do need to say, some of these signs,
or even perhaps many of these signs may sound a little obvious. Like, "Well, duh. Yeah."
And I want you to keep two things in mind. Number one, you would be shocked by how many
people this is not obvious to, okay? I've been doing this a long time, and there are
a lot of people it just goes completely over their heads. So keep that in mind.
And two, even people who these signs are super obvious,
when it's happening to them, when a girl's doing it to them,
they still completely miss it. So keep an open mind as we go through this.
And I'm super curious as we go through it, I want you to tell me which of these signs
stands out to you the most. Cause I love hearing your insights and your thoughts.
Sound good? Let's get started with the first sign she wants to touch you!
Sign number one is that she always hugs you.
Sometimes this is a sign that people take for granted. "Oh,
she just always gives me a hug." Well, yeah. She is always giving you a hug.
If she didn't like you or had a problem touching you, that certainly would not be happening.
Now, it's especially a sign that she wants to touch you, that she's interested,
if you're kind of the exception, she goes out of her way to hug you all the
time whenever she sees you, whenever you're saying goodbye, whatever it is.
Don't just skim over that. This can be a very big sign that, yeah,
she wants to touch you cuz she likes you and you give her those butterflies.
My next exciting sign she wants to touch you is that she sits close to you. If we
don't like someone, we're not gonna, like, actually sit close to them. We'll probably
avoid sitting next to them, and we certainly won't sit close to them,
and we certainly don't want to touch when we're sitting next to them.
However, if she, like, touches you when you're sitting, or she sits close to you,
that's a really good sign that she's very comfortable with you,
she maybe even is wanting that touch, and hoping that you'll want it as well.
This is especially true if she doesn't have to. Like,
if she doesn't have to sit that close to you, but she does, yeah, that means something!
Kind of makes you stop to think about situations differently, doesn't it?
Now, that leads us right into the next sign she
wants to touch you. And this sign is that she leans in.
Now this can certainly be the case when you're sitting next to each other. She
might lean in while you're talking or brush up against you or whatever it is.
She may also just lean in when you're talking,
when you're having those conversations standing up even.
If she's leaning in, and she might lean in and out a little bit, or she may just
lean in, like she's super engaged in the conversation and wants to be closer to you.
Now, the cool thing about this is there's kind of some science behind this.
When a woman is interested in a man,
it's very common for her to kind of come in and out of your personal bubble space.
She has no clue she's doing it, okay? As a matter of fact, when I first learned this years
ago I was like, "Holy cow. I totally do that." And I had no idea I was doing it before then.
So it's not something she does on purpose.
But it's just kind of without her realizing it, it's her way of saying,
"Hey, does he like me close? Is he okay with me being close? Can I be close to him?"
And this happens because there's legit attraction there. So it can be a very
good sign that, yeah, she wants to be close to you. She wants to touch you.
And this actually brings up a really interesting question.
Are you wondering right now why maybe you can see these signs, signs like this,
that she's interested, that she wants to touch you, that she wants you to pursue,
that she's pursuing you, you can see those legit signs,
and the relationship can still fall apart, it can still completely fail?
Why does that happen? Why can things go so well in the beginning,
but then at the end you're still left aching inside?
Have you ever asked this question?
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Now that you know what to do about that, let's talk about the next exciting sign
that she wants to touch you. This sign is that she brushes past you.
This is, again, something she can do without even knowing it. You don't usually think,
"Ooh, I'm gonna brush past him. Let my shoulder touch him when I walk by." You don't usually
think that unless maybe she's trying to, like, tease you or something like that.
Usually it's completely, like, subconscious. She has no idea she's doing it.
However, if you notice she frequently brushes past you when she walks past you,
that's a good sign that she wants the touch, she likes touching you,
she wants the touch, and she's very much attracted to you.
Now with this sign, and honestly with all the signs you're learning in this video,
it is obviously important to make sure that the woman is not toxic.
It's true that there are toxic women who will send
signs of interest and attraction just because they want attention.
And when they do this, they're setting you up
to fail, and it's sick and it's wrong and it shouldn't happen.
The skill of being able to identify toxic women is a skill that will serve you your entire life.
Far too many men think that it's just normal for women to treat you that way. It's not normal!
Or they think it's them. They think they're broken or there's something wrong with them.
When in fact, that's not it at all. It's the kinds of women you're hanging out with.
That's why in my Academy, I teach my clients both how to identify toxic women
and repel them, and then how to instead completely captivate and enchant the
kind of woman you're longing for, the kind of woman you deserve to be with,
who will be loving and kind and supportive in all the wonderful things that you're aching for.
So with this sign, with all these signs, just make sure that you're paying attention and you're on
the alert a little bit just to make sure that she's not toxic, that she is in fact sincere.
My next exciting sign that she wants to touch you
is that she touches you in natural ways. She breaks the touch barrier.
A good example of this would be maybe she puts her hand on your
arm when she's talking to you. Or maybe if she comes up behind you,
she puts her hand on your back or something to get your attention.
If she is breaking that touch barrier, that's a very, very good sign that she wants the barrier
broken. She is comfortable with you. She's attracted to you. She enjoys that touch.
So don't discredit the simple little ways that touch can happen. If that's happening,
especially frequently, it's a good sign it's because she likes it and she wants it.
Now, my next sign she wants to touch you is actually a really
good illustration of this. And that is if she playfully bumps you or pushes you.
Obviously not, like, pushes you, you know,
like, we're not talking about abuse here. That'd be awful.
Instead, if she just kind of playfully bumps up against you or pushes you, or, "Oh, hey,
you're so silly," or, "Oh, you make me laugh," or whatever it is, those little playful pushes
and bumps and such are ways for her to easily and flirtatiously break the touch barrier.
So again, don't discredit them. If this is happening frequently,
if she frequently is pushing you or bumping you or teasing you in those ways,
it's still her breaking the touch barrier. It means she likes the touch and she's
hoping you'll like the touch, and it's a good sign that she wants more of it.
I have a quick question for you before we get to our next exciting signs.
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Okay, my next exciting sign she wants to touch you kind of makes me chuckle
a little bit because we've all seen it in the movies a million times.
It's kind of cliche, but it works, and that's why it's so used over and
over and over again. And this sign is that she lets your hands touch.
I'm sure you've seen it, again, in the movies, where they both reach for something and their
hands touch and [singing] or something like that where maybe she's handing you something or you're
handing her something and your hands touch and she just lets them linger there, or whatever it is.
These are really good signs that she likes your touch,
she wants it, and that it's giving her those butterflies and making her feel amazing~
This is especially true if she really just lets the touch linger. You know, for instance,
if she's trying to show you something and she's holding it in her hands and your hands
come in and they overlap a little bit and she just leaves it, that's a good sign that she likes it.
Our next exciting sign she wants to touch you is that she finds excuses to touch you.
A good example of this would be brushing something off your shirt, your shoulder,
or whatever. Or, you know, you've seen it in the movies where they like get something
out of each other's hair or something like, "Oh, you have a leaf. Let me brush that off."
Whatever it is, if she is looking for excuses to touch you,
she doesn't have to do that. And it's kind of a flirtatious thing to do. And
if we're not attracted to someone, we're not really going to do that.
This is especially true if this happens frequently. Sometimes, just to be polite,
you'll be like, "Oh, hey, let," you know, "let me brush that off for you."
Or she'll just tell you to brush it off if she's not interested.
However, if she's finding those little excuses to touch you whenever she's around you,
or frequently when she's around you, well it's cuz she likes your touch.
She wants to touch you more, and she really wants you to touch her too.
Okay, my next exciting sign she wants to touch you might sound a little weird,
but stay with me and I'll explain it.
This sign is that she responds well when you touch her. You know, if you just wait around
and you never start, like, showing interest back, her attraction is going to die, okay?
A lot of guys don't realize this. If you do not start showing attraction and interest as well,
the attraction and the interest is going to die.
That's why it's so important to learn how to pursue a woman effectively. One, so it's
not awkward or uncomfortable for you. And two, so that it just supercharges her attraction for you.
That's why I teach how to pursue so in depth in my Academy. So when you are seeing these
signs that she is wanting to touch you, that she's attracted to you, and she likes you,
it's important to, you know, touch her back obviously in completely appropriate ways.
However, show some interest back. And the way she responds will let
you know if you read those signs correctly or not.
For instance, if she becomes giddy and excited and
even perhaps, you know, reciprocates even more. For instance, let's say you sit down close to
her and she maybe kind of scoots over a little bit more or something like that.
If she is receiving that touch well, that's a fabulous syndication that yes, you did read
the signs right, yes, she is interested, and yes, she likes where this is going.
If instead maybe you try something like, maybe you try to put your hand on her back
when you're talking to her or something like that. Something small and simple and she just becomes
uncomfortable or a little bit cold or kind of pulls away, then those are good signs that,
okay, something else is going on here, and so just back off. Don't make it awkward, just back off.
So notice how she reacts when you do something like letting your hands touch or something
like that. The way she reacts is kind of the best indication of how she feels about it.
And I'll just remind you real fast in case you forgot. If you are looking for
the answers to why a relationship can have all these signs of interest and attraction
and then still fall completely apart, I'm going to explain 3 reasons why in my free masterclass.
Just go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. Watch it now because you deserve answers!
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